B33troot
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During my 20s and early 30s I was generally optimistic about life and tried everything to get a gf. Although I failed, I know that now, at age 40, I can at least look back and tell myself that I've done my due diligence. So if nothing else, I don't have to think "if only I did this or that in my 20s, I would have found a gf".
It's still over for me. But now I just deal with the pain of lifelong inceldom. And not the pain of inceldom combined with the torture of knowing I could have prevented inceldom if only I did this or that in my 20s.
Believe me when I say this, but if you're in your early 20s, you still have a chance. (Of course, if your face is deformed or you have a birth defect then it never began for you, so please exit this thread right away.)
Otherwise, if you're in your early 20s, it's entirely possible that your issues are psychological in nature and that you're just exaggerating your ugliness to yourself. Why do I say this? Because if some people think they're more handsome than they really are, then it's also possible for the inverse to be true, i.e., some would think they're uglier than they really are.
If you're in you're early 20s and dont have a hideous deformity, are you absolutely 100% sure are you that you are as ugly as you think?
If you're a normal dude with unattractive features or a skin or weight problem, you still have a chance. Try looksmaxxing and personalitymaxxing. Become active socially. Yes, you will face brutal rejections and get mogged on a daily basis. But you must learn to be thick skinned and endure everything. If you last long enough you might find a gf.
There's no guarantee but it greatly increases the likelihood of finding a gf.
It's still over for me. But now I just deal with the pain of lifelong inceldom. And not the pain of inceldom combined with the torture of knowing I could have prevented inceldom if only I did this or that in my 20s.
Believe me when I say this, but if you're in your early 20s, you still have a chance. (Of course, if your face is deformed or you have a birth defect then it never began for you, so please exit this thread right away.)
Otherwise, if you're in your early 20s, it's entirely possible that your issues are psychological in nature and that you're just exaggerating your ugliness to yourself. Why do I say this? Because if some people think they're more handsome than they really are, then it's also possible for the inverse to be true, i.e., some would think they're uglier than they really are.
If you're in you're early 20s and dont have a hideous deformity, are you absolutely 100% sure are you that you are as ugly as you think?
If you're a normal dude with unattractive features or a skin or weight problem, you still have a chance. Try looksmaxxing and personalitymaxxing. Become active socially. Yes, you will face brutal rejections and get mogged on a daily basis. But you must learn to be thick skinned and endure everything. If you last long enough you might find a gf.
There's no guarantee but it greatly increases the likelihood of finding a gf.