Venting "You're not looksmaxxed right now, that's why you're incel!"

[Deleted member 8353]

While I've seen this sentiment here, normies also say similar things.

What they don't seem to get is that just because you're not trying right now, doesn't mean that this was necessarily the case in the past. Sure it's true that I've been rotting for years, and that I certainly wouldn't expect a foid to be willing to give me a chance in my current state. However I used to try my best, and I eventually became so obsessed with my appearance that at the time I probably could've been diagnosed with an eating disorder. Ultimately nothing worked, and ugly face+crippling anxiety+a decade of bullying=beyond over, my face is enough of a problem by itself.

I have no reason to believe that anything would change if I tried to improve my life, in fact that's why I initially gave up on even attempting to be functional. Why would I slave away doing something which I don't enjoy, dealing with people which I typically hate, just to come home and rot in loneliness anyway? It was this failure to perceive a desirable reward which led me to essentially give up on life in the first place, and if I could will it to go away, then I would've done so already. Moreover, I've since come to despise people in general, and no longer really have the desire for a relationship with a foid in the first place. Although it's a shame that doesn't resolve really any of the associated problems with inceldom though, nor does it make my sex drive disappear either.

It's funny because I actually wish I could call myself volcel, I even coped for a while that I was MGTOW, but ultimately I knew that it wasn't really true. I didn't choose any of this shit, I simply reacted to the situation I was in.

 

[Mystic]

I have no reason to believe that anything would change if I tried to improve my life, in fact that's why I initially gave up on even attempting to be functional. Why would I slave away doing something which I don't enjoy, dealing with people which I typically hate, just to come home and rot in loneliness anyway? It was this failure to perceive a desirable reward which led me to essentially give up on life in the first place, and if I could will it to go away, then I would've done so already

Exactly how i feel

 

[starystulejarz]

I looked better facially when i was fatter but younger than i am now much slimmer but older. Agepill is brutal

 

[pp183]

normies should try saying that shit to this guy

 

[ThirdWorldcel]

If you became ugly at puberty chances are you'll only get uglier as time progresses.

The agepill can hit very early.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

If you became ugly at puberty chances are you'll only get uglier as time progresses.

The agepill can hit very early.

I was ugly even before puberty tbh, of course it only got worse from there. It's funny thinking about it now, I remember being called the ugliest guy in my school on many occasions, and looking back, I can't entirely say this was wrong. At the very least I was a serious contender for the title.

That's why I don't get these people who give me useless advice, like go to therapy or something. How would that help me? How can I reason my way out of being ugly? How does that possibly help me at all? The ridiculous part of this is that I'm already going to therapy, not really because I expect it to be much help, but because I might need it if I try to get NEETbuxx again.

 

[ThirdWorldcel]

I was ugly even before puberty tbh, of course it only got worse from there. It's funny thinking about it now, I remember being called the ugliest guy in my school on many occasions, and looking back, I can't entirely say this was wrong. At the very least I was a serious contender for the title.

How can I reason my way out of being ugly?

I got accustomed to being called ugly by females when I was 17, it truly affected me when I started to become ugly thanks to puberty, I didn't went to school for like 1 year thanks to the constant insults so I obvously became mentally ill.

How do foids treat you?

 

[Deleted member 8353]

How do foids treat you?

Most of them just ignore me now. Sometimes I get foids being needlessly rude to me, but it's nowhere near as common as being simply ignored. In fact, other than when being cruel to me in some way, and aside from my family members, I can't think of the last time a foid has even made eye contact with me. The last time was when I was a child, probably.

 

[Glokta]

I have so much unfixable traits that render any attempts of self-improvement pretty much pointless. No amount of gymceling, showers and nice haircuts will solve the inherent problems with my face and body.

 

[ThirdWorldcel]

Most of them just ignore me now. Sometimes I get foids being needlessly rude to me, but it's nowhere near as common as being simply ignored. In fact, other than when being cruel to me in some way, and aside from my family members, I can't think of the last time a foid has even made eye contact with me. The last time was when I was a child, probably.

Sometimes no attention is better than negative attention, I was getting called ugly by almost every female I interacted with that it took me 1 year and a half going to therapy to be able to socialize again.

 

[Deleted member 10124]

Right on brother. Same with me.

 

[Newbie17]

Just looksmaxx till you die bro, looksmaxx in your death bed bro!

 

[Ellsworth]

I looksmaxxed in my early 20s. Still couldn’t get laid.

 

[AlwaysLawRoute]

We cannot rely on fakeup like them.

 

[Orgalorg]

No matter how good my clothes were, how dank my jewelry was or how my hair looked, foids didn't pay me attention. Having a messed up face is all it takes for foids to avoid you like the plague. Instead now I wear what's comfortable, I shave my hair because fuck buying the ripoff that is shampoo and I sold all my gold to get a sick gaming PC. It sucks being ungly, but sometimes it's better to accept it for what it is instead of fighting the unwinnable uphill battle.

 

[Deleted member 4159]

Guys aren't incel because they're fat, they're fat because they're incel!

 

[Deleted member 8353]

Guys aren't incel because they're fat, they're fat because they're incel!

Sad thing is, even when not really trying, I'm still at a healthy weight. Granted my body fat percentage isn't great, and I could stand to lose a bit of weight, but otherwise I'm definitely not a completely wreck. However, as we already know, none of this matters. If you're ugly you could be fat, or you could be fit, but it's still not even going to be good enough for a landwhale.

The only reason I don't get fat is because I don't find it comfortable. Basically if my clothes stop fitting, I then starve myself until they fit again.

 

[bignose]

Guys aren't incel because they're fat, they're fat because they're incel!

exactly

 

[Monk of Failure]

Are you ugly due to deformities?

 

[Deleted member 8353]

Are you ugly due to deformities?

No bro, thankfully I'm just ugly. While I have scars which do make me look worse, aside from that I'm the "standard" version of ugly.

 

[Deleted member 4159]

Sad thing is, even when not really trying, I'm still at a healthy weight. Granted my body fat percentage isn't great, and I could stand to lose a bit of weight, but otherwise I'm definitely not a completely wreck. However, as we already know, none of this matters. If you're ugly you could be fat, or you could be fit, but it's still not even going to be good enough for a landwhale.

The only reason I don't get fat is because I don't find it comfortable. Basically if my clothes stop fitting, I then starve myself until they fit again.

Good, there is no benefit from being fat. These guys are so messed up that they will destroy their bodies just to have a dopamine release.

 

[Speedloader]

My friends told me that i am inkel because I don’t have typical normie haircut and expensive clothes. They never mentioned my non existant lower third and asymmetry however. Fucking retards

 

[Napoleon de Geso]

Maxxx, and then to hear about being "too old" for teen girls. So whats point of looksmaxxing then. For roasties? Tfu on roasties

 

[Blacktarpill]

My friends told me that i am inkel because I don’t have typical normie haircut and expensive clothes. They never mentioned my non existant lower third and asymmetry however. Fucking retards

Jfl at haircut copers, they make me angry.

 

[Monk of Failure]

No bro, thankfully I'm just ugly. While I have scars which do make me look worse, aside from that I'm the "standard" version of ugly.

Then you can try surgerymaxxing(if have money) and gym maxxing. It can improve you that can be helpful. You should try.

 

[DoctorBlythe]

I think the advice you are referring to is directed at normies who hang around here. I've personally seen selfies of posters who would went up to a Chadlite if they lost some weight, or high-tier normie if they managed their facial hair and grooming a little better.
If you have really ugly face to begin with and no desire to interact with foids or meaningfully improve the comfort of your life, I see no point in looksmaxxing.

 

[GeneticFilth]

Fat retards that lost weight and get more female attention because of it assume that it's this easy for anyone to get girls. If you have tons of bad genes e.g. ugly face and height it doesn't matter what bodyfat or how much muscle you have, you will die without companionship. Ugly people are also the first people to lose weight/lift weights and try to make a change because of how badly we are treated throughout our lives where as fat normies that are tall or have attractive faces still get treated well so it's harder for them to care about their body.

 

[Izayacel]

While I've seen this sentiment here, normies also say similar things.

What they don't seem to get is that just because you're not trying right now, doesn't mean that this was necessarily the case in the past. Sure it's true that I've been rotting for years, and that I certainly wouldn't expect a foid to be willing to give me a chance in my current state. However I used to try my best, and I eventually became so obsessed with my appearance that at the time I probably could've been diagnosed with an eating disorder. Ultimately nothing worked, and ugly face+crippling anxiety+a decade of bullying=beyond over, my face is enough of a problem by itself.

I have no reason to believe that anything would change if I tried to improve my life, in fact that's why I initially gave up on even attempting to be functional. Why would I slave away doing something which I don't enjoy, dealing with people which I typically hate, just to come home and rot in loneliness anyway? It was this failure to perceive a desirable reward which led me to essentially give up on life in the first place, and if I could will it to go away, then I would've done so already. Moreover, I've since come to despise people in general, and no longer really have the desire for a relationship with a foid in the first place. Although it's a shame that doesn't resolve really any of the associated problems with inceldom though, nor does it make my sex drive disappear either.

It's funny because I actually wish I could call myself volcel, I even coped for a while that I was MGTOW, but ultimately I knew that it wasn't really true. I didn't choose any of this shit, I simply reacted to the situation I was in.

i feel litteraly the same , before i wagecuck again i rather kill myself , i aint societys bitch for fucks sake , while rich kid nextdoor" gets it all , dumb and unfortunate fucks cope with their work hard bs. Way to Indoctrinated to not realize their mere pigs on a human farm , but hey lets hope 3. 11 seattle ( 3. november ) is a thing , or a collapse happens

Life should be a blissfull , near godlike experience yet its only for those who lucked their shit out , fcking retarded