Autism is not a Genetic defect. Autism is a trait that turns the life of a normal person into hell, but for a Chad it becomes an advantage that turns the life of a local Chad into the life of a millionaire, because such a person not only sees more, has hyperfocus, and can easily spend many hours developing skills to a master level. Many high-earning people have autism, and this also applies to people who change the world. An artistic brain is much more sensitive to environmental influences and you cannot outrun that.
Autism when you have the appearance of a Chad:
You spend long hours on your interests. No one criticizes you; people even invest in you. They buy you things, training, etc., related to your interests.
It’s visible that you’re a bit withdrawn, but most people see you as mysterious and want to get to know you. Despite autism, you have the same social connections as everyone else.
No one picks on you even though everyone sees you’re different.
You have no problems with girls — they approach you themselves and want to get to know you, same with friendships.
You easily get a well-paid job or start a company. You have high earnings because people invested in you when you were a child.
You’re not burned out, and even if you experience a meltdown and do something wrong, you’re excused. You can literally do bad things and blame it on having autism and avoid consequences that way.
Autism when you look normal or below average:
Everyone thinks your interests are childish and discourages you. They try to force you to do the things they want instead of what you want. They don’t allow your interests to develop.
People bully you and no one does anything about it. If you report it or fight back, you’re the one who faces consequences for being bullied.
You have no friendships or relationships. When you ask anyone, you get the answer that you can’t force people to like you. You feel alienated your whole life.
You end up without a job or with a job far below your abilities. You are often rejected already at the interview, and even if they hire you, after a few months they fire you because they don’t like you.
You are constantly burned out and constantly mask yourself just to function at all, which pushes you into even deeper burnout. When you have a meltdown and lose control of your behavior, you get punished even though you weren’t able to control yourself. You can just as well end up in prison for it.
That’s what it looks like for most of us. There is also the option of developing sociopathy, but that only works if you have high IQ and the conditions to use it, and not every autistic person has high IQ. There are people who managed to gain a very good position this way, but it is a very small percentage. And most of us suffer from burnout while society tells us it’s our fault.
It’s not over — it never began.
Autism when you have the appearance of a Chad:
You spend long hours on your interests. No one criticizes you; people even invest in you. They buy you things, training, etc., related to your interests.
It’s visible that you’re a bit withdrawn, but most people see you as mysterious and want to get to know you. Despite autism, you have the same social connections as everyone else.
No one picks on you even though everyone sees you’re different.
You have no problems with girls — they approach you themselves and want to get to know you, same with friendships.
You easily get a well-paid job or start a company. You have high earnings because people invested in you when you were a child.
You’re not burned out, and even if you experience a meltdown and do something wrong, you’re excused. You can literally do bad things and blame it on having autism and avoid consequences that way.
Autism when you look normal or below average:
Everyone thinks your interests are childish and discourages you. They try to force you to do the things they want instead of what you want. They don’t allow your interests to develop.
People bully you and no one does anything about it. If you report it or fight back, you’re the one who faces consequences for being bullied.
You have no friendships or relationships. When you ask anyone, you get the answer that you can’t force people to like you. You feel alienated your whole life.
You end up without a job or with a job far below your abilities. You are often rejected already at the interview, and even if they hire you, after a few months they fire you because they don’t like you.
You are constantly burned out and constantly mask yourself just to function at all, which pushes you into even deeper burnout. When you have a meltdown and lose control of your behavior, you get punished even though you weren’t able to control yourself. You can just as well end up in prison for it.
That’s what it looks like for most of us. There is also the option of developing sociopathy, but that only works if you have high IQ and the conditions to use it, and not every autistic person has high IQ. There are people who managed to gain a very good position this way, but it is a very small percentage. And most of us suffer from burnout while society tells us it’s our fault.
It’s not over — it never began.
