Discussion A common IT myth

[Highfield78]

IT and similar discussion sites often claim that incels use height and other genetic factors as excuses for their lack of dating success. "They choose to complain about their height because they can't change it" is a regular argument on IT. The argument basically is that incels are lazy, and will therefore pretend they can't improve themselves in ways that will lead to their dating success improving.

The truth is that IT are the ones that identify factors that people can change (attitude, maturity, joining clubs, etc) as being relevant to dating success to reinforce their mistaken view that incels's destiny is in their own hands. They can't accept that incels are incels due to factors beyond their control.

 

[abrahamlarpwys]

water

 

[Highfield78]

They really want to believe that the world is fair and just place. I guess it gives them comfort.

 

[lagaga]

IT can't comprehend real depression and life problems .

 

[INVERTER]

IT and similar discussion sites often claim that incels use height and other genetic factors as excuses for their lack of dating success. "They choose to complain about their height because they can't change it" is a regular argument on IT. The argument basically is that incels are lazy, and will therefore pretend they can't improve themselves in ways that will lead to their dating success improving.

The truth is that IT are the ones that identify factors that people can change (attitude, maturity, joining clubs, etc) as being relevant to dating success to reinforce their mistaken view that incels's destiny is in their own hands. They can't accept that incels are incels due to factors beyond their control.

These niggas don't realize I've joined every club on the planet and it doesn't fucking matter if you were simply born wrong

 

[Highfield78]

These niggas don't realize I've joined every club on the planet and it doesn't fucking matter if you were simply born wrong

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[tired as fuck]

IT and similar discussion sites often claim that incels use height and other genetic factors as excuses for their lack of dating success. "They choose to complain about their height because they can't change it" is a regular argument on IT. The argument basically is that incels are lazy, and will therefore pretend they can't improve themselves in ways that will lead to their dating success improving.

The truth is that IT are the ones that identify factors that people can change (attitude, maturity, joining clubs, etc) as being relevant to dating success to reinforce their mistaken view that incels's destiny is in their own hands. They can't accept that incels are incels due to factors beyond their control.

Both groups tend to mistakenly assume that it's a dichotomy between the two aspects of life, whilst it's more like a spread, think of it in videogame stats terms: a 10-20% is the things you have control over, the remaining 80-90% is things you do not have control over.

Here's the thing: the 80-90% preclude the remaining 10-20%, meaning if you don't meet the genetic criteria, everything you have control over is meaningless and won't change anything. So the things you have control over ultimately only affect HTN+ people, as they determine whether you're a volcel (in which case, consider the rope) or a xX69420pussydestroyer69420Xx.

Water.

 

[Mr Producer]

water

 

[anglocelticcel]

I literally tried everything to get a GF/ get laid