Venting Am I an Incel because I don't take action or I don't take action because I am Incel?

[guessthatsit]

Maybe if I took action my life can change. Maybe I need to hit the gym, wear better clothes, be more social and post on instagram. That's what a normal human does, right? Maybe if I do these things I will finally be loved.


I watched some Instagram stories of my peers and everyone including the ugly ones are enjoying the day while I rot in my room, fml.

 

[Mohamedömar]

Maybe if I took action my life can change. Maybe I need to hit the gym, wear better clothes, be more social and post on instagram. That's what a normal human does, right? Maybe if I do these things I will finally be loved.


I watched some Instagram stories of my peers and everyone including the ugly ones are enjoying the day while I rot in my room, fml.

How are your genetics? good or bad

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

It’s circular, but the root cause isn’t inaction, but innate immutable traits. Action only works if you’re genetically optimal. If you were attractive enough, action would’ve paid off early and reinforced itself; instead, repeated failure conditions you into passivity.

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

No gym for your face
No socialising for your height
No clothes for your autism

 

[Caichan]

No gym for your face
No socialising for your height
No clothes for your autism

 

[VanGobbel]

Maybe I need to hit the gym, wear better clothes, be more social and post on instagram

 

[4sez]

Maybe if I took action my life can change. Maybe I need to hit the gym, wear better clothes, be more social and post on instagram. That's what a normal human does, right? Maybe if I do these things I will finally be loved.


I watched some Instagram stories of my peers and everyone including the ugly ones are enjoying the day while I rot in my room, fml.

Over

 

[Alvin31]

You need decent looks,decent personality and good social circle to take action optimally

 

[Autist]

If no woman showed interest in you during all the years you were in school, it didn't start for you (or for me)

 

[guessthatsit]

How are your genetics? good or bad

If they were good I wouldn't be here

 

[guessthatsit]

It’s circular, but the root cause isn’t inaction, but innate immutable traits. Action only works if you’re genetically optimal. If you were attractive enough, action would’ve paid off early and reinforced itself; instead, repeated failure conditions you into passivity.

Oh

 

[Jesussaveme]

No gym for your face
No socialising for your height
No clothes for your autism

How is socialising co-related with height?

 

[autisticsoy]

If people liked you or have interest in you they generally come to you first a most of the times.