modern_grendel said:
I'm a student, so I want to keep at it so I can hopefully fund my coping in the future. Other than the career, I'd like to keep writing music. I've been doing incelcore mainly because that is what inspires me the most at the moment, but I think I will try to write less blackpilled stuff so I can take it to local clubs and start playing some singer-songwriter type shit. I also have been teaching myself coding and computer graphics and would like to eventually make a game.
What are your goals?
INB4 Cope. Of course it is, but pursuit of these goals can still end up being a source of meaning and eventually happiness.
This is called the whitepill minus explicitly focusing on all parts of health. It's literally just self improvement, which at best is unrelated to sex at all and at worst is just blue/redpill in disguise.
I love "copes" too and see them as more valid and useful, not just a 'second-hand replacement to sex'. Sex is equal to my other pursuits. The problem is that as something that requires other people to agree -and accept you socially- it's much harder to get, than say, vidya or music. But it's just as valuable, no more or less. You can't weigh hobbies or desires like that.
The reason this board exists imo is not because true love, romance, and passioned sex is the center of life but rather because western media pushes you to believe that it is while simultaneously denying it to all but the most worthy. It's key to life in the sense that a partner, children, and family, can bring you the most joy, but these things can also ruin and break your life. But there's money to be made in pushing rushed relationships and the fallouts from them, so society pushes it. Sex sells.
We need to unseat the elites before we can talk seriously about society's "sexpectations" in a neutral and unbiased way.
