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Serious Any advice for a soon-to-be universitycel?

force urself to be outgoing during orientation and the first weeks tbh

and only talk to guys around ur looks level and prefably those who u mog
 
You have now until college to looksmax as much as you can. So go to the gym, eat right, get all the sleep you can. If you're lucky you are still developing and may gain better looks or some height before college. Report back here with how good looking you are after the fact and then people can give more detailed advice.

If your looks improve to maybe 4/10 you'd probably want to look into statusmaxing/joining a frat/etc, if you remain hideous the best course of action would probably to connect with other circles of low value men through nerdy hobbies and try to survive college by means of copes.
You got a point here. You must first make one or several groups of friends and do so very quickly. Groups of friends are the backbone of your social life at uni, you must have them before ever hoping to ascend. And these groups form fast. Forget foids and focus on friends as a first step. Good luck!
Dont isolate yourself, I fuck regret not making friends in my UG,
You need to be very NT and extrovert. I've seen NT extrovert Normies(5/10) get laid in my college. If you're below that it's over, but you shouldn't give up.
Don't act like a shy introvert. This a major failo on normies.
I fucking regret that shit :feelsrope:

Also if you're into math than PM me, I can give you some advices.
Try to make friends within the first 2 weeks and rope if you don't make any.

Unless you're a STEMcel with a decent IQ, then just studymaxx and embrace your virginity
Remember EVERYTHING slightly incelly counts against you as a borderline incel/ lowtier normie. If you are at this rung, it's actually worth it to ditch your android phone, ditch STEM ( I would recommend being a journalism major, because it seems like they score the most effortlessly, you also have to do assignments that give you a non creepy excuse to talk to people), do every frivolous thing that you find illogical that normies do to blend in. Avoid sausagefests/ male spaces/ male hobbies. You are a staunch Bernie supporter now. Brush up on five lame musicians & shows you probably hate that normies enjoy and be an expert on it. DON'T BE YOURSELF, be a NORMIE. Make your transformation a ritual, look yourself in the mirror and slap yourself like in Mr. Robot until you can pretend to be someone you are not. Be very careful who you spend your time with. Definitely do not befriend people that mog you, as they will simply steal your women. At the same time, do not befriend incels, as they will drag you down to their level. Just stick to low-tier normie friends. It's better to have no male friends at all, than incel or Chad friends. A lot of college kids incorrectly overstress themselves. Differentiate yourself by using this time to be as hedonistic as possible. NEVER turn down an opportunity to do drugs or party. You future depends on getting laid RIGHT NOW, not if you can pay the bills 5 years later.
-Do not live in Student accommodation unless you're a sadist. You will hear people having sex every week.

-The first people you meet in the first few weeks probably won't be your friends *(unless you're chad). I tried my best to normiemaxx. I'd force myself to talk to people, yet within days they'd avoid me. The first people you meet probably won't be your friends.

-TRY AND MAKE MALE FRIENDS on your course. Foids are useless and I am yet to come across a foid that has outperformed guys in STEM courses. If you make friends you can work on shit together and help each other.
Just remember to EXPECT HELL.

I wish somebody told me this before going to college.
Just listen carefully to these men of culture OP
 
@SlayerSlayer brother you gave the best advice, the OP should definitely follow that.
 
Just know that you shouldn't listen to normies or Hollywood jewshit that says "college or uni is different than high school, it's where you find yourself". Uni is high school amplified by 100x. You're finally out of the shackles but protection of your parents, but you will subject to the brutality of life. If you're poor and ugly, you'll remain that way. If you're Chad, you'll be in heaven and likely be a CEO someday who does minimal shit and takes home $300k a month. The only people who ascend are the geniuscels who do it by moneymaxxing later on, but just remember after age 18, you're on the same playing field as every 20, 30, 40, 50-70 year old who wants to see you DEAD the same way foids do. Also uni is designed to FAIL you, you'll have about 2-4x the workload but 1/2 the time to study.
 
Just finished reading through this thread and I had mixed thoughts. I went to uni a few years ago before Trump got elected and before I discovered the red pill, the black pill and the incel movement. I was under the impression that there would be people like me there, who were "sensitive, creative, empathetic" etc, and the freedom afforded by living in halls would allow for so much potential, for doing funny stuff with frens, creating cool music, videos and animations, writing things, doing substances together and having spiritual experiences and revelations. To an extent this was true, I did meet maybe 2-3 people who were like this but they were also turbonormie, mostly NT and had the energy and willingness to keep up their turbonormie NT front almost 24/7 for their turbonormie NT social circles. I still do not understand how they had so much energy and could socialise more or less constantly, in person or on social media. EDIT: I also discovered that with studying and coursework, extra-curricular activities, volunteering, etc. you just don't have the time or energy for almost anything else.

At first, I wondered if it was because of the uni I went to, which has been called a "posh uni" and is part of the Russell Group, which is the UK's Ivy League. Then I started visiting other unis and realised that they are all more or less the same, from the smallest and lowest-ranked unis in the UK up to Oxbridge and the Russell Group. If you're not Chad then you can still try to be a normie and ascend that way, but if you're 4/10 or 5/10 and below it's probably over. One thing I can say though is that, for the most part, I got treated better than I did when I was in secondary school although that was probably down to formal politeness, people not knowing that much about me, and the size of the campus and the city meaning that I didn't stand out too much. There is a greentext from 4chan or some other imageboard where some dude tried to ascend by approachmaxxing at his uni but this led to him being recognised as a weirdo on his campus and security wouldn't even let him into the club at night. I would say that, if you got triggered by seeing happy couples and friendship groups in school, uni is much worse because they are literally everywhere, from on campus and accommodation to the lecture theatres and classrooms.
 
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Should I even go to parties? I'll have the chance, I just want to know if it's truly over before I isolationmaxx. I've been to my fair share of highschool parties (when I would jestermaxx) and when girls were drunk they didn't look the other way when they saw me. Maybe I have a chance.
You will have the chance to go to parties? I don’t really have this chance tbh. Maybe if you do you could try em out and if the foids aren’t interested you can at least cope with the alcohol at the party.
 
I’ll probably join uni soon
 

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