Brocels do you think I should bother waiting for my friend who left me after getting a gf or is he done with our friendship for good?

[slapthatsillywilly]

My childhood friend of 20+ years ended our friendship around a month after meeting a girl. I haven't heard from him in more than a year but I haven't given up on him because he was my best friend. I text him every day on WhatsApp asking how are you and he hasn't blocked me because 2 checks but never replies. I've been texting him every day since March, should I give up as a lost cause or might he one day want to be friends again? I can't believe he would really throw away our friendship forever.

Edited to add: we were both each other's only friends, how can a girlfriend take so much time? Besides it was an online relationship only.

 

[light]

give up as a lost cause

 

[SuperKanga.Belgrade]

Best to move on friend. The moment they split up he'll come running back. They always do.

 

[TheCatMan]

Definitely give up. He left you and ignores you. If he does come back then you were a last resort for him and he will do it again if he gets a new girlfriend.

 

[supersoldier]

he dumped you like rubbish the moment some becky showed interest in him, he is piece of shit

 

[Animecel2D]

Nah it’s over

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

Best to move on friend. The moment they split up he'll come running back. They always do.

I hope he reaches out once that bitch leaves him, I am desperate for friends so I would not give him a hard time about dropping me

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

he dumped you like rubbish the moment some becky showed interest in him, he is piece of shit

I know, to top it off it was an online girl and at the time he ended our friendship he had never even seen her picture or had a call with her but said she was clearly in love because she told him she was masturbating to him.

 

[Darth Aries]

Women ruin everything

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

Definitely give up. He left you and ignores you. If he does come back then you were a last resort for him and he will do it again if he gets a new girlfriend.

Yeah he treated me like shit but I miss having a friend also thanks for calling me friend @SuperKanga.Belgrade

 

[SuperKanga.Belgrade]

Yeah he treated me like shit but I miss having a friend also thanks for calling me friend @SuperKanga.Belgrade

Np mang.

I know it's tough, but over time it gets easier being alone. It normally just takes some type of hobby to find yourself.

 

[Hamst3R]

slapthatsillywilly​

Recruit​

★★★
JoinedNov 4, 2024Posts207

 

[PrototypeCel]

Best to move on friend. The moment they split up he'll come running back. They always do.

 

[Soystein]

he dumped you like rubbish the moment some becky showed interest in him, he is piece of shit

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

Women ruin everything

Yeah we used to to archery together and go on walks he would tell me about cars which was his hobby like @VideoGameCoper but as soon as he got a whiff of pussy he forgot me

 

[Darth Aries]

Yeah we used to to archery together and go on walks he would tell me about cars which was his hobby like @VideoGameCoper but as soon as he got a whiff of pussy he forgot me

Which is sad because 99% of the time women will eventually break up with you if you’re in a relationship with them, they love being whores. So he basically ruined a friendship over something temporary

 

[PrototypeCel]

if youre friend is a chad then yeah i recommend just letting the friendship go
if you decide to hang with him again youll be 3rd wheel all the time and youll be mogged
its not good
i had a chad friend and they think everything is going good for you because everything is going good for them they just assume you have it good and can get girls even though they never see you with one idk thats just what i been through
but if hes sub5 or normie and comes back after breakup befriend him again because he might not be able to get a girl again after that and youll have at least someone

 

[joocel52]

did you try to adress the issue directly? like demanding an explanation for him dissapearing?

 

[Skoga]

Definitely give up. He left you and ignores you. If he does come back then you were a last resort for him and he will do it again if he gets a new girlfriend.

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

if youre friend is a chad then yeah i recommend just letting the friendship go
if you decide to hang with him again youll be 3rd wheel all the time and youll be mogged
its not good
i had a chad friend and they think everything is going good for you because everything is going good for them they just assume you have it good
but if hes sub5 or normie and comes back after breakup befriend him again because he might not be able to get a girl again after that and youll have at least someone

He's sub5 like we are both uglymaxxed even though I'm definitely worse but he isn't attractive which is why he was also khhv at 28 when he met the girl online. Yeah I don't understand why he won't text me back

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

did you try to adress the issue directly? like demanding an explanation for him dissapearing?

Right after it happened I texted him once a month but he never replied and in March I began texting him every day never replied

 

[PrototypeCel]

He's sub5 like we are both uglymaxxed even though I'm definitely worse but he isn't attractive which is why he was also khhv at 28 when he met the girl online. Yeah I don't understand why he won't text me back

just see if he comes back
if he doesnt
forget it
give him a chance but dont text him or anything
this might be a lesson for him or something
nvm read the whole thing
just forget about it man
hes over with you unfortunately
just like many of us here whove been left over a girl

 

[joocel52]

Right after it happened I texted him once a month but he never replied and in March I began texting him every day never replied

its not worth it man. i think you should try to contact him once more and demaned an explanation for this. a "friend" of mine did something like this to me, and only when i demanded he explain he revealed he wanted to cease contact with me. admittedly as this is a childhood friend the case is diffrenet, but stop contacting him like this man, wont help

 

[Doesitmatter?]

Never trust normies

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

just see if he comes back
if he doesnt
forget it
give him a chance but dont text him or anything
this might be a lesson for him or something
nvm read the whole thing
just forget about it man
hes over with you unfortunately
just like many of us here whove been left for a girl

Yeah you're right I think, thanks for reading the whole thing

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

its not worth it man. i think you should try to contact him once more and demaned an explanation for this. a "friend" of mine did something like this to me, and only when i demanded he explain he revealed he wanted to cease contact with me. admittedly as this is a childhood friend the case is diffrenet, but stop contacting him like this man, wont help

Yeah you're right I've been acting like a simp lmao

 

[joocel52]

Yeah you're right I've been acting like a simp lmao

In my case, a perosn who was a close friend of mine, and an incel, just cut contact with me one dya. i at first worried something was wrong, but realized he was active online. after a month i demanded an explanation and he basically told me he views me as some sort of nazi fascist and doesnt want to be my friend anymore. you never know what people think if they dont say it - best to find out and not to simp and beg

 

[slapthatsillywilly]

In my case, a perosn who was a close friend of mine, and an incel, just cut contact with me one dya. i at first worried something was wrong, but realized he was active online. after a month i demanded an explanation and he basically told me he views me as some sort of nazi fascist and doesnt want to be my friend anymore. you never know what people think if they dont say it - best to find out and not to simp and beg

Man I'm sorry he cut contact and even if you were a nazi fascist so what just agree to disagree, not saying you are. I did ask but he won't answer my texts I guess I'll let it go

 

[VintageCarCoper]

Yeah we used to to archery together and go on walks he would tell me about cars which was his hobby like @VideoGameCoper but as soon as he got a whiff of pussy he forgot me

That’s sad man

 

[Incel.Belgrade]

Women ruin everything