Abstinence and enlightenment

[janoycresva]

I've read some stuff on this forum that stated that "being an incel is a blessing". This may be true and you may be able to achieve a greater state of consciousness by abstaining from sex. However, this will only work if you don't masturbate or watch porn in addition to being an incel. My current reality will most likely not grant me intercourse for years. Until then, I will not masturbate or watch porn. Masturbation and porn has gotten boring anyways, it's the same shit over and over again. I've found that the longer I abstain from masturbation, the less I crave it and the less I crave pornography. I'm going to be a week on no fap after tomorrow, I was more horny two days ago in comparison to today. Sometimes I look at images of beautiful white European women dressed up in traditional clothes just to appreciate the human form but today, I saw a picture of a half naked woman showing her ass and was sort of disgusted. To be disgusted at something so vanilla was strange to me as I've watched scat and tranny porn in the past. Anyways, if you can't socially mog a chad, you might as well try to physically, spiritually and intellectually mog them. Plus you'll be going against the normie culture tide, everything nowadays is about sex and porn is everywhere.

 

[TemporaryBritcel]

sex is the greatest fulfilment in life, our biological purpose.
telling yourself you are benifitting abstinence is COPE
sex is the greatest fulfilment in life, our biological purpose.
telling yourself you are benefiting from inceldom through abstinence is COPE

 

[Deleted member 8353]

I find that porn and addiction to masturbation are the true culprits of distraction. What I'm getting at is that I don't see someone who faps every few days or once a week to be on the same level as another who faps multiple times per day, or everyday consecutively. Maybe that's cope though.

Another thing is, as I've mentioned several times it's difficult to actually give up what you were denied. Even if you're celibate and don't fap at all, if you still have desires and intrusive thoughts about sex, are you really going to be able to avoid feeding them as an incel? Most monks are normies for this very reason.

In other words I think people like us aren't the type for whom this state would be a blessing. That's why the "just be a volcel theory" is often used as a joke, because it's ridiculously hard for us to achieve.

 

[janoycresva]

I find that porn and addiction to masturbation are the true culprits of distraction. What I'm getting at is that I don't see someone who faps every few days or once a week to be on the same level as another who faps multiple times per day, or everyday consecutively. Maybe that's cope though.

Another thing is, as I've mentioned several times it's difficult to actually give up what you were denied. Even if you're celibate and don't fap at all, if you still have desires and intrusive thoughts about sex, are you really going to be able to avoid feeding them as an incel? Most monks are normies for this very reason.

In other words I think people like us aren't the type for whom this state would be a blessing. That's why the "just be a volcel theory" is often used as a joke, because it's ridiculously hard for us to achieve.

I get what you're saying but at this point, I'm up for trying anything to see if it improves my mental state.

 

[Aaaayoaaaab]

just become this guy