I have almost no employment potential. Even if I had money, countless studies have shown that the significant majority of women - feminists included - look down on a man that doesn't work more than a man looks down on a woman for not working. It tells them that they have no ambition, no skills, and can't be relied on. There is a huge difference between choosing not to work temporarily to experience something when you're young - and not being able to work at all, if ever. So I've read, even if you are well educated and even if you have financial means without having to work (aka FIRE movement etc), not working before reasonable retirement age is a major red flag turn off.
