Serious Always ask this question to a thERapist before you hire them

[Tetsuya Koalagami]

Most therapists and their training isn't to help their clients thrive and be formidable, it's to keep us manageable as wagies for the corporate system. That's why therapy is so popular an encouraged among corporate types and women eat it up (because they don't want to be formidable they just want to be validated).

This is the great litmus test or the Rorschach ink test to determine if the therapist is suited to work with men. Even soycucked male the rapists will fail this:

"Say you have a young male client and he tells you he likes this girl, they're both in their 20's, but she has been in a relationship for 3 or 4 years with her current boyfriend. She wants to get married but they haven't gone to that point yet. Your client wants to hit on her anyway. What do you tell your client to do?"

How the therapist responds will reveal how well she understands male psychology, ambition, competition, and risk-taking. You're watching how she handles nuances and whether she will default to nice guy moralizing or actually sit in the tension with you.

This is the question to ask to see if the therapist can manage male clients or if they will castrate him. It’s not about the girl. It’s not about dating ethics. It’s a diagnostic tool — a psychological tripwire that reveals whether the therapist gets and RESPECTS how male minds work and won't pathologize or shame or vaginaspeak at us (yes even male therapists vaginaspeak)

There is only one correct answer to this.

Most therapists want you to be a good wagie, but what we really need is a therapist who won't declaw you for wanting to be good at being a man.

 

[Tetsuya Koalagami]

What is the correct answer to this?