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can you spot a loner based solely on his behavior, manners and demeanor?

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Body language that seems closed-off or uncomfortable in social situations? Could someone make an "educated guess" based on how one carries oneself? Could a neighbour in the neighborhood say "I'm pretty sure that guy is a loner" just based off social behavior?
 
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Kind of. There is this uncomfortable body language like you said but also their way of talking
 
Kind of. There is this uncomfortable body language like you said but also their way of talking
interesting. because my parents have always been saying that. even neighbors who live a few houses away and can't see the comings and goings around our house "just know," they say, because "it's obvious." I'm 28 and autistic or I just behave autistically because of my looks.
 
Body language that seems closed-off or uncomfortable in social situations? Could someone make an "educated guess" based on how one carries oneself? Could a neighbour in the neighborhood say "I'm pretty sure that guy is a loner" just based off social behavior?
if he's forced into loneliness you can tell by his skull :feelskek:
if he choses to be lonely, you can tell if he just avoids interaction, is closed off, and such
 
of course even by looking at peoples hands you can determine what kind of person they are
 
Body language that seems closed-off or uncomfortable in social situations? Could someone make an "educated guess" based on how one carries oneself? Could a neighbour in the neighborhood say "I'm pretty sure that guy is a loner" just based off social behavior?
you can tell by their body language immensely
 
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Fun fact: It takes about 13 milliseconds to scan someones face and make a subconscious judgement about him
 
of course even by looking at peoples hands you can determine what kind of person they are
that's interesting, so fat hands clearly show a different person than skinny hands?
 
that's interesting, so fat hands clearly show a different person than skinny hands?
more like the movement if the person has the hands still or barely moving they are clearly extroverted or are comfy if they are in the pockets then the person has body dismorphia or any other shame about themselves. if they keep moving then they are socialy anxious. skinny people are usualy more quiet since we are weaker most of these are just what i found other facial features could also identify stuff these may not be all 100 percent true tho
 
Yes, I can spot my kind from a mile away.
 
that's interesting, so fat hands clearly show a different person than skinny hands?
its actually a very interesting topic i forgot the techical name for it
 
more like the movement if the person has the hands still or barely moving they are clearly extroverted or are comfy if they are in the pockets then the person has body dismorphia or any other shame about themselves. if they keep moving then they are socialy anxious. skinny people are usualy more quiet since we are weaker most of these are just what i found other facial features could also identify stuff these may not be all 100 percent true tho
i see, yeah that makes sense although I've never thought so deeply about it...

I'm naturally self-conscious as a 5'4/1.62m, 28 year old dude and also skinny, so I can relate
 
i see, yeah that makes sense although I've never thought so deeply about it...

I'm naturally self-conscious as a 5'4/1.62m, 28 year old dude and also skinny, so I can relate
its one of my favourite pass times walking around and looking at people we each behave in such weird ways
 
i can tell without even looking at them, it’s aural permeation and dissipated humiliation science surrendering to the forced soys of the moment. i’m like shiet you’re not supposed to reveal your power level like that bro
 
not all loners are incels. many loners are just normie scum
 
The moment I see a videogame t-shirt on a 20+ year old male, I know for a FACT they have not seen an inch of vagina in their entire lives. Sounds mean I know but trust, once I get to know them I always get proven more and more right.
 
i think you can esp if u've lived it, specifically through demeanor, its quiet, not because they want to be but because they’ve been conditioned to expect rejection or indifference, most people just call it “weird” and move on.
 
i think you can esp if u've lived it, specifically through demeanor, its quiet, not because they want to be but because they’ve been conditioned to expect rejection or indifference, most people just call it “weird” and move on.
Interesting name and first post
 
I can spot the loner in any crowd!
 
Interesting name and first post
well the name fits where im at, i spent enough time trying to pass as normal, hoping things would click but they never did, so my first post was just me laying it out without filters.
 
Yes for sure. I just need to look for someone who behaves similarly to me.
 
The moment I see a videogame t-shirt on a 20+ year old male, I know for a FACT they have not seen an inch of vagina in their entire lives. Sounds mean I know but trust, once I get to know them I always get proven more and more right.
Good point, I get what you mean. I never wear such t-shirts, but I'm short and skinny. I also behave very autistically and awkwardly, like those videogame t-shirt wearing males do.
 
i think you can esp if u've lived it, specifically through demeanor, its quiet, not because they want to be but because they’ve been conditioned to expect rejection or indifference, most people just call it “weird” and move on.
good point... I talk hesitantly, haltingly, my back isn't straight, I don't talk a lot, my eyes are more on the ground than straight. My height (5'4") and edit-SKINNY frame don't exactly help, neither does my face.
 
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I‘m so insecure about my walk. I have been told multiple times that I walk weird. I don’t swing my shoulders and it feels unnatural when I focus on swinging them. I also have narrow clavicles so my arms flare out. It looks so akward and I hate it.
 
good point... I talk hesitantly, haltingly, my back isn't straight, I don't talk a lot, my eyes are more on the ground than straight. My height (5'4") and edit-SKINNY frame don't exactly help, neither does my face.
brutal man, i hate the fact that we have to live with these conditions permanently.
 
I‘m so insecure about my walk. I have been told multiple times that I walk weird. I don’t swing my shoulders and it feels unnatural when I focus on swinging them. I also have narrow clavicles so my arms flare out. It looks so akward and I hate it.
do u wear skinny or loose clothes?
 
people can sense when you're conscious of how you're perceived by others, and they HATE IT
they can see when you're wary of how you move your legs
Chad is never conscious of anything because he never had to self-reflect and self-correct, his default behavior is effective at the evolution game, he is basically an NPC on autopilot
NPCs HATE consciousness
 
You can spot most loners by their looks and body language, but there are some who can fit in with normies when they want to.
 
it takes one to know one
 
Body language that seems closed-off or uncomfortable in social situations? Could someone make an "educated guess" based on how one carries oneself? Could a neighbour in the neighborhood say "I'm pretty sure that guy is a loner" just based off social behavior?
Sometimes you can tell. But many times i also feel that people that behave very open and funny around other people might also in fact be quite lonely. They just try to hide it...
 

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