It's Over Anyone let themselves go after finding out how over it really was?

[TomathonClancy]

I used to work out nearly every day, and was a pretty fit guy. I had room to grow, but everyone noticed my imporvements. Guys gave me compliments, and I had finally gotten stuff like a six pack. Girls also acknowledged my body, but they didn't care. They had so much vehement hatred towards me. After finding out that a girl I had liked since middle school was ghosting me for 10 months and then told her sorority I was stalking her (I sent her one text in that six month period, for reference), I fell into a depression that lasted so long.

That was a year ago. I was 5'9ish, 150 pounds, and in good shape. I'm now 5'10 175 pounds, and while I can still look decent, I'm nowhere near my peak, and people have noticed. I had to convince them I was bulking (cope, I was really just drowning out my misery with fast food bignes with my roommate and barely working out).\

Every time I try to work out, I think about pointless it is to try and improve myself, only to be viewed as less than dirt by women. I don't know what to do or how to get back into it. I'm going back to the gym again today and hope to get a good workout but I just hope I can maintain consistency.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

Yeah I stopped gymcelling cuz of that and I became fatter. I also saw my GPA tank spring semester

 

[Deleted member 17724]

I started working out around half a year ago and while I did lose weight and gain some muscle, I'm losing motivation. I've never been one to binge-eat and I don't even like high-calorie food that much but I do notice that I'm gaining a bit of weight on the belly area and I've been skipping workouts a bit more.
It was nice to look in to the mirror and see a better version of my past self but it's useless if you can't use your improvement to get a gf. Even if I received the body of a god, it would still not cure my social anxiety or manletdom.

 

[rahultmnt]

this is the same reason why i stopped gymcoping

 

[Deleted member 8206]

Yeah I stopped gymcelling cuz of that and I became fatter.

 

[Deleted member 17599]

When I started gymcelling, I was redpilled and thought that percieved fighting success was linked to SMV. When I became blackpilled and realized that it doesn't mean shit, I still continued gymcelling so I can strengthmog others.

 

[Deleted member 301]

Yeah, shower a few times a year (though I do wipe my bits and pieces often enough), my teeth are rotten through my head from years of not brushing, can go 6 weeks+ without a clothes change, ain't had a haircut or a shave for 2+ years and fingernails are long and thick, same as toenails, don't trim them let them break off. Alcohol problem is so bad I have irreversible chronic pancreatitus and my liver is fucked.

Basically this is looksmatch, except I'm maybe 5-8 years younger. I ain't hardly bullshitting.

 

[Deleted member 10150]

Yeah, shower a few times a year (though I do wipe my bits and pieces often enough), my teeth are rotten through my head from years of not brushing, can go 6 weeks+ without a clothes change, ain't had a haircut or a shave for 2+ years and fingernails are long and thick, same as toenails, don't trim them let them break off. Alcohol problem is so bad I have irreversible chronic pancreatitus and my liver is fucked.

Basically this is looksmatch, except I'm maybe 5-8 years younger. I ain't hardly bullshitting.

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[Lonelycel]

Tbh I realised it was over when I was 17. That's when my life started to go downhill, especially my grades. If I had even been average looking, I'd be at a top uni rn. But oh well, nobody cares.

 

[Emergency Manual]

Yeah, shower a few times a year (though I do wipe my bits and pieces often enough), my teeth are rotten through my head from years of not brushing, can go 6 weeks+ without a clothes change, ain't had a haircut or a shave for 2+ years and fingernails are long and thick, same as toenails, don't trim them let them break off. Alcohol problem is so bad I have irreversible chronic pancreatitus and my liver is fucked.

Basically this is looksmatch, except I'm maybe 5-8 years younger. I ain't hardly bullshitting.

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You are the most hardcore LDAR’er on this forum.

 

[78980n]

yes man. Also I wish you'd quit hitting pepe like that

 

[Deleted member 14805]

I stopped hitting the gym as well due to depression and hopelessness of never ascending and for that I put on even more weight. All I do these days is LDAR.

 

[A_Dark_Sister]

Absolutely. I was never ripped, but I was a bit buff. Now I wonder if I'm gonna go for a quarter pounder with cheese or the BLT after work

 

[ItsAllOverButTheCry]

Yeah man, motivation is a bitch when you realize nothing you do will make a difference.

 

[needsolution]

I need motivation but sometimes its hard to find.

 

[Blackpill Rage]

Yeah I stopped gymcelling cuz of that and I became fatter. I also saw my GPA tank spring semester

The fact that you're still in college means that you're still coping.

 

[Gabe]

I buzzed my head, other than that I still look pretty much the same, maybe less frequent shaving

 

[Deleted member 16455]

The fact that you're still in college means that you're still coping.

Parents won’t let me drop out

 

[Emba]

Its over for many gymcel gym membership subscriptions, man.

 

[UglyScotsman]

yuuuupp, i was fat and overweight up until 21, I had a big belly and face fat. I looksmaxed and leanmaxed, got down to like 10% bodyfat with pecs and abs, I went from 195/200lbs, (5'7) down to 145/150lbs by age 23. thinking that would be the ticket to humanity. Nope, my subhuman facial genetics fucked me over, I've blown back up to about 185lbs now at 30.

I just don't see the point in even trying. It's so fucking over. If I couldn't get girls thin and with muscle then what';s even the point. At least i can cry an eat chocolate cake in comfort.

 

[cancerousgreed]

yep. gymcelling stopped once blackpilled

 

[jackwolfskin999]

I haven't worked out in like a week or 2 hopefully I'll get back into the habit

 

[sepelion]

Ugh. Fuck. Yeah, it's getting really hard to keep gymcelling. Honestly, it's not bad when it's just me at 2am, but then the other super-early normies flood in, and there's always a roastie in tight spandex with an ass bending over in my face to the point I want to stick a dumbbell up her cunt and tell her "lunge around the room now, bitch!"

 

[mcfroggy]

I stopped all looksmaxxing this year BC there's no point, I'm starting to get more and more of my moms shit genes showing up and at this point I just want to not be in pain.

 

[Philosophycel]

I've gained 80 pounds in 5 months. Before that I just lost all my excess weight but then I realized "why bother, I'm not going to get anything out of thinmaxxing but I want to eat pizza every night."

 

[johnnyb]

Yep. Was a gymcel from mid highschool up until about four months ago when I finally fully gave it up. The blackpill killed all desire to excise. Only reason I continued to do it for another year after being blackpilled is out of sheer habitual Shit and trying to bluepill myself