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Venting Being Neurodrivergent is the worst incel trait.

It needs to be studied how badly society wants to bully and reject autistic men until they either kill themselves or get bettER.
 
its not over for attractive NDs
7+, and it depends on how far they are on the spectrum. No foid is seriously dating a chad who's too retarded to drive. At best, he'll just get to use the cope of being sexually abused.
 
From the constant humilliation in Workplace/School/Home of people making fun of you and using you as the butt of every joke to every time you cried to yourself wondering why people hated you so much to getting rejected by your first crush and she looking uncomfortable for having to be in the same place as you, to every girl in your life friendzoning and treating you as less than a pet you despite how nicely you try to behave, Your parents watching you be all alone and by yourself every birthday, every Valentine's day and not understanding why, you could be a tallfag, you could be a mid tier normie, you could improooove and be all red pilled but if you are Neurodivergent, Its Over.

The world you see isnt the same anyone else sees and they dont understand why you behave like you do, is as everyone else lived in a different world, one where things make sense and where you can understand why you are a joke.
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Autism is a cruel desease.
Neurodievirgin
 
In addition, when you are ND, there is no way to "IMPROOOOVVEE", there is no looksmaxxing for your autism. Speaking from personal experience, you can't just learn basic social skills or how to pick up on social cues, which everyone else is literally born with. "Putting yourself out there" is only going to lead to you embarrassing yourself over and over again. :feelsbadman:
 
It fucked my life, I'm desperate right now. I'm 23, I never had a real job, friends, or a girlfriend. I am spending every day at home playing Brawl Stars or at most drawing or fixing the house for my parents. Today I was too depressed, so I just played Brawl Stars all day like a fucking kid, while my ex classmates are having sex or traveling the world with their partners and their own money they made. I wanted a shit minimum wage job just to start, get outside, learn something, occupy my mind and save some money, but I can't even get that, after a year, hundreds of applications, and dozens of interviews.

I don't have social anxiety anymore, I try, I go outside, I insist; but nothing goes my way, what the fuck am I supposed to do!?

Another day went by and I didn't notice. I'm having a breakdown of the kind that I haven't experienced since the times I was miserable every day at college. I don't know how long I can keep going like this. I never expected that things would go this way, what a sick joke, how can I live a life confined in a room? And what about my future?

I couldn't make friends as a kid, I couldn't get a girlfriend as a teen, I can't get a job as an adult, and not that I care, but I won't retire as an elderly. All I wanted was a normal human life!

This is not right. This can't be happening. I need to find a way... anything...
 
It fucked my life, I'm desperate right now. I'm 23, I never had a real job, friends, or a girlfriend. I am spending every day at home playing Brawl Stars or at most drawing or fixing the house for my parents. Today I was too depressed, so I just played Brawl Stars all day like a fucking kid, while my ex classmates are having sex or traveling the world with their partners and their own money they made. I wanted a shit minimum wage job just to start, get outside, learn something, occupy my mind and save some money, but I can't even get that, after a year, hundreds of applications, and dozens of interviews.

I don't have social anxiety anymore, I try, I go outside, I insist; but nothing goes my way, what the fuck am I supposed to do!?

Another day went by and I didn't notice. I'm having a breakdown of the kind that I haven't experienced since the times I was miserable every day at college. I don't know how long I can keep going like this. I never expected that things would go this way, what a sick joke, how can I live a life confined in a room? And what about my future?

I couldn't make friends as a kid, I couldn't get a girlfriend as a teen, I can't get a job as an adult, and not that I care, but I won't retire as an elderly. All I wanted was a normal human life!

This is not right. This can't be happening. I need to find a way... anything...
Do you think you could work as a busser cleaning tables at a restaurant? I work at a restaurant which pays $16.50 an hour for all starting employees, a very ND kid works there and he's doing ok at life for ND standards
 
The world you see isnt the same anyone else sees and they dont understand why you behave like you do, is as everyone else lived in a different world, one where things make sense and where you can understand why you are a joke.
Literally when I was growing up I was never told I need grades above D to pass exams. I found out when I was around 28 by accident as I was re-taking my exams because I wanted my grades to 'look better'.

So yeah. I was not living in the real world. That first and arguably only time a person's life has real meaning, being told to pass exams, was robbed from me. Then they wonder why I'm so aimless in life.

Edit:- I didn't even know revision is allowed across the entire year. I thought it was only allowed during close to exams.
 
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Do you think you could work as a busser cleaning tables at a restaurant? I work at a restaurant which pays $16.50 an hour for all starting employees, a very ND kid works there and he's doing ok at life for ND standards
I am able to work, I just can't get hired. I already worked as a waiter, I said that I never had a real job because it wasn't even part time, he just called me sometimes.

I got lucky that time, but now I am unable to pass any sort of interview. Where I live there is a lot of competition even for the shitty jobs, they always pick the NT candidate in the end, or someone with references.

My best hope was to get a summer job in the mountains (and dodge the heat too), but I missed that train for this summer. I had a classmate in university who lived in a touristic town in the mountains, lucky bastard, all places there were begging him to work, and paid a lot. He was never jobless, sometimes he worked two jobs, despite having never actively looked for one. He's living the high life at 20 °C now while I'm burning alive in my room.

Oh, sorry for going on an unrelated tangent. Point is that I can not get past any work interview. I could work many jobs with no problems, and that makes me go insane.
 

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