CopingForBrutality
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We’ve all at one point had to ask ourselves why we are so miserable, is it a lack of sex? Is it because we don’t get any genuine love? The answer is neither. The actuality is that society’s worship of women is the cause of our suffering, you are most likely guilty of it even though you would not like to believe so. Incels try to distance themselves from normies and think we are not like this, but many here undoubtedly like them, just in different form which I’ll explain later on. When too much fake credit is given to a woman or the female condition, the value of such object is inflated through various forms of mimetic desire causing ample amounts of greed, envy and resentment to be instilled upon our hearts. We compete and compete with other men and are led to believe that it is very attainable, we are told it is a great deal to have, that’s what the bluepillers have told us since we are born but when we realise we can’t attain a promised grandeur we are filled with extreme negative emotions. When our heart has too much of these feelings it is an inevitable creation of a never-ending cycle of constant misery. Eventually, when too many people have this, it causes eventual societal decay.
A common problem users face on this forum is that they are desiring to mimic Chad, we’ve seen him and heard about that guy in books, television and oral accounts but since we are not actually Chad, (un)knowingly trying to mimic him is only going to cause us deep trouble. It is extremely dangerous for us to try to desire something that is unattainable, rare and a façade. It is like a transgender trying to become a female and then wondering why they are so depressed; transgenders have such high suicide rates because they are trying so hard or desiring to become something that they will never be, they are bringing forth pain for no reason.
But since sex is actually a biological need it must be justifiable to have such desires? Attaining sex isn’t the problem, if you are on this forum then it’s likely you're from a country in the Western World, working hard for a year can buy you sex even if you are in a profession that pays little, it will just take longer. If you’re from America, you can buy a plane ticket to the Western European countries for attaining sex. Oh no, but going to prostitutes is cucked though, I will never do such behaviour! But believing that real love exists to a point that women have some magical ability to cure some void in any lonely man’s life, thus artificially inflating the value of foids because of a Hollywood fantasy and making them more hypergamous by believing they have some superhuman ability is NOT THE BEHAVIOUR OF A SIMP AND CUCKOLD? That is more simpworthy and more societally destructive than men going to prostitutes because you are allowing Chad to attain more and more power whilst beta males get less scraps by the year. Prostitution has been there since the dawn of civilisation, yet the amount of cuckery this society is going through is a recent phenomenon. Foid worship is multifolds worse, most incels and normies are guilty of this, it is more damaging to society than visiting a prostitute for sex, it’s not even a comparison.
But..but.. no real love from prostitute sex, I want genuine love. Believing real love exists or the so called ‘real love’ purported by Hollywood is further inflating the fake credit given to the object at hand (foid), we are inflating the foid’s actual value and making ourselves more miserable by believing in that nonsense. You can make an entire thread on proving that ‘real love’ is really just a façade but I’ll cut it short. The modern average relationship isn’t that much better than being an incel when you look at through a realistic unbiased lens, I don't have to prove this, just look at the divorce rates, even if they aren't divorced look at how unfulfilling some people's relationships are, simply a relationship between a man and a women is far more complex than we’d like to believe. It is a combination of factors, some elements being better than an incel and some worse, it has its fair share of both and doesn’t always skews to the positive side. When you average it out, it’s not light years ahead of being an incel. It has its up and downs for sure but the idea that real love or true love (whatever you want to call it) is complete rubbish and a fantasy novel sold by Hollywood, it is as real as Atlantis. Keep in mind not even Chad experiences it otherwise high status men like Tom Brady, the recent Morrocan footballer and Johnny Depp would be completely immune to getting cucked, the closest concept of true love you can experience is the small window of the honeymoon phase which eventually dims quickly as time passes. You will just become too used to the relationship and be back to where you started, it is not true contentment. Here is a thread and article on it.
Furthermore, the concept of "warmth of a woman" is a misguided belief that many incels hold. The idea that a woman can provide a unique warmth and comfort is a myth that has been perpetuated by society and the media, it is blatant foid worship and simping to a whole other level. Believing that foids have the personality or characteristic of some superhero/mythical creature to cure the emptiness inside you or has some unique property is cucked. The idea of a biological desire for a woman's warmth is incorrect anyways, it is not the same as the biological motherly instinct given to a child or father to better his children, it is a mimetic desire because you are trying to copy the desire society has placed upon you, the valid biological desire we have with women is attaining sex or motherly love, the former is easy to access because I’ve shown you how to do it earlier. Men do not need a woman's warmth to live a fulfilling life because it is not a biological desire, it is mimetic desire, only sex and motherly love is biological desire. Besides, we have the capacity to experience warmth and comfort (copes) from many other desires such as friendships, family, pets, video games and unique food.
tldr; Be realistic about the ability of a positive life change foids can bring to your life, don’t inflate their values by attaching non-human abilities like the simps you despise and your inceldom will result in much less misery.
A common problem users face on this forum is that they are desiring to mimic Chad, we’ve seen him and heard about that guy in books, television and oral accounts but since we are not actually Chad, (un)knowingly trying to mimic him is only going to cause us deep trouble. It is extremely dangerous for us to try to desire something that is unattainable, rare and a façade. It is like a transgender trying to become a female and then wondering why they are so depressed; transgenders have such high suicide rates because they are trying so hard or desiring to become something that they will never be, they are bringing forth pain for no reason.
But since sex is actually a biological need it must be justifiable to have such desires? Attaining sex isn’t the problem, if you are on this forum then it’s likely you're from a country in the Western World, working hard for a year can buy you sex even if you are in a profession that pays little, it will just take longer. If you’re from America, you can buy a plane ticket to the Western European countries for attaining sex. Oh no, but going to prostitutes is cucked though, I will never do such behaviour! But believing that real love exists to a point that women have some magical ability to cure some void in any lonely man’s life, thus artificially inflating the value of foids because of a Hollywood fantasy and making them more hypergamous by believing they have some superhuman ability is NOT THE BEHAVIOUR OF A SIMP AND CUCKOLD? That is more simpworthy and more societally destructive than men going to prostitutes because you are allowing Chad to attain more and more power whilst beta males get less scraps by the year. Prostitution has been there since the dawn of civilisation, yet the amount of cuckery this society is going through is a recent phenomenon. Foid worship is multifolds worse, most incels and normies are guilty of this, it is more damaging to society than visiting a prostitute for sex, it’s not even a comparison.
But..but.. no real love from prostitute sex, I want genuine love. Believing real love exists or the so called ‘real love’ purported by Hollywood is further inflating the fake credit given to the object at hand (foid), we are inflating the foid’s actual value and making ourselves more miserable by believing in that nonsense. You can make an entire thread on proving that ‘real love’ is really just a façade but I’ll cut it short. The modern average relationship isn’t that much better than being an incel when you look at through a realistic unbiased lens, I don't have to prove this, just look at the divorce rates, even if they aren't divorced look at how unfulfilling some people's relationships are, simply a relationship between a man and a women is far more complex than we’d like to believe. It is a combination of factors, some elements being better than an incel and some worse, it has its fair share of both and doesn’t always skews to the positive side. When you average it out, it’s not light years ahead of being an incel. It has its up and downs for sure but the idea that real love or true love (whatever you want to call it) is complete rubbish and a fantasy novel sold by Hollywood, it is as real as Atlantis. Keep in mind not even Chad experiences it otherwise high status men like Tom Brady, the recent Morrocan footballer and Johnny Depp would be completely immune to getting cucked, the closest concept of true love you can experience is the small window of the honeymoon phase which eventually dims quickly as time passes. You will just become too used to the relationship and be back to where you started, it is not true contentment. Here is a thread and article on it.
The Paradox of Perfect Relationships: The Pursuit of Contentment
When you look at relationships from normies in the public setting or probably on social media nowadays, it may or may not be a facade. The uncertainty should be enough to calm our nerves and lessen our hearts with envy. Just continue living your life. Beyond the perfectly filtered photos and...
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Furthermore, the concept of "warmth of a woman" is a misguided belief that many incels hold. The idea that a woman can provide a unique warmth and comfort is a myth that has been perpetuated by society and the media, it is blatant foid worship and simping to a whole other level. Believing that foids have the personality or characteristic of some superhero/mythical creature to cure the emptiness inside you or has some unique property is cucked. The idea of a biological desire for a woman's warmth is incorrect anyways, it is not the same as the biological motherly instinct given to a child or father to better his children, it is a mimetic desire because you are trying to copy the desire society has placed upon you, the valid biological desire we have with women is attaining sex or motherly love, the former is easy to access because I’ve shown you how to do it earlier. Men do not need a woman's warmth to live a fulfilling life because it is not a biological desire, it is mimetic desire, only sex and motherly love is biological desire. Besides, we have the capacity to experience warmth and comfort (copes) from many other desires such as friendships, family, pets, video games and unique food.
tldr; Be realistic about the ability of a positive life change foids can bring to your life, don’t inflate their values by attaching non-human abilities like the simps you despise and your inceldom will result in much less misery.
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