My need to connect with people is outright driving me insane. I am soon going to reach a breakpoint if I won't do anything about it. How do you cope? What methods do you use to supress this brutal urge?
Discussion Any tips on killing off the need for connection?
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Can't connect to fellow virgin men either? Brutal
We both know internet friendships aren't real.
Try to reach to people as often as you can. Be falsely in love, then get brutally ghosted multiple times. Your mental health will be burning in pain, and eventually your brain would learn coping mechanism (after a lots of pain), to not feel the pain anymore. Congratulations on your brand new schizoid.
Read theoretical works and vidya cope. Works wonderfully for me.
I have my online homies tbh
It just went away for me for some reason. I don't know why but over time I either got used to it or just don't feel the need for connection as much.
I got used to the feeling eventually, and made a couple online friends.
It's a decent cope
It's a decent cope
I dont think im normal enough to have a friend
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Let’s see. After the music shows I usually down a few pints because I sure as hell am not going to drive home after packing up everything by myself. I find that Steel Reserve is very underrated and I actually like the syrupy taste (malt liquor tastes like candy when you stop eating sugar and junk food.) Nicotine shuts off my constant internal monologue, but I think the actual answer is redirecting the inner the thoughts. Maybe instead of connecting to other people connect to yourself. Ask yourself your opinion on topics, are you being ragebaited? Or are you ragebaiting yourself in hopes of being full of energy and a reason to live out of spite. Family can be shitty but if they try to connect with you it would be best to try to connect with them, if it’s random women and romance that you wish to connect with, I’m sorry to say this but a lot of women out their are quite sociopathic and distant, all they want is attention because it’s all they know. Love doesn’t comfort women, it’s part of the reason why they shouldn’t preach.
With other men? I don't know much about this, since don't have it, but I'm not completely isolated or anything so I'm assuming I'd feel it then. I suppose most do, and it makes sense why. My guess is either getting friends or fully accepting that it won't happen and work around it are good choices. I'd go for the first option since it seems possible to get some kind of friend or acquaintance for most people, even if you're just voice chatting in online games or meeting to do a sport or volunteer or something.
try to make connections
and any desire for them will disappear, that's how I did it
and any desire for them will disappear, that's how I did it
Ecstasy.
Just thug it out
Unplug, but i bet many of you cant do that.
i'd say try for 2 months.
see how that goes.
Zero internet.
Are you man enough?
i'd say try for 2 months.
see how that goes.
Zero internet.
Are you man enough?
this is rule 69 -i-ii m-mmean 34.
why dont you ask a bitch out? itl make you never want to try ever again
Eventually your social anxiety from a lifetime of rejection and abuse will outweigh your craving for affection, you'll still want it but you'll stop desperately trying to get something you can't have.
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