A big part of my problem is that I only want a relationship when I'm very horny

anon1822

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Sure, evidence suggests that I'm ugly. I also probably have aspergers and other mental problems.

But those are not the only reasons why I'm still an incel.

I basically have no desire to be in a relationship unless I'm super horny. I avoid people altogether, only when I'm horny I become miserable that I'm not with a woman.

Could I ascend if I did everything in my power to become a different person, to maximize my looks and appear as NT as possible? Maybe, idk, it's hard to tell. Would take a lot of money and willpower I don't have, especially with the bald thing.

But I'm not motivated to. A few minutes of desire isn't enough to overpower my entire personality that hates being near other people.

Even I had a girlfriend, then what? I fuck her and then I realize I just spent months or years of effort to be with someone that I hate after I blow my load?
 

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when we have sex, we release dopamine that gives us a sense of happiness. your goal is not sex, it's dopamine.

the point is that dopamine is also released when we eat something very tasty, when we see a very good film, when we do some very important achievement, when we do a very intense exercise, etc. even drug use, pornography and video games release a lot of dopamine.

starting from this reasoning, why would you seek dopamine in sex, if you can get it from other sources ?? just because they conditioned you to think that way ????
 

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When I came, all my desires are gone as well.
 

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I'm similar. I know that if I did get a girl it wouldn't be long before I'm sick of her. The only reason to stay with a girl is having children and raising them in a stable environment. The problem is being powerless to stop a selfish bitch from leaving us and taking our resources.
 

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Go to escorts then, better for everyone.

Btw it's not a big part of your problem lmao, because as an incel you wouldn't be able to do anything even if you didn't have this mentality. Perhaps this mindset would even make you more attractive if you weren't ugly, as foids love people like this.
 

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Why are you complaining? Just fap everytime you are horny and live your life lel tbht h ded srs you are also talking about not getting gf is mainly your mental problem, jfl get surgeries boyo
 
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sorry but it's a cope my man, if you leave the house, you will see that going out alone sucks ass, and that even friends don't cut it in some places...

just hold hands and watch the sunset with your gym bro, brooooooooo
 

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when we have sex, we release dopamine that gives us a sense of happiness. your goal is not sex, it's dopamine.

the point is that dopamine is also released when we eat something very tasty, when we see a very good film, when we do some very important achievement, when we do a very intense exercise, etc. even drug use, pornography and video games release a lot of dopamine.

starting from this reasoning, why would you seek dopamine in sex, if you can get it from other sources ?? just because they conditioned you to think that way ????
We seek sex because we don't want to fail at the only important thing in life.
 

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You are right. there is no reason to talk with women if you dont fuck
 

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OP I think I'm similar to you in that way man . I avoid ppl even when they treat me well , and then I'm worried about don't have a girlfriend or friends...Maybe is because a lot of ppl treat me bad and then I took vengeance against the others.
 

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We seek sex because we don't want to fail at the only important thing in life.
Viewing sex as 'the only important thing in life' is a very narrow and unhealthy mindset.

Like the other guy said, the most important thing in my life is myself. This is not a cope, it's a fact. I know myself better than anyone on this planet ever will; I look out for myself more than anyone on this planet ever will.
 

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Viewing sex as 'the only important thing in life' is a very narrow and unhealthy mindset.

Like the other guy said, the most important thing in my life is myself. This is not a cope, it's a fact. I know myself better than anyone on this planet ever will; I look out for myself more than anyone on this planet ever will.
I think you're coping. If you don't have children, you're an inferior man and have failed in life, period.
 

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Viewing sex as 'the only important thing in life' is a very narrow and unhealthy mindset.

Like the other guy said, the most important thing in my life is myself. This is not a cope, it's a fact. I know myself better than anyone on this planet ever will; I look out for myself more than anyone on this planet ever will.
Sex is something you do for yourself. When you're fucking a foid you're doing it for yourself. Receiving validation from women is incredibly important as a man, even though most of us cope and claim it's not important. You can't truly ignore evolution and primal instincts.
Sex, specifically reproduction is objectively your main goal in life as a man even though it often doesn't feel like it and there are some very good copes that make it easier to temporarily ignore all of it. Besides, reproduction is something you do for yourself.

When the people who are supposed to allow you to reproduce or at least just get sex deny you this basic and very important function in life they let you know just how subhuman and repulsive you are.
 
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I think you're coping. If you don't have children, you're an inferior man and have failed in life, period.
Absolutely not the case. There are far more worthwhile ways to leave your mark on the planet than having children.

Degenerate hood rats, criminals etc. spawn degenerate offspring. It doesn't make them superior men.

Sex, specifically reproduction is objectively your main goal in life as a man even though it often doesn't feel like it and there are some very good copes that make it easier to temporarily ignore all of it. Besides, reproduction is something you do for yourself.
I don't want kids. I am 100% certain of this. It couldn't be further from what I want from life. Therefore it is not a goal of any kind in life for me, let alone my main goal.
 

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wish that was my only problem, i crave for companionship so much not just sex
 

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Absolutely not the case. There are far more worthwhile ways to leave your mark on the planet than having children.

Degenerate hood rats, criminals etc. spawn degenerate offspring. It doesn't make them superior men.


I don't want kids. I am 100% certain of this. It couldn't be further from what I want from life. Therefore it is not a goal of any kind in life for me, let alone my main goal.
You can make great contributions to humanity while still having children, you know. Inventing something groundbreaking or creating an artistic masterpiece for normies, Chads, and their children to enjoy while you have none of your own is the ultimate form of cuckoldry.

Also, those "hoodrats" have better genes than all virgin STEMcels.
 

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