For one, a date doesn't necessarily require spending money. I always figured I'd take a woman on a walk to one of the nearby landscape points, or on a sports activity like rollerblading/skateboarding if I had the chance.
Is transportation going to be involved and whose primarily paying for it?
Is food going to be involved and who is primarily paying for it?
If sex is to take place who is primarily paying for contraception (condoms)?
At the end of the day, as a man, you are going to be footing most of the bill when it comes to the pursuit of sex, that's just a fact, using extreme exception to the rule examples like "going for a walk" is a cop out and an attempt to disingenously circumvent whats obvious, and even then it doesn't work, you really think any woman wants to go for a fucking walk, with an average/below average looking men to add to the ridiculousness, you've been watching too many movies, women go on walk dates with attractive men because they enjoy just being around the guy, dating for a normal man is about how you can entertain and excite her, you can't do that by just being around her like an attractive man can, so please stop with the delusions
That aside, you really have to be autistic in order to not differenciate between spending time with someone who wants to spend time with you and someone who hates it, but does so only because of monetary compensation.
You have to autistic to understand this, understand that you are incel and will never get this, and still impose such a restriction on yourself, its like a flightless bird saying it won't move more than 50 miles outside a certain radius unless it can fly, knowing full well it will never fly, you are doing this shit to yourself
If you wanted to discuss something that you find interesting and feel passionate about, had noone to talk with but there was this service where someone will discuss anything with you for $50 an hour, do you think it'd be a satisfying experience?
False analogy, depends on how much one enjoys discussing that thing, depends on the criteria of enjoyment tooo, the enjoyment one gets out of a discussion cannot be compared to orgasms from sex, so it being a satisfying experience depends on why you are doing it
Guys like you want sex because its validation from women (at least that's what you see it as), men like me want sex because its physically satisfying, so paying for sex won't satisfy your criteria of validation but it will satisfy my criteria of physical satisfaction
Btw in case you missed @DeformAspergerCel 's post, I'd like to see what you think about it:
I missed it, I will respond now
it's up to each individual to determine whether the shit they would have to go through in order to "ascend" is really worth it. The example that comes to mind is NEETandTidy. Clearly he took your logic to its extreme
That isn't my logic, its the exact opposite of my logic, my logic is to utilize a loophole whilst on the reservation, he left the reservation lol, what he did is in a completely seperate category from my logic
Dating > Prostitution > ???? (the next extreme step in my logic
WOULD BE RAPING WOMEN, its the next step in circumventing female gate keeping of sex as a resource)
If you won't/can't date, your next choice is paying for sex, if you won't do either, the next choice is getting sex outside of dating where you also don't pay, that's rape, I don't see how you can say a next step is now going to fuck men
@NEETAndTidy did something in an entirely different category of my logic, he went to fuck men that larp as women
Here's my definition of a volcel; if you can ascend with a human looking foid through tinder that you actually can get your dick hard to yet refuse it, you're a volcel
The "through tinder" part needs to be removed because that is a huge limiting factor, basically only 6/10 men can be volcel at that point and its getting worse and worse, as you yourself said: "The sexual market is incredibly skewed thanks to modernity"
So with your criteria for volceldom, as time goes on, less and less men would be volcel, just by virture of failing on tinder
Come on dude, you know that makes no sense