This seems like the appropriate thread for this theory I had the other day when thinking about my grandparents. My grandparents were married for 50+ years. Their marriage worked. The relationship seemed to have the appropriate amount of everything. Grandpa taking care of grandma, grandma taking care of grandpa. Grandpa had his chores and grandma had hers. They were sweet and loving to each other. They had their little married couple fights over nothing. It was just balanced.
I'd argue grandma was at least 1 point higher than grandpa. She at least got enough attention from other guys to be so. My grandpa was a 5 at best. He was dependable and sincere though. Qualities we are told to be worth something, but are laughed at and derided by modern females. Why did my grandma value them enough to pass up Chads for my grandpa?
While my grandma worked most her life as a nurse, she always took care of the home. Cooking and cleaning. She never once brought up the fact she did the cooking and cleaning as if it was some horrible burden she took upon herself. She wanted to be doing it and all the time. I think this is because of how she was raised, being put in charge of doing housework starting a very early age. There are ultra-conservative christian communities here in the states that don't allow their girls to go to public school and by the age of 8 or so they are expected to help their mothers with every chore done around the house. What I noticed was that girls really take to it at that age. It is like playing house for them, but on steroids. They all seemed really nice and relaxed in their personalities and demeanor from this lifestyle. The girls do this until like 16 when they are married off to an upstanding man in the community. I can't talk much about that part as the details of it weren't discussed in whatever it was I watched.
I think this does something to women - shapes their mind and alters their values. I'm sure my grandma always found Chad sexier than grandpa, but she really cared about the fact that Chad wouldn't stick around to build her home. I'm highlighting those words because I think that is what these girls develop a strong sense for. A strong desire for their own home to care for - a nest in which to roost. Modern girls have no concept of a "home" that is their own. They do no work. They're cosmopolitan transients that bounce around different bedrooms of various Chads, Betabuxs, friends and family. They don't have the nesting instinct developed. Birth control, booze and drugs are also really fucking with foids' brains in this regard and many others. Point being, foids have no roots to anchor them down.
