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Discussion Can being a standardcel at an early age lead to inceldom later?

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This poll got me thinking, for the dudes who rejected foids in the past, did they miss their window of opportunity? I think they might have. If you are virgin shamed in school, it hurts your social standing. If you have an oppurtunity with an ugly girl, even if you don't like her, you should take it for the "social proof" of not being inexperienced. Essentially it's a sociopathic move, use a girl as a means to an end, but as we know nice guys finish last. Now of course I'm not saying these dudes would've been Chads if they accepted their offers, but perhaps they could have integrated into normie social circles easier had they capitalized on their opportunities.

Thoughts?
 
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Yes, but not because being a virgin makes you unfuckable. That comes later. It's more about being so old that your sexual opportunities become limited to the point of impractical.
 
Rejecting foids in the past? Mogs me.
 
I doubt the facts of the poll. Sure, a lot of us can say we have standards, but if presented with the chance, would we refuse?

I do not have any standards besides not fat and not black. If perhaps maybe a 20 pounds overweight white female showed interest, would I really refuse? I could say yes here, but probably I would fuck.
 
can confirm. I avoided girls before puberty because girls have cooties >_<
 
I doubt the facts of the poll. Sure, a lot of us can say we have standards, but if presented with the chance, would we refuse?

I do not have any standards besides not fat and not black. If perhaps maybe a 20 pounds overweight white female showed interest, would I really refuse? I could say yes here, but probably I would fuck.
That's not what I'm asking bro. I'm talking about dudes who literally rejected a foid.
Yes, but not because being a virgin makes you unfuckable. That comes later. It's more about being so old that your sexual opportunities become limited to the point of impractical.
I was thinking more along the lines of your social standing being hurt when people find out you're a virgin, as well as missing out on females being drawn to you due to "pre-selection".
 
That's not what I'm asking bro. I'm talking about dudes who literally rejected a foid.
I know. I think that minority is very small and the majority of people who voted they did on that forum is LARP or inflation. If the polls are to be believed 2 of us in this thread out of 4 unique members have rejected a female.
 
Yes. In some cases virgins who aren't complete trucels can ascend during high school but it's rare.
 
Anyone who has rejected a honest advance from a woman is not an incel in my book.
 
I know. I think that minority is very small and the majority of people who voted they did on that forum is LARP or inflation. If the polls are to be believed 2 of us in this thread out of 4 unique members have rejected a female.
I think it's closer to a third than a half, but I get the gist of what you are saying.

Either way, what are your opinions on standardceldom leading to later inceldom.
Yes. In some cases virgins who aren't complete trucels can ascend during high school but it's rare.
This is what I was thinking, early developmental milestones need to be capitalized on, even if it's with an undesirable foid.
Fuck them. Fakecel if you have ever turned down a foid.

It is a disgrace to truecels like me who have been mocked and shamed by foids. Foids calling me an "ugly virgin nigger who should kill himself" and other names.

See thread: https://incels.is/threads/at-school-i-got-insulted-and-shit-on-by-foids-again-truecel-trait.185037/

Anyone who has rejected a honest advance from a woman is not an incel in my book.
Not quite, you are a truecel but inceldom isn't a black or white thing. You can be volcel early when female standards aren't as high then become incel due to higher standards.
 
Are you regretting stuff?
 
Either way, what are your opinions on standardceldom leading to later inceldom.
I believe being a standardcel early in life can fuck you over if you will look worse later I.e norwooding. Also height isn’t as bad because of course people are still growing.

now, you can ascend, but for long term it does not matter. Having a “long term” relationship young will cuck you when you are adult.
 
I believe being a standardcel early in life can fuck you over if you will look worse later I.e norwooding. Also height isn’t as bad because of course people are still growing.

now, you can ascend, but for long term it does not matter. Having a “long term” relationship young will cuck you when you are adult.
How will it "cuck" you? Because you don't find the blackpill and remain a normie?
 
How will it "cuck" you? Because you don't find the blackpill and remain a normie?
No, because the female you are with will eventually cheat on you due to men rising in height and people growing and developing. That’s why high school couples/sweethearts never persist past high school
 
Idk if it's so complicated. Acquiring social proof and getting laid for its own sake doesn't seem so sociopathic to me. I'd pump and dump an ugly girl with no remorse and still feel like John Q Citizen.
 
The only time a girl was truly interested in me was like at 5 years old
 
Idk if it's so complicated. Acquiring social proof and getting laid for its own sake doesn't seem so sociopathic to me. I'd pump and dump an ugly girl with no remorse and still feel like John Q Citizen.
Well I wasn't really trying to portray it as evil, the point is that someone might want a cute 5+/10 girl and get an offer from a 3. They should capitalize and ascend so they don't have the stigma of being a virgin.
 
Well I wasn't really trying to portray it as evil, the point is that someone might want a cute 5+/10 girl and get an offer from a 3. They should capitalize and ascend so they don't have the stigma of being a virgin.
I guess you know me well enough by now to know I agree with that entirely. I fancy myself a rather hardlined anti volcelcel
 
I doubt the facts of the poll. Sure, a lot of us can say we have standards, but if presented with the chance, would we refuse?

I do not have any standards besides not fat and not black. If perhaps maybe a 20 pounds overweight white female showed interest, would I really refuse? I could say yes here, but probably I would fuck.
20 pounds is nothing
 
Yeah. Highschool and middleschool are easier due to no tinder, meeting peers daily and there being inexperienced girls that might consider even a low tier normie for a little while.
 
Absolutely. I was standardscel during hs. rejected foids twice lmao. and now i am giga trucel at 28. just fucking lol. if i knew this was gonna happen, would have acted differently.
 
Having sex with an ugly girl in the past wouldn't have done anything for you today.
 
Having sex with an ugly girl in the past wouldn't have done anything for you today.
I don't know about me, but are you sure that is the case for everyone? I mean, you must admit virgin shaming exists, no? Therefore that would go away if sex with an ugly girl happened.
 
I don't know about me, but are you sure that is the case for everyone? I mean, you must admit virgin shaming exists, no? Therefore that would go away if sex with an ugly girl happened.

Your virginity should be something private, first and foremost.

It isn't about hitting an imaginary score or milestone; sex should be with someone you love and only that.

Meaningless sex with an ugly girl in the past isn't preferable to virginity.
 
Could somebody please tell me what a standardcel means? Thanks.
 
Your virginity should be something private, first and foremost.

It isn't about hitting an imaginary score or milestone; sex should be with someone you love and only that.

Meaningless sex with an ugly girl in the past isn't preferable to virginity.
I used to believe in Ideals too.
 
Your virginity should be something private, first and foremost.

It isn't about hitting an imaginary score or milestone; sex should be with someone you love and only that.

Meaningless sex with an ugly girl in the past isn't preferable to virginity.
arguable, people on this forum talk about developmental milestones
Could somebody please tell me what a standardcel means? Thanks.
It's basically a volcel, someone who can't get laid with the foids they want but have offers from foids they don't want and don't fuck them
 
Imagine your sex experience being "that one ugly girl in high school" how is that preferable to virginity?

Forever tainted.
I'd feel less like shit tbh.
 
I explicitly rejected a foid once. She was kinda cute, but fat and she had been with half town before.
 
Imagine your sex experience being "that one ugly girl in high school" how is that preferable to virginity?

Forever tainted.
Damned if you do, damned if you don't?

Also, are we in a position to talk about others uglyness? I'm a 4/10, how many options do i have?
 

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