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Any advise to my situation ?

also humor is cope

i had good enough humor to befriend any dude as gay as that sounds. Guys like the company of funny friends

yet whenever foids heard me super obviously joking, since im ugly, they... took at as if im being serious? they just always look at me like im retarded and being genuine. When its them too stupid to even be aware between jokes and statements.

At the same time, Chad can make fart jokes and the femoids will laugh as hard as they can force, touch him on the arm and say tehee youre so funny xD
 
I know bro. Even when I genuinely try to befried girls (it's this or you just don't talk to them) I heard them braguing about how tall/muscular the guy she hang out with were.
I recently met a girl who is significantly shorter, she seemed nice but didn't get her number. And I don't choose people on their height because I try to be as oponed as I can be in my interactions though it's difficult.
 
I'm turning 22 soon, 162 cm height (short legs + growth programed to be stopped at puberty since birth), super introvert. Went to the night reunions of my study group but find it quite hard to actually talk to people (to girls its even worse). I dress decently and try a few jokes but it seems I still have things to catch up to improve my social skills. Never had a girlfriend of course (at least for the moment), never had sex, hesitating and going to escorts in the months to come (but don't really want to do it though).
I fear I may be autistic and that I might have some tendency to unintentionnaly simping (or at least I may appear like that). I'm pursuing a MA in historical studies and planning on becoming a teacher since I have less difficulties to speak about precise topics and always been interested in history.
I don't go to the gym but I swim from time to time and try to walk regularly, but maybe the gym could help. I'm currently struggling to quit porn and don't want to give up.
Just to give a more precise information, I live in France not in the US or the UK so there may be different parameters here.

I have a suggestion that MIGHT be useful.
Given it is France, with socialism, indoctrination, lots of higher education and plenty of bigger cities, I suggest you try to find a part time job or do volontary work in ie homeless animal shelter, or (if you have the stomach for it), with homeless people or drug abusers.
There might be some "good" (virtue signalling) younger women there, still living on their parents' support. Good luck.
 
dude if you're doing well with your studies and you enjoy it great, at least when you're a teacher in a few years you'll be a guy with culture and interesting topics to talk about, that's a good point for the chicks. Above all try to have confidence in yourself, if not, as a teacher the kids will destroy you. I have a mate who has autism and is quite introverted, even so he has been able to socialize a bit more by going to some meetings on topics that interest him, reading and things like that, so he has found people more like him, it hasn't changed his life either but it is helping him to improve his social skills goals a bit.
 
I dress decently and try a few jokes but it seems I still have things to catch up to improve my social skills.
You are so damn close to ascending. Keep improving those social skills and take 4 showers a day and you will slay, trust me! :feelsgah:

soy
 
Illegal in France.
But you can still find independent ones, though if I go to them I want to wait a little bit more. It is actually legal for an esc to propose her services but illegal for clients. Its weird I know but it is made to impede human trafficking, and it is a semi-efficient mesure. But yeah on some testimonies or vocal recording you can clearly make the difference with independent hookers who do it on their free will and who even appreciate some of it.
 
But you can still find independent ones, though if I go to them I want to wait a little bit more. It is actually legal for an esc to propose her services but illegal for clients. Its weird I know but it is made to impede human trafficking, and it is a semi-efficient mesure. But yeah on some testimonies or vocal recording you can clearly make the difference with independent hookers who do it on their free will and who even appreciate some of it.
Aha!
However, I hope you can find my main suggestion useful. :)
 

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