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Serious My sincere advice to those in their early 20s.

I disagree with op.

I wish I hadn’t tried so hard for so long. I wouldn’t be completely burnt out like I am now. If I had discovered the black pill in my early twenties, I’d have saved myself a lot of pain, time, money, and embarrassment.
 
If you missed out in teenage love, dont even bother to make effort to ascend
 
During my 20s and early 30s I was generally optimistic about life and tried everything to get a gf. Although I failed, I know that now, at age 40, I can at least look back and tell myself that I've done my due diligence. So if nothing else, I don't have to think "if only I did this or that in my 20s, I would have found a gf".

It's still over for me. But now I just deal with the pain of lifelong inceldom. And not the pain of inceldom combined with the torture of knowing I could have prevented inceldom if only I did this or that in my 20s.

Believe me when I say this, but if you're in your early 20s, you still have a chance. (Of course, if your face is deformed or you have a birth defect then it never began for you, so please exit this thread right away.)

Otherwise, if you're in your early 20s, it's entirely possible that your issues are psychological in nature and that you're just exaggerating your ugliness to yourself. Why do I say this? Because if some people think they're more handsome than they really are, then it's also possible for the inverse to be true, i.e., some would think they're uglier than they really are.

If you're in you're early 20s and dont have a hideous deformity, are you absolutely 100% sure are you that you are as ugly as you think?

If you're a normal dude with unattractive features or a skin or weight problem, you still have a chance. Try looksmaxxing and personalitymaxxing. Become active socially. Yes, you will face brutal rejections and get mogged on a daily basis. But you must learn to be thick skinned and endure everything. If you last long enough you might find a gf.

There's no guarantee but it greatly increases the likelihood of finding a gf.
I kinda expected you to be a cucked boomercel
 
even if you ascend it will most likely be with some 20-something used goods whore. you should definitely try escorts though before you develop ED.
What is ed
 
I am getting my own flat in the near future. I'm hoping that this will result in me getting more disciplined as I will have to go shopping, cook, clean, do the laundry, etc. all by myself. And if I happen to get disciplined, I will try losing weight and go to the gym (after losing a bit first).

Looking at pictures of myself when I was younger, I noticed that there are a few pics in which I didn't look that bad. And the fact that I was still fat in those pictures could possibly mean that I could have looked even better. Idk, we'll see what the future has to offer for me.

I should probably mention that I don't know to what extent those pictures were edited. Maybe I was ugly back then and have now tricked myself into thinking that I used to have chadlite potential.
 
Otherwise, if you're in your early 20s, it's entirely possible that your issues are psychological in nature and that you're just exaggerating your ugliness to yourself. Why do I say this? Because if some people think they're more handsome than they really are, then it's also possible for the inverse to be true, i.e., some would think they're uglier than they really are.
Being a little ugly or goofy-looking is enough to make young women think you're a fucking loser. You underestimate their black and white perception of the world, they cling to the slightest flaw in a guy's appearance, behavior and lifestyle.
 
reddit advice
 
During my 20s and early 30s I was generally optimistic about life and tried everything to get a gf. Although I failed, I know that now, at age 40, I can at least look back and tell myself that I've done my due diligence. So if nothing else, I don't have to think "if only I did this or that in my 20s, I would have found a gf".

It's still over for me. But now I just deal with the pain of lifelong inceldom. And not the pain of inceldom combined with the torture of knowing I could have prevented inceldom if only I did this or that in my 20s.

Believe me when I say this, but if you're in your early 20s, you still have a chance. (Of course, if your face is deformed or you have a birth defect then it never began for you, so please exit this thread right away.)

Otherwise, if you're in your early 20s, it's entirely possible that your issues are psychological in nature and that you're just exaggerating your ugliness to yourself. Why do I say this? Because if some people think they're more handsome than they really are, then it's also possible for the inverse to be true, i.e., some would think they're uglier than they really are.

If you're in you're early 20s and dont have a hideous deformity, are you absolutely 100% sure are you that you are as ugly as you think?

If you're a normal dude with unattractive features or a skin or weight problem, you still have a chance. Try looksmaxxing and personalitymaxxing. Become active socially. Yes, you will face brutal rejections and get mogged on a daily basis. But you must learn to be thick skinned and endure everything. If you last long enough you might find a gf.

There's no guarantee but it greatly increases the likelihood of finding a gf.
Does autism count as a birth defect to you?
 

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