Discussion Are you guys honest to yourselves?

[TyrellCorp]

Having been raised in a very abusive household, and having been bullied for multiple consecutive years about my looks, I vowed to always live by my moral compass, and made sure to be the most kindest and genuine person I can be.

On the surface this sounds good, but it was actually a way to hide my insecurities, a way to cope with my looks so that I could fit with the rest of society.

Unfortunately, it can only work to an extent. Unfortunately, too much of anything is detrimental, even if it is absolute morality.

I have wasted years playing this kind guy who always cared too much about what other people think of him.

Being ugly sucks, but in a way is there any other choice but to deal with it? In the end, everything is cope, so maybe I should once be honest and true to myself and try and live the life that I so desperately wanted.

I am currently in my 3rd year of uni, and although it is years late, maybe I should change.

Do you guys live true to your honest wants and needs?

 

[FBI]

Having been raised in a very abusive household, and having been bullied for multiple consecutive years about my looks, I vowed to always live by my moral compass, and made sure to be the most kindest and genuine person I can be.

You are such a cuck.

 

[TyrellCorp]

You are such a cuck.

If the meaning of cuck means extremely low self esteem, then yes I am a cuck

 

[Animecel2D]

I must be honest to myself because no one else will

 

[Dead End]

You are such a cuck.

Why? If he retaliated in his position, he would almost certainly be heavily punished for it. Acting in an extremely kind manner at least minimises the amount of punishment from others.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

dnr studycuck

 

[FBI]

Why? If he retaliated in his position, he would almost certainly be heavily punished for it. Acting in an extremely kind manner at least minimises the amount of punishment from others.

If someone is pushed to their limit and every peaceful means of change has failed, then defending themselves, even with force, may be the only way left to regain any sense of dignity or justice.

 

[Icarus]

I must be honest to myself because no one else will

 

[Caichan]

Why? If he retaliated in his position, he would almost certainly be heavily punished for it. Acting in an extremely kind manner at least minimises the amount of punishment from others.

bro said punishment

 

[Icarus]

Being nice is a defense mechanism to try and mitigate the amount of bullying you will receive.

I have tried both in the past, and whenever I stood up for myself I actually got treated worse.

I think the key is honestly just to remove yourself from situations where you could potentially have to deal with people. That way you avoid the mental abuse that comes with being around them all the time.

 

[xxectrapieces]

I used to live by this during my highschool years. Overtime though, I kinda just became more apathetic and careless.

 

[Dead End]

If someone is pushed to their limit and every peaceful means of change has failed, then defending themselves, even with force, may be the only way left to regain any sense of dignity or justice.

Yes, but I don't think dignity is a priority over minimising the effects of bullying. I'd rather do everything in my power to avoid further bullying. Retaliation makes it worse.

 

[xxectrapieces]

Being nice is a defense mechanism to try and mitigate the amount of bullying you will receive.

I have tried both in the past, and whenever I stood up for myself I actually got treated worse.

I think the key is honestly just to remove yourself from situations where you could potentially have to deal with people. That way you avoid the mental abuse that comes with being around them all the time.

This.

I reduce the amount of patronizing I receive by never leaving my house. Or on the off chance I do, I'll probably go out super late. After midnight. No ones out then

 

[Dead End]

bro said punishment

Does the word "punishment" not apply?

 

[FBI]

Yes, but I don't think dignity is a priority over minimising the effects of bullying. I'd rather do everything in my power to avoid further bullying. Retaliation makes it worse.

I understand that, but sometimes standing up for yourself is the only way to regain control and put an end to the bullying.

 

[Icarus]

This.

I reduce the amount of patronizing I receive by never leaving my house. Or on the off chance I do, I'll probably go out super late. After midnight. No ones out then

Same

 

[Dead End]

I understand that, but sometimes standing up for yourself is the only way to regain control and stop the bullying.

I guess it depends on the situation. I've been bullied multiple times in the past, and it's always been by people who were better off socially than me and had friends who would help perpetuate it. Any retaliation was futile and would just prompt further bullying.

You just can't win in a lot of situations, and giving up on the idea of retaliation, dignity or justice is often just a pragmatic choice, and I wouldn't call it "cucked".

 

[Caichan]

I understand that, but sometimes standing up for yourself is the only way to regain control and put an end to the bullying.

exactly just fight them back

 

[sub5ricemale]

Why? If he retaliated in his position, he would almost certainly be heavily punished for it. Acting in an extremely kind manner at least minimises the amount of punishment from others.

I'll postmog you

 

[schizomale]

This world has done nothing but tear me down from the moment I entered it; thus, it is undeserving of my kindness.

 

[Dead End]

I'll postmog you

I'll joindatemog you, and that will never change

 

[sub5ricemale]

I'll joindatemog you, and that will never change

I pfpmog you

 

[Dead End]

I pfpmog you

Larp

 

[lennox]

Honesty is productive + you'll act more confident for being secure that your are the way your are