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Discussion Being an incel isn't common at all

Wolnir

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From my experience with normalfagmaxxing, the majortiy of people that I meet are in a relationship. The most basic, average height, average face guys have no issues with women. The vast majority of people are NT and have little issue with socialising and forming social circles. It's not normal whatsoever to be in your 20s and have never had a gf and having 0 friends. "Male loneliness pandemic" is a load of bullshit. The average man isn't truly lonely, sure they aren't getting tons of sex like chad, but they are still getting it. Feeling lonely is literally just that, just a feeling, you can be getting sex 7 days a week and still feel lonely because that's just how you feel. Being an actual loner sub 5 is probably as rare as being a chad. Most people aren't ugly or autistic and can easily find relationships.

We truly are a minority and it's fucking over for everyone here tbh ngl.
 
The real blackpill is the ntpill
 
From my experience with normalfagmaxxing, the majortiy of people that I meet are in a relationship. The most basic, average height, average face guys have no issues with women. The vast majority of people are NT and have little issue with socialising and forming social circles. It's not normal whatsoever to be in your 20s and have never had a gf and having 0 friends. "Male loneliness pandemic" is a load of bullshit. The average man isn't truly lonely, sure they aren't getting tons of sex like chad, but they are still getting it. Feeling lonely is literally just that, just a feeling, you can be getting sex 7 days a week and still feel lonely because that's just how you feel. Being an actual loner sub 5 is probably as rare as being a chad. Most people aren't ugly or autistic and can easily find relationships.

We truly are a minority and it's fucking over for everyone here tbh ngl.
just do the math
50% of society is women
50% is men
All women can get sex, juggernaut law, we have research on that, all women reproduce if they want.

Of the 50% of men that form half of society, 20% are chads and easily slay.
Then you gotta subtract the normies from that group too, that betabux and have relationships.
Result: 80%+ of society has sex and/or relatioship + kids at some point.
Men that have zero sex until they die are extremely rare.

Hence, this threads findings make sense:

 
I mostly agree. Of all the men I’ve known irl, only my one truecel friend is incel. All the other ones had relationships. NTs can usually ascend unless they are very ugly. Even normie looking men are doomed if they are spergs. I’ve seen in DMs here around 8 face reveals. 2 truecels, 4 failed normies (likely due to autism like with me), and 2 HTNs.

Average man is not incel, hence why we get stigmatized and judged so much
 
Cope, male virginity rate has been rising since years and most young males arent in relationships
 
Besides that, most sub7 guys get treated like shit in relationships and need to submit to the foid and jestermax their ass off so the foid wont leave him
 
You really should name and shame them because they are fucking larping cunts.
They most definitely are not. They are both giga spergs, truly. They make me seem like I’m hyper NT despite being quite the sperg myself. One of them has a shit frame and is kinda short too, so that combined with his autism definitely makes him incel.
 
People who are actually "alone" are also those that end up developing mental health issues due to said loneliness. The average person can feel levels of loneliness, but not to the extent an Incel does. Normies remind me of dogs, you leave them alone for several hours while you go out, they can get depressed a lonesome, but they also know their owner will come back and all of a sudden the dog becomes excited. That's the typical normie, they have enough people around them that loneliness and sadness are barely part of their emotion patterns on the daily.

I have also noticed, as I've become absolutely isolated more and more over the years, my desire for human contact is almost non-existent. I believe this is when most of become "doomed" to our own-selves. It's a switch that, once flipped, can never be undone. True loneliness fucks with your brain and many of us have fallen through the cracks, there's no hope of recovery. I can only hope I die young, because I ain't fucking living here for another decade.
 
Besides that, most sub7 guys get treated like shit in relationships and need to submit to the foid and jestermax their ass off so the foid wont leave him
Cope, foids in 2024 sub4 only
 
just do the math
50% of society is women
50% is men
All women can get sex, juggernaut law, we have research on that, all women reproduce if they want.

Of the 50% of men that form half of society, 20% are chads and easily slay.
Then you gotta subtract the normies from that group too, that betabux and have relationships.
Result: 80%+ of society has sex and/or relatioship + kids at some point.
Men that have zero sex until they die are extremely rare.

Hence, this threads findings make sense:

That's not true, more men are becoming incel every year. If you think it's "rare" then what's the issue? Why complain about it. The majority of guys growing up today are either friendless or have never been kissed. The fact that there's more and more 30 year old virgin males than there ever has been is enough to say it's a problem, but you're claiming it isn't.

Is this an incel forum or normie-sympathizer forum? lol
 
Cope, male virginity rate has been rising since years and most young males arent in relationships
This sounds like more of a cope than what I said. I don't care about young males not being in relationships because they are just late bloomers for the most part, data shows that less than 4% of men over the age of 25 are virgins.
 
Out of all men i met throughout my life, incels i can count on one hand, its ultra rare. Internet makes everything seems more common than it is, because it concentrate entire world to few spots. Same as chads irl are ultra rare also. Tallfag normies are the ones cucking and life mogging us.
 
That's not true, more men are becoming incel every year. If you think it's "rare" then what's the issue? Why complain about it. The majority of guys growing up today are either friendless or have never been kissed. The fact that there's more and more 30 year old virgin males than there ever has been is enough to say it's a problem, but you're claiming it isn't.

Is this an incel forum or normie-sympathizer forum? lol
If you actually look at the data, it's extremely uncommon to be a virgin in your 30s. Just because you hear about 30 year old virgins a lot on incel forums or youtube, doesn't mean it's common in real life. Just go outside and interact with people, most people have normal lives and relationships.
 
This sounds like more of a cope than what I said. I don't care about young males not being in relationships because they are just late bloomers for the most part, data shows that less than 4% of men over the age of 25 are virgins.
Male virginity gss 2018

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If you actually look at the data, it's extremely uncommon to be a virgin in your 30s. Just because you hear about 30 year old virgins a lot on incel forums or youtube, doesn't mean it's common in real life. Just go outside and interact with people, most people have normal lives and relationships.
I've worked alongside people for a while, buddy. When you work in the restaurant industry for over a decade, you tend to see patterns and can make good judgements about people (customers, co-workers, etc). I can safely say, it's gotten worse. Most people either are socially retarded / inept or they choose to be alone. Covid didn't help either, it only worsened the issue. Inceldom has in fact increased in just a decade. Most foids are misandrists and want nothing to do with men. Most men are either afraid of or resent said foids (for obvious reasons).

You say it's not common, I heavily disagree. It's more visible everyday. I rarely see couples and foids would rather either be alone with a bear or hang out with their girlfriends. Most guys are either sitting at home playing vidyagames or offing themselves. Foids have also taken over the job market, so more guys are living off the grid. Nobody speaks to each other anymore.
 
Data in that case is Irrelevant boyos. Most dudes wouldnt admit to be 20+ yo virgins.

Just go to reddit, literally 80% of the dudes there admitted to be virgins.

Loads and loads of Wizards too.
 
The true incels aren't seen much out in society and certainly don't talk about having girlfriends (obviously). You have selection bias. I actually think it's more common than people think.
 
Go to the gym and there's a bunch of short and/or ugly guys there who go by themselves. Especially at night. Most incels are either neeting, working some low end job where they don't talk to anyone, or rotting in the gym. They’re not going to tell you that they’re a 25 year old virgin.
 
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I mostly agree. Of all the men I’ve known irl, only my one truecel friend is incel. All the other ones had relationships. NTs can usually ascend unless they are very ugly. Even normie looking men are doomed if they are spergs. I’ve seen in DMs here around 8 face reveals. 2 truecels, 4 failed normies (likely due to autism like with me), and 2 HTNs.

Average man is not incel, hence why we get stigmatized and judged so much
Absolutely brutal, that is all I can say. Most people I knew were also not incels, even the meh looking normies had hookups and relationships
 
we are a minority on our own forums too
Atleast a half of this forum is sexhavers or atleast guys who have been kissed. Truecels are always the small minority
 
unless your truly deformed you rlly can't be a incel plus most incels are autistic
 
this is what i've been thinking too
 
Go to the gym and there's a bunch of short and/or ugly guys there who go by themselves. Especially at night. Most incels are either neeting, working some low end job where they don't talk to anyone, or rotting in the gym. They’re not going to tell you that they’re a 25 year old virgin.
this is a good point too. you have to wonder who is being polled by this. i assume a college/uni which i've said is the easiest place to ascend. i'm a 25 KHHV with 0 friends and didn't go to college/uni as its too brutal for an actual incel to push through and went straight to work.
 
We're still a minority, but things are getting worse quite fast.
 
Most incels are either neeting, working some low end job where they don't talk to anyone, or rotting in the gym. They’re not going to tell you that they’re a 25 year old virgin.
 
Absolutely brutal, that is all I can say. Most people I knew were also not incels, even the meh looking normies had hookups and relationships
Yep. Seeing men on your looksmatch, or occasionally even below get girlfriends is brutal. It really makes you question yourself
 
Most normies, who have regular jobs, have to cope with low quality, overweight foids, the type of foids you can tell they look awful without makeup. Very brutal.

Thats just how it is these days. If you are an incel, you are screwed. If you are a normie, you best be happy with some overweight "post-wall" foid and be proud to show her off.
 
I mostly agree. Of all the men I’ve known irl, only my one truecel friend is incel. All the other ones had relationships. NTs can usually ascend unless they are very ugly. Even normie looking men are doomed if they are spergs. I’ve seen in DMs here around 8 face reveals. 2 truecels, 4 failed normies (likely due to autism like with me), and 2 HTNs.

Average man is not incel, hence why we get stigmatized and judged so much
Am i trucel or failed normie
 
Am i trucel or failed normie
In between I’d say. I’ve seen a couple faces worse than yours. Most faces I saw were better though, so most of the forum does mog you
 
That's not true, more men are becoming incel every year. If you think it's "rare" then what's the issue? Why complain about it. The majority of guys growing up today are either friendless or have never been kissed. The fact that there's more and more 30 year old virgin males than there ever has been is enough to say it's a problem, but you're claiming it isn't.

Is this an incel forum or normie-sympathizer forum? lol
 
From my experience with normalfagmaxxing, the majortiy of people that I meet are in a relationship. The most basic, average height, average face guys have no issues with women. The vast majority of people are NT and have little issue with socialising and forming social circles. It's not normal whatsoever to be in your 20s and have never had a gf and having 0 friends. "Male loneliness pandemic" is a load of bullshit. The average man isn't truly lonely, sure they aren't getting tons of sex like chad, but they are still getting it. Feeling lonely is literally just that, just a feeling, you can be getting sex 7 days a week and still feel lonely because that's just how you feel. Being an actual loner sub 5 is probably as rare as being a chad. Most people aren't ugly or autistic and can easily find relationships.

We truly are a minority and it's fucking over for everyone here tbh ngl.
This is only true for white men. The average brown guy is incel.
 
we are a minority on our own forums too
What the fuck you gonna do bro

How to live this life like this :feelskek:

Ded srs I think Ill sign up to russian contract millitary if my SEAmaxx fail. Not to kill anybody just have them drone me whatever. Also volunteers get put in better positions than conscripts so I will have higher chance of survival and get paid a lot of money so if I dont die at least I will be rich :lul:
 
I don't understand these threads still popping up. There's solid research done now proving most men are single and struggling socially. Do you not see the rampant feminism and globohomo happening around you?
 
Besides that, most sub7 guys get treated like shit in relationships and need to submit to the foid and jestermax their ass off so the foid wont leave him
that’s just cope, most normies in relationship aren’t abused. Not from what i have seen
 
I don't understand these threads still popping up. There's solid research done now proving most men are single and struggling socially. Do you not see the rampant feminism and globohomo happening around you?
single ≠ incel. A lot of men don’t enter relationships because they prefer hookups
 
Out of all men i met throughout my life, incels i can count on one hand, it’s ultra rare. Internet makes everything seems more common than it is, because it concentrate entire world to few spots. Same as chads irl are ultra rare also. Tallfag normies are the ones cucking and life mogging us.
high iq :bigbrain::bigbrain:
 
The real blackpill is the ntpill
:yes: you can be HTN or better and still never get laid, because women will absolutely not deal with your ass if they get non NT vibes from you ( aka being overtly shy/ nervous/ passive or ''weird'' )
 

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