Serious Being unattractive has improved my social skills

[Deleted member 4159]

When i was younger, i used to say whatever i wanted, and would be a tryhard in social situations. People found me annoying and reacted negatively. As time went on, i learned to only talk when necessary, or when i have something particularly worthwhile to say. Thats not to say that my personality compensates for my face. But my social interactions are alot smoother and problem free.

 

[Napoleon de Nascar]

Hate people. They need to be executed. Just where my henchmen are?..

Learned to avoid people, learning to fulfill their norms is beneath me, imperator

 

[Deleted member 4159]

73 views, 1 reply. Y'all can go fuck yourselves.

 

[Heroic Crusader]

Selective mutism. Quite common among incels tbh

 

[FlamingCel]

Selective mutism. Quite common among incels tbh

 

[Guest2]

Y'all

 

[BitterCel]

extremely high inhibition can be a curse and a blessing at times

73 views, 1 reply. Y'all can go fuck yourselves.

posts me

 

[acnescarcel]

Y'all

 

[Deleted member 4159]

I know right?

 

[Deleted member 16455]

extremely high inhibition can be a curse and a blessing at times

I wish I was low inhib

 

[Pareg]

I wish I was low inhib

Fucking same.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

Fucking same.

Being sheltered+ugly+strict parents all contributed to this

 

[tooth monster]

Selective mutism. Quite common among incels tbh

Just looked this up, it's over

 

[Braincel14w]

Would be going even better if you were gl

 

[BitterCel]

I wish I was low inhib

On one hand I want to hide my power level from normies but I also don't want to be a socially retarded pussy like I am now

 

[Michael15651]

Y'all 1 reply. can go fuck yourselves.

 

[Deleted member 4159]

Fitting avi tbh

 

[Blacktarpill]

I love talking with friends if i dont want to listen to some music.

 

[Deleted member 17889]

tbh even when i talk when necessary i get attacked

 

[Mewcel]

Back in highschool I tried really hard to be funny in order to fit in ("just be funny bro!"), but of course it led nowhere so I kept my mouth shut.

 

[ReasonableResolver]

73 views, 1 reply. Y'all can go fuck yourselves.

Man, this is actually a good thread but so much spam bullshit shitting up a thread as usual.

OP, you are actually making a great point. If you know the blackpill, a huge area of human behavior and psychology is known and understandable to you, and from there you can use that as a starting point to find the most advantageous pathway to get your way and navigate around normies, foids and instutitions.Good on you OP. Learn more until you perfect the art of getting your way from normies and foids with as less damage to your sanity and annoyance on your part.

You should know exactly how whoever it is you are talking to is going to react before even saying anything. Understand their mindset and what they value and what they dislike and use this knowledge to get what you want.

 

[Deleted member 4159]

Man, this is actually a good thread but so much spam bullshit shitting up a thread as usual.

OP, you are actually making a great point. If you know the blackpill, a huge area of human behavior and psychology is known and understandable to you, and from there you can use that as a starting point to find the most advantageous pathway to get your way and navigate around normies, foids and instutitions.Good on you OP. Learn more until you perfect the art of getting your way from normies and foids with as less damage to your sanity and annoyance on your part.

You should know exactly how whoever it is you are talking to is going to react before even saying anything. Understand their mindset and what they value and what they dislike and use this knowledge to get what you want.

Spot on. And thanks

Being sheltered+ugly+strict parents all contributed to this

i had this problem too

 

[Dregster]

Hate people. They need to be executed. Just where my henchmen are?..

Learned to avoid people, learning to fulfill their norms is beneath me, imperator

Based post, completely agree with all of it.

 

[nice_try]

"social skills" are a lie.
You're either good looking or ugly.
Chad can say anything he wants and will never be seen as socially awkward while ugly people can say or behave however they want, they won't ever be socially accepted.

 

[Smallondick]

Hate people. They need to be executed. Just where my henchmen are?..

 

[SpacedOut]

When i was younger, i used to say whatever i wanted, and would be a tryhard in social situations. People found me annoying and reacted negatively. As time went on, i learned to only talk when necessary, or when i have something particularly worthwhile to say. Thats not to say that my personality compensates for my face. But my social interactions are alot smoother and problem free.

Lucky you I guess. No matter how ugly I am I still have under developed social skills and I'm awkward as hell.

 

[HostileWaters]

It all comes down to reinforcement. Positive or negative.

People with good social skills have these because people respond well to what it is they’re saying, this is positive reinforcement. The more positive reinforcement you receive, the more you interact with others because you are encouraged to do so and as a result you become even better at social interactions. And the reinforcement you receive depends on your looks and how they either halo or failo your social interactions with others.

This is of course, not to say that your social skills matter in the first place. Even if a good looking guy has bad social skills it won’t hinder him in any way, however your looks will, in most cases, determine your level of social skills

 

[Deleted member 5333]

I was always social retard. But now I just talk shit and garbage to normies, before I would try to be polite and interesting. It have same effect, they still hate me

 

[LitVirgin]

same with me i was the class clown until puberty hit and foids hated me for it then i just went into a defensive shell

 

[Jog Mansen]

normies are stupid as shit and i dont view those that are below a certain level of intelligence to be even human they need to be enslaved which is why i would never talk to them unless i am giving them an order or while beating them as their slave master but since this government is cucked and does not allow this i avoid them altogether

 

[Shower_Taker]

I'd say that social interaction that doesn't lead to getting a chance to meet a potential partner is cope. In my case, inceldom's problems filtrate onto all the social aspects of my life - men see me as awkward or as someone who depreciates their social standing, so they all fizzle out sooner or later.

I'd be more than happy to be with a girl who'd like to say fuck you to the world and move to a remote area, for instance. Socializing is a mean to an end. Nothing more.

 

[nolifenofuture]

I'm a sperg who blurts out shit at random but other times I can't speak at all.