I can see things in a non-blackpill perspective because I can imagine how one's life can lead up to thinking this sort of way; when you have no real struggle with love, you'd think it must be your personality, or something of real value that attracted them. It's a sad way to think that the only reason why someone would value you is due to arbitrary things such as wealth(honestly a bit of cope, if you are ugly you are just gonna be used for money lol), looks, height, frame etc. Same with someone who struggles with relationships, who REALLY wants to admit they were just born to never be loved? Or people only love them for their appearance?
Blackpill is a hard pill to swallow, and with society constantly saying otherwise, normies will never admit it without experiencing the extreme examples people on this site have been through.