Discussion A question to my fellow softies on the forum

[Hoppipolla]

By softy I mean... sensitive! I guess. You probably know what I mean

I'll put the question in the poll.

 

[supersoldier]

sometimes she was, sometimes wasn't. My grandma was very controlling. I believe school bullying did most damage.

 

[Hoppipolla]

sometimes she was, sometimes wasn't. My grandma was very controlling. I believe school bullying did most damage.

Hm, good point. I guess repression from anywhere can make you become less assertive.

 

[zerozerozero]

not sure if i qualify as a "softy" but my mother was extremely controlling

 

[Tugacel]

My mother barely acknowledged my existence, always spoiling my chad brother...

 

[NorthernWind]

Depends. Could be very controlling, could be very indifferent.

 

[Left4DeadKoala]

No she isn't controlling. A lot of people in real life think that I am not "soft" but the truth is that when niggas insult me

(irl I don't really care if someone insults me online lol) it hurts really bad.

Ofc I hide my emotions tho because we all know what would happen if I were to snap at someone or even cry abt it.

I was just born this way and I have always been pretty sensitive.

I wish I wasn't as sensitive as I am tho.

Anyways rambling is over lol

 

[RegularManlet]

I was showered until I was 13

Could not tie my own shoe laces until 11

Was too scared to pour myself a cup of milk or orange juice at 10

I used to have my ass wiped for me and my hands washed for me at a certain age, maybe 8 or 9

 

[La Grande Kanga]

She's rarely around enough to be controlling, but she is.

 

[KING NOTHING]

I used to have my ass wiped for me and my hands washed for me at a certain age, maybe 8 or 9

Jfl I thought I was the only one.

 

[KING NOTHING]

I believe school bullying did most damage.

I was a dead average normie up until middle school. I had my ego completely shattered since and I haven’t regained it.

 

[RegularManlet]

Jfl I thought I was the only one.

Lol

This sort of stuff is just not good in a world where it feels like a massive competition and race by default. While I was still incapable of showering myself some guys already got to the finish line and stuck their cock in a foids hole.

 

[NorthernWind]

I was showered until I was 13

Could not tie my own shoe laces until 11

Was too scared to pour myself a cup of milk or orange juice at 10

I used to have my ass wiped for me and my hands washed for me at a certain age, maybe 8 or 9

Some mothers have pedophilic tendencies.

 

[RegularManlet]

Jfl I thought I was the only one.

Lol

This sort of stuff is just not good in a world where it feels like a massive competition and race by default. While I was still incapable of showering myself some guys already got to the finish line and stuck their cock in a foids hole

Some mothers have pedophilic tendencies.

My mother stopped showering me at around 10 or 9
She would sometimes receive me out of the shower though, she would have a warm towel ready to dry me, that was honestly great during the winter.

I dont think she was interested in me like that and ever will be lol, my father neither, but it was exclusively my father from 10-13

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

She used to be controlling until she found out I had autism. Then she loosened up a lot.