Venting Confessed for the first time and got rejected, does it ever get better?

[FireWolf]

not sure I used the right category cause im still learning how this thing works but its all in the title. I asked out this girl in my uni class and she straight up froze, apologized and left. I've known her for about 2 years and we were getting closer, she's not that good looking either so I don't understand why it didn't work. i never confessed in the past when I had crushes because I always knew I'd be getting rejected anyways, but the one time I was sure it'd work it didn't. did anyone have a similar experience? I'm trying to think it was just bad luck but I've never been more than friends with a woman and I'm already 19 so im starting to think maybe im the problem?

 

[CRASH THE CUCK]

no

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

It only gets worse

 

[Vector2800]

I’ve known her for about 2 years and we were getting closer

The first thing you should do is stop orbiting these whores. You’re just giving them free attention and contributing to Juggernaut theory.

 

[Max Doltman]

how foids are even beckies.

 

[FireWolf]

The first thing you should do is stop orbiting these whores. You’re just giving them free attention and contributing to Juggernaut theory.

whats even juggernaut theory?

 

[Deleted Member 8090]

whats even juggernaut theory?

Fat ugly bitches get simps because men think they have a chance since she's not pretty

 

[Caichan]

Fat ugly bitches get simps because men think they have a chance since she's not pretty

u forgot that it leads to these foids having an insane SMV which makes them a juggernaut (also insane confidence)

 

[FireWolf]

It only gets worse

really? idk man maybe it just wasn't the right one yknow?

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

No
Welcome to .is

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

and I'm already 19

Kids.is

 

[nakolas]

Ok GrAY

 

[LeFrenchCel]

It DOESN'T get better.

Never.

Even if you cope the hardest you can, things will always get worse and worse every day that passes.

 

[FireWolf]

It DOESN'T get better.

Never.

Even if you cope the hardest you can, things will always get worse and worse every day that passes.

so what am I supposed to do about it? just ignore it and move on?

 

[LeFrenchCel]

so what am I supposed to do about it? just ignore it and move on?

Getting rejected is part of an incel's life

She made you understand she didn't want to be with you and she won't change her mind, there's no point in forcing things and asking her out again. You got rejected so try to forget about her asap before she lives rent free in your brain forever

 

[FireWolf]

Getting rejected is part of an incel's life

She made you understand she didn't want to be with you and she won't change her mind, there's no point in forcing things and asking her out again. You got rejected so try to forget about her asap before she lives rent free in your brain forever

yeah I planned on cutting her off but you said I should expect only worse from now on. does it mean that all women will treat me that way?

 

[LeFrenchCel]

yeah I planned on cutting her off but you said I should expect only worse from now on. does it mean that all women will treat me that way?

Expect every woman you ask out to reject you

 

[Max Doltman]

yeah I planned on cutting her off but you said I should expect only worse from now on. does it mean that all women will treat me that way?

are you ugly or what?

 

[FireWolf]

are you ugly or what?

average if not below

 

[truendmtn]

not sure I used the right category cause im still learning how this thing works but its all in the title. I asked out this girl in my uni class and she straight up froze, apologized and left. I've known her for about 2 years and we were getting closer, she's not that good looking either so I don't understand why it didn't work. i never confessed in the past when I had crushes because I always knew I'd be getting rejected anyways, but the one time I was sure it'd work it didn't. did anyone have a similar experience? I'm trying to think it was just bad luck but I've never been more than friends with a woman and I'm already 19 so im starting to think maybe im the problem?

Its inflation these women think they are the shit even if they are fat and ugly

 

[xxectrapieces]

Its inflation these women think they are the shit even if they are fat and ugly

Hello, .org refugee.

 

[truendmtn]

Hello, .org refugee.

Hello to you aswell!

 

[VanGobbel]

she's not that good looking either so I don't understand why it didn't work.

No matter how ugly they are, they are still Chad only. Also, never try to move from the friendszone into the datingzone lol.

At least you got confirmation about your incel status boyo. Embrace the nothingness.

 

[TooSomething]

Ok, she froze up, apologized and just left.

When has that happened?

How many days ago?

 

[Solid State]

It only gets worse, because not only are you likely to get rejected in the future, but you are also likely to get accused of "sexual harassment" on top of rejection and have white knights, HR, and possibly even the cops after you as a result.

 

[sodym]

Have you spoken to her again?

Is she talking to other guys?

 

[BlackPilledNormi]

Probably wont get better, depending on how youre individual situation.

You can keep tryin to approach women and try to get lucky with some foid (I wouldnt bet on it) or you resign and dont even start trying again.

I dont say that one of these options is better they both have there up and downs and your gonna find here advocats for both

 

[Lonelyus]

My oneitis rejected me and told me she is in open relationships, She friendzoned me too, It got too painful so i blocked her and cried

 

[VanGobbel]

Is she talking to other guys?

Is water wet?

 

[AdolfRizzler]

It DOESN'T get better.

Never.

Even if you cope the hardest you can, things will always get worse and worse every day that passes.

 

[FireWolf]

When has that happened?

happened this week-end

 

[PersonalityChad]

It just gets worse

 

[Blackpill Monk]

Water is wet

 

[FireWolf]

Have you spoken to her again?

Is she talking to other guys?

no tbh I didn't feel like talking to anyone after that and we don't have class together this week so I didn't see her. but I don't think she's talking to anyone, she doesn't really go out, she's very shy and we're almost always together so I would've noticed I think?

 

[TooSomething]

happened this week-end

What day though? It is already Thursday.

The rule of thumb is this. If you have made it clear to her that you want more from her than just a friendship then it is up to her to react to it.
She has the ball now and has to decide what to do next.
Her freezing up, apologizing and leaving didn't have to mean anything bad, BUT, coninue reading.

Let's assume it has happened on Sunday last weekend and she hasn't contacted you about this matter in any way up until Wednesday, then forget her, because the rule of thumb says that it usually takes foids up to three days to contact the man they like, IF he does goe radio silent all of a sudden.

Especially after this revelation, it is now her turn. You have done your part.

BUT again, since she hasn't contacted you about this matter until Wednesday, forget her.

She is not interested in you in that way. You are a fallback guy at best, if she does not get the guy whom she truely wants.

Fact of the matter is this, they all have a roster nowadays and you are apparently not #1 in that roster but #unknown.

And you don't want to figure out which # you are man, because if you aren't #1 then you don't want to hang around. Maybe you are not even a plan B, plan C type of guy in her eyes, but just an orbiter whom she needs for favours and as an emotional tampon and such.

Stay away from that bitch, man. Save face and stay away. Don't make any scene. Don't ask her why.
Know your worth. You owe it to yourself.

She must understand that she is not the center of the world.

If anything, the bitch has to apologize to you for treating you this way and not talking to you later on.

Again, don't approach her. It is her turn now. But know this, whatever shit she comes up with now, is a lie, because if you were her #1 she would have made time for you. They are whores like that.
Even if her dad died or some shit, she would make time for Chad, believe that.

 

[TheNextElliotRodger]

The first thing you should do is stop orbiting these whores. You’re just giving them free attention and contributing to Juggernaut theory.

 

[FireWolf]

What day though? It is already Thursday.

The rule of thumb is this. If you have made it clear to her that you want more from her than just a friendship then it is up to her to react to it.
She has the ball now and has to decide what to do next.
Her freezing up, apologizing and leaving didn't have to mean anything bad, BUT, coninue reading.

Let's assume it has happened on Sunday last weekend and she hasn't contacted you about this matter in any way up until Wednesday, then forget her, because the rule of thumb says that it usually takes foids up to three days to contact the man they like, IF he does goe radio silent all of a sudden.

Especially after this revelation, it is now her turn. You have done your part.

BUT again, since she hasn't contacted you about this matter until Wednesday, forget her.

She is not interested in you in that way. You are a fallback guy at best, if she does not get the guy whom she truely wants.

Fact of the matter is this, they all have a roster nowadays and you are apparently not #1 in that roster but #unknown.

And you don't want to figure out which # you are man, because if you aren't #1 then you don't want to hang around. Maybe you are not even a plan B, plan C type of guy in her eyes, but just an orbiter whom she needs for favours and as an emotional tampon and such.

Stay away from that bitch, man. Save face and stay away. Don't make any scene. Don't ask her why.
Know your worth. You owe it to yourself.

She must understand that she is not the center of the world.

If anything, the bitch has to apologize to you for treating you this way and not talking to you later on.

Again, don't approach her. It is her turn now. But know this, whatever shit she comes up with now, is a lie, because if you were her #1 she would have made time for you. They are whores like that.
Even if her dad died or some shit, she would make time for Chad, believe that.

well that was a lot to take in, gonna need some time to digest it. it was on sunday so you're probably right, thanks man.

 

[The Judge]

My friend—since you are still young, allow me to offer you some well-intentioned advice: The sooner you realize there is no "right one" and that there never will be, the sooner you can finally be at peace with yourself.

Once upon a time ago, I used to be as you are now. I was a naïve romantic at heart and believed that maybe, just maybe if I met a nice, lonely girl with nerdy interests, she might see actually something in me. Do you know what happened? My was ripped out of my chest repeatedly and stomped on as if it were a newborn puppy gifted to someone who never wanted it. Over. And over. And over. It was from that gaping, bleeding wound that the cold, detached, hateful individual you see now emerged—baptized by the tears of grief and despair and reborn anew.

For your own sake, stop pursuing women. Why would any of them choose YOU when they have thousands of higher value men tripping over them? Do you honestly believe that there is even a SINGLE female organism on the planet who is currently thinking "Why can't I meet an ugly, possibly neurodivergent subhuman to date and eventually marry?"

This is not a fairy-tale. This is reality—and reality is nothing but cruel and unfair. There is no happy ending for the likes of us.

 

[Violet loner]

not sure I used the right category cause im still learning how this thing works but its all in the title. I asked out this girl in my uni class and she straight up froze, apologized and left. I've known her for about 2 years and we were getting closer, she's not that good looking either so I don't understand why it didn't work. i never confessed in the past when I had crushes because I always knew I'd be getting rejected anyways, but the one time I was sure it'd work it didn't. did anyone have a similar experience? I'm trying to think it was just bad luck but I've never been more than friends with a woman and I'm already 19 so im starting to think maybe im the problem?

Dunno, boyo, you seems kinda not knowledgable about blackpill. Where did you even learned about this site?

 

[TouhouMathcel]

According to your replies, I don't really think you're an incel at all. It would be probably better for you to leave this forum and keep approaching foids until you either ascend or become blackpilled

 

[GigaL0ser]

so im starting to think maybe im the problem?

your facial structure is the problem man

 

[Emba]

 

[gotet]

You are still Young i presume so maybe you can become like Peter North one day. Time is still on your side.

 

[StoryOfMyLaugh]

I remember my first time asking a female out. Rejected and ridiculed for weeks at a time by the same female.

It only gets worse.

 

[Punished Watcher]

You're young, man. And this was your first time. It's too early to say whether or not it gets easier. Yes, women have inflated egos. Yes, women are chad-only. And yes, once she views you as a friend, she can't view you as anything else. The friend zone is inescapable. Like others have said, you told her how you felt, the ball's in her court, now. If that was the last you saw or heard from her, then she never really cared for you at all. Not even enough to give you a straight "no". Don't be an orbiter, you're better than that. From this moment on, you're nobody's orbiter, alright?
Keep all this in mind going forward, but don't give up yet, brother. I hope for your sake that you don't belong here. Godpseed

 

[Pikacel]

not sure I used the right category cause im still learning how this thing works but its all in the title. I asked out this girl in my uni class and she straight up froze, apologized and left. I've known her for about 2 years and we were getting closer, she's not that good looking either so I don't understand why it didn't work. i never confessed in the past when I had crushes because I always knew I'd be getting rejected anyways, but the one time I was sure it'd work it didn't. did anyone have a similar experience? I'm trying to think it was just bad luck but I've never been more than friends with a woman and I'm already 19 so im starting to think maybe im the problem?

Eh keep approaching IMO

 

[Hevel]

im starting to think maybe im the problem?

No, you're not the problem, the world is.

And to answer your question:

No, it doesn't get better (not by human hand at least), the sooner you understand it, the fewer wounds you save yourself.
(Despite all this, you will get strong negative feelings when you realize that you never got teenage love.)

 

[SupremeSaint]

No
Welcome to .is

 

[3rdspecimen]

I've had a very similar experience. I was starting to think that we were getting closer and that it would make sense for it to lead to something... but it didnt.