Experiment Are there any life lessons that being an Incel has taught you?

[StoicNihilist]

For me it has taught me that love and empathy are only skin deep. People will abandon and condemn you if you're even the slightest bit different from them. And that most aspects of your life (at least in the modern world) are wholly dependent on your attractiveness. From romantic prospects, to friends, to even jobs. Being ugly will handicap your ability to simply exist in society. While people who are extremely attractive will have everything in life practically handed to them on a golden platter, especially if they're a woman.

Another thing I learned is just how fake people really are in thier day to day interactions with one another. It's almost on a sociopathic level. For example:

In high school I was buddies with another fellow incel-type kid who always dreamed of being a pilot. He was white, short, ugly, had acne, and wore glasses. Everyone constantly tormented and bullied him mercilessly in school. During his junior year of high school he shot himself. Everyone acted shocked. They then pretended that they used to be his best friend and they were so sad, ect ect. The school even held a small candle vigil in the commons and some Stacies who I know for a fact constantly mocked him pretended to cry and even took selfies. I was so pissed that I called them out on it, and people treated me like a fucking monster. I was one of the few people he befriended, and he told me that they constantly fucked with him, theres no doubt they drove him to it. These people basically fucking tortured this kid. Thier reactions were disgustingly fake.


So what about you guys? Has Inceldom given you any insights about life? Whether they be good or bad?

 

[Ellsworth]

The black pill and all it encompasses.

Briffaults law, what have you done for me lately?

Loneliness. Specifically how harmful it is emotionally, physically and mentally. And how nobody steps up to help lonely people.

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

That only my parents will ever love me unconditionally, all other types of relationships are based on what value you can provide to them which includes siblings, acquaintances, friends, girlfriend, wife, employers, the moment you stop providing value it's over.


For some unlucky incels, even their own parents will stop having anything to do with them if the incel has parents who will disown you for being a failure in X or Y

 

[TheGambler2]

Learned how fake and disloyal people are.
Learned that almost everything in life is determined by your genetics and hard work isn't as important.

 

[wereqryan]

I've learnt many life lessons from the blackpill:

1. Biological determinism is 100% real. There are no two ways about this. Your fate was predetermined at birth.
2. Genetics matter a lot. Good genes always triumph over hard work and so they are prized and sought after. Hard work is cheap, anyone can do it, which is why there are lots of slaves in society.
3. Society is built upon the notion of transactions. Everything is a transaction in one form or the other.
4. Feudalism is in our genes. A select few hog most of the resources.
5. People are fundamentally selfish and solipsistic. Do not expect empathy from them unless they are living in similar circumstances as yours.
6. Most women are child-brained whores without any sense of morality.
7. Racial differences and disparity are stark and massive.
8. Natural selection and survival of the fittest are the rules of nature.
9. People are animals underneath the thin veil of civility.

 

[StoicNihilist]

That only my parents will ever love me unconditionally, all other types of relationships are based on what value you can provide to them which includes siblings, acquaintances, friends, girlfriend, wife, employers, the moment you stop providing value it's over.


For some unlucky incels, even their own parents will stop having anything to do with them if the incel has parents who will disown you for being a failure in X or Y

Yes dude, that's exactly what it. Love and empathy are expressed only when someone wants something out of you.

 

[Lubricure]

The blackpill mostly taught me that social validation is an illusion, as it's already predetermined by genes how much you will be accepted in society.

1) When you're ugly, the bigger your achievements are, the more of a threat you're seen.

2) Being different in whatever way from the norm, leads the general society to attack you, if you don't have good looks granting you a "licence" for it. However, it can sometimes work in your favour since it might attract some outcast with a grudge against the system.

3) Morality is just an excuse to prevent the lower ranking men from acting up and seizing what they should deserve by default.

4) Speaking openly about your unfulfilled sexual needs and sexual marketplace inequality is a surefire way to call the thought police on the spot.

5) Acquiring power, especially muscle mass, fitness and fighting capabilities can yield a significant degree of passive protection against normiescum.

6) Socializing is actually useless, unless it's for professional reasons, just because the socialization process itself for many can be summarized into playing the clown and function as a means of entertainment for femoidal approval.

7) Society is built around women. Women are paid to exist, men pay to exist.

 

[VirginAutistManlet]

2) Being different in whatever way from the norm, leads the general society to attack you, if you don't have good looks granting you a "licence" for it. However, it can sometimes work in your favour since it might attract some outcast with a grudge against the system.

Very true. Chad can have nerdy/autistic or out-right anti-social interests and he'll still get laid because of the looks-pass. I'm not going to say 100/100 women would still sleep with him, compared to having normie interests, but he'll still get 95/100 of women who will still look over any autistic/anti-social shit, only a couple of foids would disregard a Chad in that scenario, compared to a normie with accepted normie hobbies, who might be able to sleep with 5/100 women compared to a incel being maybe 1/10000.

 

[DarkMTS_57]

What i have learned for being an outcast is that you have to think 10 steps ahead of whatever you are going to do when you go outside.
The world is a savage jungle.
Fake vermin, sociopaths etc...
Always think in a straight line on what you are doing, and don´t let anything distract you from your path.
Unintelligent vermin say Heaven is a place on Earth.
Preposterous!.
We live in a purgatory a.k.a Hell, so learn how to ghost in it without being noticed.
Manage to skip all adversity.

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

I learned I am prey in a predators' world.

 

[starystulejarz]

don't be ugly, males may at first be nice to you but after a while they will backstab your back to gain something (most of the time social approval from high tier males or foids), if you are ugly foids are always cruel to you no matter what

The blackpill mostly taught me that social validation is an illusion, as it's already predetermined by genes how much you will be accepted in society.

1) When you're ugly, the bigger your achievements are, the more of a threat you're seen.

2) Being different in whatever way from the norm, leads the general society to attack you, if you don't have good looks granting you a "licence" for it. However, it can sometimes work in your favour since it might attract some outcast with a grudge against the system.

3) Morality is just an excuse to prevent the lower ranking men from acting up and seizing what they should deserve by default.

4) Speaking openly about your unfulfilled sexual needs and sexual marketplace inequality is a surefire way to call the thought police on the spot.

5) Acquiring power, especially muscle mass, fitness and fighting capabilities can yield a significant degree of passive protection against normiescum.

6) Socializing is actually useless, unless it's for professional reasons, just because the socialization process itself for many can be summarized into playing the clown and function as a means of entertainment for femoidal approval.

7) Society is built around women. Women are paid to exist, men pay to exist.

high iq

 

[Nothingness]

It taught me that society is hypocritical lier.
That whole humanity is the pure evil.
That everything is based on cannibalistic attitude whole siciety cosists of psychopats.

 

[Deleted member 1252]

Your view on virtually everything in the universe will be altered by being blackpilled.

 

[Ignas]

Extremely unfair world. No matter what we do and how much effort we put we can never get some things, like a girl drool over us wanting to fuck us. While Chad can get it without doing anything.

Men are being cucks and simps, not men anymore. Example: IncelTears.

Massive hypocrisies between genders. Men are expected to slay or else they'll be virgin losers. But those foids will say that men only want sex.

 

[Vermilioncore]

That living is painful

 

[Ghost]

The world is social Darwinist. The strong live the weak die.

I learned how to act tough because of bullies and foid rejection and scorn is the icing on the cake.

There's no way in hell I'd be an outgoing extroverted person considering the shit I've been through

 

[Lubricure]

Very true. Chad can have nerdy/autistic or out-right anti-social interests and he'll still get laid because of the looks-pass. I'm not going to say 100/100 women would still sleep with him, compared to having normie interests, but he'll still get 95/100 of women who will still look over any autistic/anti-social shit, only a couple of foids would disregard a Chad in that scenario, compared to a normie with accepted normie hobbies, who might be able to sleep with 5/100 women compared to a incel being maybe 1/10000.

Exactly, the proportion is astounding. I've also seen chads with borderline faggot interests, yet they slayed anyway. It's unreal because even average man would have been laughed into oblivion.

high iq

Thanks man.

don't be ugly, males may at first be nice to you but after a while they will backstab your back to gain something (most of the time social approval from high tier males or foids), if you are ugly foids are always cruel to you no matter what

That's true, but I would say that being stronger than them can usually be an alternative to be good looking, although it doesn't work with femoids, for obvious reasons.

It's a disgusting behaviour, even more so considering they are pandering at people who practically shit on them.

 

[Nothingness]

Extremely unfair world. No matter what we do and how much effort we put we can never get some things, like a girl drool over us wanting to fuck us. While Chad can get it without doing anything.

Men are being cucks and simps, not men anymore. Example: IncelTears.

Massive hypocrisies between genders. Men are expected to slay or else they'll be virgin losers. But those foids will say that men only want sex.

He sumarised it well.

 

[Valiant Virgin]

Lookism is an epidemic.

 

[mental_out]

Your looks are your personality. Honestly one of the things I realised over years of observing it. I remember as a kid I'd always try to act the way other kids did, try really hard to fit in, but found whenever I did they'd immediately revolt against it. Didn't matter what I did, if I tried to act like they did they hated it. This didn't just happen to me but I also noticed the same happen to other unattractive kids, they'd be bullied into their place. This didn't end with school either, I noticed it continued pretty much into adulthood, if you try to improve yourself people will actively go out of their way to tear you down and mock you for trying. The whole idea of "fake it till you make it" is just retarded, people won't allow it and will be actively upset by your acting outside of your predetermined role. People ironically don't bully you for being a loser, they'll actively attack you to try and force you to be a loser.

"Losers" ultimately aren't a product of their interests, but rather their interests are virtually forced onto them by the rest of society. People want you to stay in your place based on how you look.

The irony of a lot of this is inceltears and other reddit cucks will say places like this cause incels to develop these beliefs, but quite honestly I knew most of the black pill long before I ever found the incel community, all it did was confirm what I already knew when I found others who had seen and experienced the same things I had.

 

[KingChemist]

#1 A lot of people are fake.
#2 Life is not fair at all.
#3 True love only exists in fairy tales.

 

[Vorbei]

It's a cold world out there.

 

[ihaveno1]

genetics and luck is everything, foids can never lose or do no wrong in 2019, the west is a horrendous place to live

 

[Subhuman Gamercel]

The world is controlled by those who understand how humans work and exploit it to their own advantage.
And genetics are everything.

 

[refmd]

being eccentric is only socially acceptable if you are rich.

society only rewards assertive domineering men, if you are a reserved quiet man you will not be respected by men or women. men will see you as inferior, women will see you as unfuckable.

 

[ScornedStoic]

Everything-literally everything-women as a whole have to say about what women want in dating men, is a complete and total lie.

 

[LittleDarkAge]

That no-one gives a fuck about your happiness or wellbeing

 

[seija]

That if you want to truly be happy, just give don't a fuck about anyone else around you. I've also learned how to be more empathetic towards others ironically enough.

 

[SecondComing]

Most women are child-brained whores without any sense of morality.

Most? They are all worthless whores who would kill their own children to get Chad.

 

[Deleted member 8884]

I learned a few things. Ignorance is surely bliss, I mean look at all the blue pill copers and how happy they are, tbh I wish I could go back to being blue pilled but I have been isolated for way too long and have learned so much. I accepted nihilism, and I am trying to cope with that.

And obviously, I have accepted that how you look determines how you're treated. I became so aspie that I see how the normies communicate in a different light now. They talk about the most mundane conformist things like football, cars, boyfriends/girlfriends, where they ate etc. you get the point. I don't think I can ever integrate back into society as a normie ever again. I honestly don't know what I will do anymore.

 

[Emba]

This kind of stuff is why I joined instead of just lurking. I instinctively knew these thoughts, but didn't understand what they meant. It only helps a tiny bit to know these things. But it still helps.

I wish I knew this stuff decades ago. I could have "_____maxed" when I still had the energy.

 

[Cuyen]

Learned how fake and disloyal people are.
Learned that almost everything in life is determined by your genetics and hard work isn't as important.