Venting Constant thoughts of female → False sense of reality

[Sir Silentium]

I always imagine that she is by my side in whatever I am doing. It's a constant fake sense of companionship/relationship. It's a result of this previous post: our body accounting for what we naturally need – in which we don’t have. -->

Biological Response to a lack of Connection

When we are lacking a factor that biologically we need to have to survive and pass on genes - our body is naturally going to find ways to account and fill the gaps. When the brain lacks something essential (connection, intimacy, belonging), it doesn’t shut down - it compensates. Such as: Being...

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I'm not even trying to imagine she is by my side anymore, it just naturally happens throughout the entire day. It's been like this for around 8 months - I’ve tried to get the thought of her by my side out of my mind, but I can't. And the worse part is, it leads me to second guessing every little action I do, feeling that someone is watching over me. Although as a whole, I somewhat like the feeling it gives me, but in the long run, the harm would be evident.

Constant thoughts about her + daydreaming eventually lead to her naturally being in the centre of my mind. I thought originally that this would all be short-term, no longer than few weeks or so and I would just eventually get over it. 7-8 months later and I’m still in the same boat.

It’s all so tiresome, and time consuming to. It’s hard to focus on the task at hand with her constantly in my head every few minutes.

Understanding the blackpill has helped so much with all of it, knowing that if she doesn’t want me, then I can’t change that. And I would be a cuck/simp to pursue.


Any brocels know what I should do about it? Or should I just stick with it?

@Last2025cel @subhumanmonkey

And if you think about her without doing anything with her, your brain will imagine things. The longer you wonder if she likes you or not, the longer you'll think there's a genuine possibility that she does. The longer you live in delusion, the harder you'll be struck by the harsh reality.

And getting rid of oneitis at that point is like getting rid of terminal cancer.

 

[cathuluelitist]

Make your tulpa headmate out of their anima and fuck her via sensual imposition. I made a whole thread on it.

 

[VanGobbel]

Make your tulpa headmate out of their anima and fuck her via sensual imposition.

 

[Last2025cel]

It's exactly the same with me and my oneitis. She's been stuck in my mind since the day I met here (almost 4 years now). Looking at pictures of her or calling her (she does answer sometimes and talks to me for a few minutes but she only does it to be nice, she's rejected me every time I asked her out) helps it go away for some time, then it comes back.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

I still think from time to time about my first uni oneitis who eventually rejected me 4 years ago. I waited so long before asking her out that I'm scarred for life with daydreams and delusions.

I didn't last a few hours at a new job to have a new oneitis because MY BRAIN IS A FUCKING CUCK

 

[Sir Silentium]

It's exactly the same with me and my oneitis. She's been stuck in my mind since the day I met here (almost 4 years now). Looking at pictures of her or calling her (she does answer sometimes and talks to me for a few minutes but she only does it to be nice, she's rejected me every time I asked her out) helps it go away for some time, then it comes back.

4 years is a long time. Far out I sure hope I’ve forgotten all about her in 4 years.

At least you talk to her I guess, mine has blocked me on all socials and leaves me on seen.

 

[subhumanmonkey]

Same happened to me truth be told I don't think you can let go unless you replace her to be infatuated with someone else

 

[andrej]

Same. I wish she was real

 

[andrej]

Oh wait you are talking about a real foid I thought its like imaginary jfl

 

[deleted dude]

over for schizocels.is

 

[Sir Silentium]

Oh wait you are talking about a real foid I thought its like imaginary jfl

I wish

Same happened to me truth be told I don't think you can let go unless you replace her to be infatuated with someone else

Truth, sadly it's a result of inceldom, our brain has to account for what we naturally need biologically - and there is nothing we can do.