Any severe social anxietycels here?

[uglyugly]

I have isolated myself for years, haven't talked to anyone except when I'm obligated to. I just don't know how to choose the right words, I feel dumb, I don't know what to do with my hands, I keep looking away when people talk to me and have a hard time showing emotions. How do I break this curse?

 

[Efiliste]

Yep, I've kinda lived in my room alone for 8 years and never left unless it was for uni or something vital

 

[beanercel]

Yea i have social anxiety

 

[Efiliste]

You can't break the curse, just accept it. Don't fight it, it's a waste of time. You're fighting against your own mind, you're bound to lose because it knows you and all your weak points.

 

[uglyugly]

You can't break the curse, just accept it. Don't fight it, it's a waste of time. You're fighting against your own mind, you're bound to lose because it knows you and all your weak points.

I want to defeat this monster once and for all

 

[Efiliste]

I want to defeat this monster once and for all
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You can't, it's impossible. It knows all your ticks and vulnerabilities.

 

[uglyugly]

You can't, it's impossible. It knows all your ticks and vulnerabilities.

When I talked to a therapist she mentioned exposure therapy which is just exposing yourself to embarrassing shit until you lose all fear, maybe I just need to get rejected and bullied 100 times to finally lose my fear.

 

[Efiliste]

When I talked to a therapist she mentioned exposure therapy which is just exposing yourself to embarrassing shit until you lose all fear, maybe I just need to get rejected and bullied 100 times to finally lose my fear.

That might increase your fear to due the increase exposure to the negative stimuli.

 

[Drinkcel]

Yes I just LDAR mostly

 

[Eric harris]

I never have trouble socialising its just that i know its a waste off time

 

[SteelCentaur]

I had severe social anxiety and agoraphobia. It disappeared when I admitted to myself that it was ovER and fully gave up on life. That being said, I'm a misanthrope, so I still don't get any enjoyment out of socialization.

 

[uglyugly]

I never have trouble socialising its just that i know its a waste off time

Having fun with friends isn't a waste of time imo

 

[autistandugly]

I have isolated myself for years, haven't talked to anyone except when I'm obligated to. I just don't know how to choose the right words, I feel dumb, I don't know what to do with my hands, I keep looking away when people talk to me and have a hard time showing emotions. How do I break this curse?

Same

 

[autistandugly]

Yes I just LDAR mostly

What do you do while ldar?

 

[autistandugly]

I never have trouble socialising its just that i know its a waste off time

Bc everyone rejects you

 

[autistandugly]

Yep, I've kinda lived in my room alone for 8 years and never left unless it was for uni or something vital

Age?

 

[Drinkcel]

What do you do while ldar?

Drink, browse the forum, YouTube and occasionally video games

 

[Abacaxi14]

When I have to speak english yes. I can get nervous but in my on language I'd say I am somewhat low inhib.

 

[autistandugly]

When I have to speak english yes. I can get nervous but in my on language I'd say I am somewhat low inhib.

Which is your first lengauge?

 

[autistandugly]

Drink, browse the forum, YouTube and occasionally video games

Do you get drunk everyday ?

 

[Abacaxi14]

Which is your first lengauge?

Portuguese.

 

[autistandugly]

Portuguese.

Mine spanish

 

[Abacaxi14]

Mine spanish

Very nice brother. It looks like a lot with portuguese.

Yo comenzé a estudiar español three weeks ago. Wish me suerte.

 

[autistandugly]

Very nice brother. It looks like a lot with portuguese.

Yo comenzé a estudiar español three weeks ago. Wish me suerte.

Te puedo ayudar si quieres

 

[Drinkcel]

Do you get drunk everyday ?

Almost

 

[Blackpill Monk]

I have isolated myself for years, haven't talked to anyone except when I'm obligated to. I just don't know how to choose the right words, I feel dumb, I don't know what to do with my hands, I keep looking away when people talk to me and have a hard time showing emotions. How do I break this curse?

Yes brother, I am also non-NT social anxiety cel

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

I have isolated myself for years, haven't talked to anyone except when I'm obligated to. I just don't know how to choose the right words, I feel dumb, I don't know what to do with my hands, I keep looking away when people talk to me and have a hard time showing emotions. How do I break this curse?

Yep, I've kinda lived in my room alone for 8 years and never left unless it was for uni or something vital

Same thing for me too.

 

[Eric harris]

Having fun with friends isn't a waste of time imo

No i cant make friends no matter how well i socialize, which is why its a waste of time

 

[Eric harris]

Bc everyone rejects you

Exactly

 

[EngelCallDell19]

NTpill is gay and overrated

NTpillers are bluepillers, thinking that the way you talk to girls or interact with them is what can get you laid is bluepilled as fuck.

 

[cripplecel]

NTpillers are bluepillers, thinking that the way you talk to girls or interact with them is what can get you laid is bluepilled as fuck.

It is a factor. Normies get GF but they will struggle big time if they are a turbosperg. If you act like a sperg then you are showing EVERYONE you are a loser & socially retarded which = low social status.

 

[EngelCallDell19]

It is a factor. Normies get GF but they will struggle big time if they are a turbosperg. If you act like a sperg then you are showing EVERYONE you are a loser & socially retarded which = low social status.

I agree.

And autistic men who are ugly will have a hard time and ofc it’s over for them but some NTpillers like to claim “enough autism can make anyone incel, even chads!”

 

[cripplecel]

I agree.

And autistic men who are ugly will have a hard time and ofc it’s over for them but some NTpillers like to claim “enough autism can make anyone incel, even chads!”

Yea chad can’t be incel even if he is autistic. The looks halo will make up for his social retardation. Being social retarded is DIFFICULT as a chad since you will get opportunities constantly to do stuff, so he can easily improve his social skills to a degree.

 

[XtremeMax]

I've never been able to talk to strangers and now I have zero friends and I'm so lonely

 

[Efiliste]

Age?

24

 

[starystulejarz]

When I talked to a therapist she mentioned exposure therapy which is just exposing yourself to embarrassing shit until you lose all fear, maybe I just need to get rejected and bullied 100 times to finally lose my fear.

It only works for Chads, foids and normies not the incel. Those three will always get some possitive feedback while incel will only get negative at worst or indifference at best. Therapy with theRAPIST foids are waste of time. Ofc we are talking about seeing someone face to face with exposure you can make yourself less scared of phone conversations but will do nothing against irl fear where you meet with real people that within 14ms will judge your face and will instantly hate you.

 

[Nate Dogg]

Most people here probably

 

[Efiliste]

Most people here probably

 

[Efiliste]

It only works for Chads, foids and normies not the incel. Those three will always get some possitive feedback while incel will only get negative at worst or indifference at best. Therapy with theRAPIST foids are waste of time. Ofc we are talking about seeing someone face to face with exposure you can make yourself less scared of phone conversations but will do nothing against irl fear where you meet with real people that within 14ms will judge your face and will instantly hate you.

Sub5s mostly get negative feedback from others

 

[M3llow3lectrician]

You have to become numb to it that’s what happened to me. Alcohol might be able to help to an extent.

 

[Robb97]

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/SipsTea/comments/184bx61/never_saw_it_that_way/

 

[Lonelyus]

I've never been able to talk to strangers and now I have zero friends and I'm so lonely

Ummm, Then what am i then? We are friends.

 

[XtremeMax]

Ummm, Then what am i then? We are friends.

I meant IRL friends

 

[XtremeMax]

Ummm, Then what am i then? We are friends.

you are one of my friends

 

[suicidecase]

Yes. But it's because I have a voice disorder. I have low level anxiety all the time, even just being at home with my Mum and Dad. It only goes when they leave the house. I only realised this fairly recently. I go weeks and months without talking to anyone.

As for overcoming anxiety (for normal people). You can only do that by engaging in more social interaction, exposure therapy, effectively.

 

[despisedpaul]

I once fainted from the anxiety of a social situation. Hit my head on a wall.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

I'm non-NT and I have social-anxiety. I can't even carry a conversation with most people.

 

[uglyugly]

I once fainted from the anxiety of a social situation. Hit my head on a wall.

Damn

 

[Drinkcel]

24

Brutal

 

[Drinkcel]

I once fainted from the anxiety of a social situation. Hit my head on a wall.

I have brain damage from multiple concussions