Stupid Clown
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Over the past few years I've experimented on making friends, mainly online and today I wanna share the info I've learned.
When it comes to making friends never let them know how much you enjoy being around them, let it remain a mystery with a few hints and cookie crumbs left about when you talk to them. I've discovered that once your friend knows you like them and want to be around them they lose an immense amount of respect for you and stop trying to earn your affection.
When you're talking to your friends online never respond quickly or immediately but don't wait long either. Make it so they're on edge waiting for your reply, this will make them more obsessed with wanting for your social validation and approval
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Never contact them first, wait for them to contact you. Never share too much personal info with them, but ask questions in a natural way without overdoing it so you can learn more about them and later bring up things about them occasionally which will allow them to know you've listened.
Relationships are power dynamics in all cases. Never allow the other person to take power.
When it comes to making friends never let them know how much you enjoy being around them, let it remain a mystery with a few hints and cookie crumbs left about when you talk to them. I've discovered that once your friend knows you like them and want to be around them they lose an immense amount of respect for you and stop trying to earn your affection.
When you're talking to your friends online never respond quickly or immediately but don't wait long either. Make it so they're on edge waiting for your reply, this will make them more obsessed with wanting for your social validation and approval
.
Never contact them first, wait for them to contact you. Never share too much personal info with them, but ask questions in a natural way without overdoing it so you can learn more about them and later bring up things about them occasionally which will allow them to know you've listened.
Relationships are power dynamics in all cases. Never allow the other person to take power.