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Thread composed from a biblical perspective

Be content with God's creation and how he made you. We were all made in the image of God.
Christ followers should be contentment toward the body God has given them, while still exercising responsible stewardship for their health.



Scriptures on contentment:
"For the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart."
- 1 Samuel 16:7
"I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made."
โ€” Psalm 139:14
"I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content."
โ€” Philippians 4:11
โ€œDo nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.โ€
โ€” Philippians 2:3
โ€œCharm is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.โ€
โ€” Proverbs 31:30
"But godliness with contentment is great gain."
โ€” 1 Timothy 6:6

A Christian's worth comes from being created in God's image and redeemed by Christ...

The world teaches:
"Your value comes from how attractive you are."

The Gospel teaches:
"Your value comes from whose you are."


The World says
  • Taller is better
  • More handsome is better
But God says
  • Godliness is better
  • Faithfulness is better

Scripture says this:
"If you were of the world, the world would love its own. Yet because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you."
So we are not to be conformed to the worldly norms that will give us an earthly boost among others, but we are given a purpose on earth that is to serve the Lord - not to serve the people. We are not going to be people pleasers if it means going against God's teachings.

So whilst going against God and physically changing our appearance with substances or surgeries may bring an earthly gain, it does the opposite in the long run if God warns against it.


More of the same topic:
"Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the worldโ€”the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of lifeโ€”is not of the Father but is of the world."
"Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God."
"I have given them your word, and the world has hated them because they are not of the world, just as I am not of the world. I do not ask that you take them out of the world, but that you keep them from the evil one."
So the moral of the story here is that while you physically live among worldly systems and interact with non-believers, you are called to set your heart on God and refuse to conform to society's corrupt values and behaviours.



Modern appearance obsession is vanity disguised as self-improvement

There is a difference between stewardship and vanity.
  • Exercising for health = stewardship.
  • Eating well = stewardship.
  • Obsessively measuring every facial angle and body proportion = vanity.
But there is a point when redpilled self-improvement ceases to be about health and becomes self-worship.
People start to focus more about their physical features and obsess over them, whilst spending little time in prayer, scripture, etc.

The overly redpilled christians should ask themselves;
"Am I trying to honour God, or myself and the people around me?"

You end up idolising yourself, and it's more prominent than ever with the social media followings these so called "looksmaxxers" have. I'm cringing at the photo;
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The pursuit of physical perfection never ends

One argument even from a non-biblical perspective is that hardmaxxing often fails to satisfy.

Someone who wants to "max" their physical characteristics such as their jawline, eye area, height, etc are rarely cured by obtaining those things.

The problem is often not the body but the heart.


Ecclesiastes repeatedly teaches that earthly pursuits fail to provide lasting satisfaction.
"Vanity of vanities, saith the Preacher, vanity of vanities; all is vanity"

The world promises that "just fix this one thing and you'll be happy", but that isn't the case. The goalpost constantly moves.




Reality of maxxing and Appearance anxiety

Hardmaxxing culture thrives on comparison, in which God warns against.
"But they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise."

Social media, looksmax.org, etc encourages endless comparison with the most genetically gifted individuals on earth. They will sell a false narrative that we have the possiblity of looking like them, deluding people into "improvement" which only gets them so far. They'll try and change their own genetic determinism. This obviously is very unhealthy and leads to bitterness and self-hatred.

This is a non-biblical perspective on the matter:

On redpilled forums like .org they'll tell you if you don't look the certain way there is no point in even living, and that you may as well "rope". Some have the intellect to understand the bs, but others may not...
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Contentment is not complacency
You may be thinking, "So should I even improve myself"???

The answer is Yes.
Biblical contentment is not laziness. We are called to steward our bodies through exercise, discipline, hygiene, and healthy living. The issue arises when self-improvement becomes an idol and the pursuit of appearance replaces the pursuit of God.
"Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men"



Christ-like
Likewise, Christ Himself was not described as physically exceptional:
"He hath no form nor comeliness; and when we shall see him, there is no beauty that we should desire him."
โ€” Isaiah 53:2
Jesus was not sent as a physical ideal according to worldly standards.
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We will receive glorified bodies in the end

When the Lord returns, all of the earthly desires and perspectives will have faded away. All of this contempt is only temporary whilst on Earth, if we follow God now then we will have eternal life with him forever. So do not focus on your temporary self and rather focus on the Lord, and make sure you are right with him when he returns so you can go to heaven.

"Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body"

The Christian hope is not found in achieving physical perfection in this life... it is found in the resurrection. Because of that, Christians can live with imperfections, knowing that bodily perfection is ultimately God's work, not ours.

We may be treated like an outcast in this life as a result of the devil corrupting humanity and only focusing on physical appearance, but remember God is fair and just. We are given free will, and we can prosper from through following Him and receive eternal life.




The biblical response to physical insecurity is not self-modification, but contentment. We are called to steward our bodies, not to idolize them; to care for God's creation, not endlessly chase worldly ideals. The world says "Become someone else." But Christ says "Follow Me."

Similar thread on the topic:


--THREAD IN BOTH RELIGION + LOUNGE--

@GeckoBus thoughts on this thread?
 
Are you happier since discovering god?
I am grateful to have been brought up knowing God, but everyone I know at my church who was once living a worldly life is happier now living with Christ.

I was talking to someone yesterday and said he knew the whole time God existed and had a whole in his heart whenever partaking in worldly activities, but when he came to know God personally and received the Holy Spirit he felt as if the weight had been taken off his shoulders, knowing he was right with God.

So speaking on behalf of others, yes.
 

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