A while back I wrote about what I find to be the most brutal of pills:
incels.is
Yesterday I've come across what seems to be Dr. K optimistic take on / rebuttal of this pill:
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IOWelVx5CUw
According to him, people who were "left behind" in life CAN catch up after decades IF they put in heavy effort in acquiring skills, discipline, changing habits, moving towards good company etc.
I agree that heavy effort may yield good results, but the issue is that the "available prizes" for a 40 year old senior citizen are not the same as for a 30 year old, much less for a 20 year old. Employment opportunities, for instance, shrink dramatically... friendships formed later in life are more like acquaintanceships for the most part, and foids will never treat a balding autistic 40 year old "boyfriend" anything like they would treat their actual romantic interest, Chad. A guy in this situation is seen as a betabuxxer at best.
A 38 year-old failure such as yours truly will not become young, non-autistic and with a full head of hair, with the neuroplasticity to learn anything, no matter how much effort. What I can aspire to is getting better income, ditch vices and buy better copes... so that when I become a 39 year-old failure, I will be enjoying my failures in a more comfortable position.
My youth is gone. My neuroplasticity is gone. There is no catching up to that. Yes, I can substantially improve the shit I have now, but what I'm doing is not "catching up" in any sense, except in the optimism marketing sense -- which is how Dr. K makes his money. In reality, any effort by a sub-5 brain-damaged male is merely damage control --- looking for a better way to fall, or a better place to crash the plane --- which is good, but to call it "catching up" is just an invitation for this man to become depressed and suicidal the moment he decides to check how his childhood friends are faring in life.
As a blackpiller, I believe platitudes are for foids, children, and to sell stuff to unsuspecting naïve guys. Treating grown MEN with respect and radical honesty is best, morally.
If your social-sexual life is pretty much over, due to autism, schizophrenia, height, age, ugliness, poverty, low-status etc. I believe the best is to say so in no uncertain terms, GRIEVE the loss of hope, and learn to cope with what's left and move on.
To tell elderly autistic failures such as myself that I can still accomplish a rich social and love life despite 24 years of failure (started trying at 14) is just a disingenuous and dangerous bluepill because it sets him up for constant disappointment and never-ending grief. Good grief is brief grief, followed by acceptance and then one moves on.
Arrested development pill -- my contribution to the blackpill philosophy
If you lose a milestone, for instance, teenage romance/sex you'll become developmentally arrested, and then lose the following milestones one after another. It's like that sprinter who trips and falls mid-race -- it's over for him, he's too far behind to be able to catch up. He may give up then...
incels.is
Yesterday I've come across what seems to be Dr. K optimistic take on / rebuttal of this pill:
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IOWelVx5CUw
According to him, people who were "left behind" in life CAN catch up after decades IF they put in heavy effort in acquiring skills, discipline, changing habits, moving towards good company etc.
I agree that heavy effort may yield good results, but the issue is that the "available prizes" for a 40 year old senior citizen are not the same as for a 30 year old, much less for a 20 year old. Employment opportunities, for instance, shrink dramatically... friendships formed later in life are more like acquaintanceships for the most part, and foids will never treat a balding autistic 40 year old "boyfriend" anything like they would treat their actual romantic interest, Chad. A guy in this situation is seen as a betabuxxer at best.
A 38 year-old failure such as yours truly will not become young, non-autistic and with a full head of hair, with the neuroplasticity to learn anything, no matter how much effort. What I can aspire to is getting better income, ditch vices and buy better copes... so that when I become a 39 year-old failure, I will be enjoying my failures in a more comfortable position.
My youth is gone. My neuroplasticity is gone. There is no catching up to that. Yes, I can substantially improve the shit I have now, but what I'm doing is not "catching up" in any sense, except in the optimism marketing sense -- which is how Dr. K makes his money. In reality, any effort by a sub-5 brain-damaged male is merely damage control --- looking for a better way to fall, or a better place to crash the plane --- which is good, but to call it "catching up" is just an invitation for this man to become depressed and suicidal the moment he decides to check how his childhood friends are faring in life.
As a blackpiller, I believe platitudes are for foids, children, and to sell stuff to unsuspecting naïve guys. Treating grown MEN with respect and radical honesty is best, morally.
If your social-sexual life is pretty much over, due to autism, schizophrenia, height, age, ugliness, poverty, low-status etc. I believe the best is to say so in no uncertain terms, GRIEVE the loss of hope, and learn to cope with what's left and move on.
To tell elderly autistic failures such as myself that I can still accomplish a rich social and love life despite 24 years of failure (started trying at 14) is just a disingenuous and dangerous bluepill because it sets him up for constant disappointment and never-ending grief. Good grief is brief grief, followed by acceptance and then one moves on.
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