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Story Your "friends" will betray you when they realize you're an incel

Eunuch

Eunuch

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inb4 water but I'm more referring to your friends realizing that you're actually an incel instead of just a beta cuck who's waiting his turn for an unfaithful fat girl

Here's a list of my friends from when I was running dancing monkey game and how they betrayed me:

friend 1: autistic 6' mtn engineer who has a higher IQ than I do, but lower social ability. he would always try to attribute getting treated better than I did to his social skills, and eventually just started gaslighting me out right

friend 2: ugly mentally ill foid who eventually became successful around age 25 and immediately started gaslighting me

friend 3: Robust tall dicklet ltn who started fucking dudes to cope with being incel. There used to be some mutual respect but once he started the gaycoping act it was like he started being extra lookist towards ugly dudes as a way to cope. I used to feel sorry for him but it got to the point where he would be outright abusive and even try to physically intimidate me.

friend 4: incel who ran the classic cope of sucking up to good looking kids and being disrespectful to other incels as a way to feel superior. I saw him about a year ago and he still did this shit. He has never worked a job and has lived with his parents since high school. Meanwhile I've had to struggle and scrape yet this guy still treats me like he's better than I am, plus he still begs good looking ppl for table scraps

friend 5: htn who always treated me like he was superior, but at least used to be interesting. Not only did that go away but he started being a complete asshole and would even sometimes hit me. Funny thing is, when I cut him off over this, he was super righteously angry and acted like I should have been grateful for his interaction in the first place, lol.
 
I dong have friends
 
what friends
 
I've experienced this. I don't have friends, but acquaintances would always lose respect for me once they realized that I'm a loser. In most cases, being an incel is an inevitable death sentence for your social life.
 
Good thing I don't have friends
 
Mogs me having had friends, can't relate.
 
yes
virtually all ppl have stories to share how cruel and cutthroat normies are when it comes to their standing in a social circle

most ppl simply dont have the blackpilled awareness to outline it into a parable
 
I only have some online friends
 
Why do you have a foid as a friend?
"Here's a list of my friends from when I was running dancing monkey game"

To go into a little more detail, she was honestly a nice girl at least before 2019. she also had faced a lot of abuse for being ugly; it's not like I ever thought she was on my level in terms of facing discrimination, but I did naively think interacting with her could still be beneficial.

I cut her off a little over a year ago. I would say she started being stereotypical awalt around 2019 or so, but I guess I was socially desperate enough to tolerate it for the next couple of years. To be fair though she didn't start being really obnoxious until 2022 or so, and she had moved out of town by then so my interaction with her was very limited

I had some female friends back in high school and my early days of college. most of them just used me for weed, and if I hadn't been running dancing monkey game I don't think I would have even been socially palatable enough to be used for weed. Having said that, I would also say that part of why I tolerated women back then was because most men (including my "friends") treated me so poorly that there was really no discernible difference in terms of discrimination and abuse.
 
Back in HS I got kicked out of my "friend circle" for literally no reason, I was obviously bottom tier and just the little homie to bring along to meals and movies. One day I stopped getting invites at all, and found out later that apparently one of the guys didn't like me, that shit ate me out and I swear I didn't do jack shit to offend anyone, I learned the hard lesson that theres no mercy in this world, all it takes is someone with higher social standing to not like you
 
I started telling everyone straight away that I'm an incel. The few people who know what it means think that I'm joking.

Did the mentally ill foid suddenly become financially successful? How did she do it?
 
I started telling everyone straight away that I'm an incel. The few people who know what it means think that I'm joking.

Did the mentally ill foid suddenly become financially successful? How did she do it?
Combination of hard work, iq and female privilege. she is genuinely good at what she does, but it never would have been possible for her male equivalent
 
I don't have any friends, but as far as my observations go—"friendships" with normies are often rotten to their core, and contingent upon status and social benefit; they are not interested in you, or have any willingness of forming some sort of bond; the friendship is only valuable to them insofar as their gain goes. It’s brutal realizing people you thought were “similar” or “loyal” are only ever loyal until their comfort or ego is threatened.
 
They will just use you when they have no other friends or options.
The same happened to me, my “best friend” ghosted me out of no where, even though we basically grew up together, and now he is chilling with his other pathetic normie faggots and his ugly becky gf.

You can’t be friends with normies.
 
serves you right kys friendhaver
 
Basically what happened to me with my only friend. He is an autistic incel himself and we would constantly talk about the issues with hypergamy and modern women, but when I mentioned that foids are such disgusting subhumans that they don't even deserve sympathy for being raped, he was like, "what the fuck dude? that's not okay" and ghosted me jfl
 
Basically what happened to me with my only friend. He is an autistic incel himself and we would constantly talk about the issues with hypergamy and modern women, but when I mentioned that foids are such disgusting subhumans that they don't even deserve sympathy for being raped, he was like, "what the fuck dude? that's not okay" and ghosted me jfl
hahaha what a faggot
 
inb4 water but I'm more referring to your friends realizing that you're actually an incel instead of just a beta cuck who's waiting his turn for an unfaithful fat girl

Here's a list of my friends from when I was running dancing monkey game and how they betrayed me:

friend 1: autistic 6' mtn engineer who has a higher IQ than I do, but lower social ability. he would always try to attribute getting treated better than I did to his social skills, and eventually just started gaslighting me out right

friend 2: ugly mentally ill foid who eventually became successful around age 25 and immediately started gaslighting me

friend 3: Robust tall dicklet ltn who started fucking dudes to cope with being incel. There used to be some mutual respect but once he started the gaycoping act it was like he started being extra lookist towards ugly dudes as a way to cope. I used to feel sorry for him but it got to the point where he would be outright abusive and even try to physically intimidate me.

friend 4: incel who ran the classic cope of sucking up to good looking kids and being disrespectful to other incels as a way to feel superior. I saw him about a year ago and he still did this shit. He has never worked a job and has lived with his parents since high school. Meanwhile I've had to struggle and scrape yet this guy still treats me like he's better than I am, plus he still begs good looking ppl for table scraps

friend 5: htn who always treated me like he was superior, but at least used to be interesting. Not only did that go away but he started being a complete asshole and would even sometimes hit me. Funny thing is, when I cut him off over this, he was super righteously angry and acted like I should have been grateful for his interaction in the first place, lol.
I had three close friends in my teenage years. Now I don’t talk to any of them, and in all three cases it was because of foids appearing in their lives. I thought we would at least talk once in a while, but they all completely deleted me from their lives. I genuinely thought we were really close. They’re all 6'2"+ ltn-mtn, so it was easy for them to get girlfriends. I kind of knew the day would come when they’d see how much less of a human I am, and I tried to make the friendship last for as long as I could. It wasn’t because of anything wrong in our friendship — only because of foids and me being a fucking incel, stuck at home, never going out, never talking to anybody. Its funny how in all 3 cases it was exactly the same process, a few months of having that fkin foid as their gf was enough for them to switch up on someone that was here for them for years.
 
Lucky me, I've got no friends.
 
Wow. Thats a lot of people.
 
Read until friend 4... you're just jelly he's a neet and you have to wage slave. He's probably suffering too. Fakecel confirmed.
 
I had three close friends in my teenage years. Now I don’t talk to any of them, and in all three cases it was because of foids appearing in their lives. I thought we would at least talk once in a while, but they all completely deleted me from their lives. I genuinely thought we were really close. They’re all 6'2"+ ltn-mtn, so it was easy for them to get girlfriends. I kind of knew the day would come when they’d see how much less of a human I am, and I tried to make the friendship last for as long as I could. It wasn’t because of anything wrong in our friendship — only because of foids and me being a fucking incel, stuck at home, never going out, never talking to anybody. Its funny how in all 3 cases it was exactly the same process, a few months of having that fkin foid as their gf was enough for them to switch up on someone that was here for them for years.
I had 4 and as you said, all because foids appeared in their lives. If you haven't had a GF or don't get one by a year, their GFs will subconsciously convince your friends to stay away from you. And they do until you have no one
 
I had three close friends in my teenage years. Now I don’t talk to any of them, and in all three cases it was because of foids appearing in their lives. I thought we would at least talk once in a while, but they all completely deleted me from their lives. I genuinely thought we were really close. They’re all 6'2"+ ltn-mtn, so it was easy for them to get girlfriends. I kind of knew the day would come when they’d see how much less of a human I am, and I tried to make the friendship last for as long as I could. It wasn’t because of anything wrong in our friendship — only because of foids and me being a fucking incel, stuck at home, never going out, never talking to anybody. Its funny how in all 3 cases it was exactly the same process, a few months of having that fkin foid as their gf was enough for them to switch up on someone that was here for them for years.
Word for word what happened to me and perhaps thousands of other incels. It only took a month, and that was that. Seeing friend every week and then once e/ 6months to once every year to never. And it wasn't like anything wrong happened. I'm just a loser and sick, and normies cannot contemplate pr hang out with someone that's an incel, even if you are on the same page with your friend alone mentally.

One friend ditched me the moment he knew I was disabled, and said, "I mean, fat people can work and make money, why not you?"
 
More so they grow out of you. Say your friendship starts when you’re young (easiest time to make friends) and eventually you hit the stage when everyone is interested in the opposite sex. You will be the odd one out. Everyone is making progress. They’ve held hands, hugged, kissed, gotten head, had sex. Everyone but you. You are defective. No one want to associate themselves with that
 
Correction. Your aquiantances will reject you and wont even talk to you
 
‘Friends’ yeah mate keep yourself to yourself mate. They’re not your friends
 
When you're ugly you're always treated like shit.
 
More so they grow out of you. Say your friendship starts when you’re young (easiest time to make friends) and eventually you hit the stage when everyone is interested in the opposite sex. You will be the odd one out. Everyone is making progress. They’ve held hands, hugged, kissed, gotten head, had sex. Everyone but you. You are defective. No one want to associate themselves with that
:feelsbadman:
 
Read until friend 4... you're just jelly he's a neet and you have to wage slave. He's probably suffering too. Fakecel confirmed.
cope. He's the only one in the list I still talk to. but even still he is literally the type of incel who will shit on other incels explicitly

Ironically I would say the way you use the word jealousy is semi accurate here. I wouldn't say an incel can really be jealous of a chad any more than a slave can be jealous of their master. But if an incel is resentful of another incel due to perceiving that other's circumstances are easier, then the word jealousy might kind of apply. I wouldn't really trade lives with this guy though. Overall I would say he probably has a slightly better quality of life because of not having to wage slave, but simultaneously there are things about his life (such as sucking up to good looking guys and letting women walk all over him) that I would find unbelievably humiliating
 
cope. He's the only one in the list I still talk to. but even still he is literally the type of incel who will shit on other incels explicitly

Ironically I would say the way you use the word jealousy is semi accurate here. I wouldn't say an incel can really be jealous of a chad any more than a slave can be jealous of their master. But if an incel is resentful of another incel due to perceiving that other's circumstances are easier, then the word jealousy might kind of apply. I wouldn't really trade lives with this guy though. Overall I would say he probably has a slightly better quality of life because of not having to wage slave, but simultaneously there are things about his life (such as sucking up to good looking guys and letting women walk all over him) that I would find unbelievably humiliating
Makes sense. Neeting can be easier than working 24/7, but it can also be a hellscape straight to ropemaxxing; if, for example, you're in any way incapacitated, such as being disabled, chronic disease, neurodegeneration, violent parents (if you happen o live with them; hopefully they're loving), which will drastically reduce your wellbeing. Having any of the above issues with increased leisure time will be a nightmare. Neeting is only good if you have a purpose to build something for yourself and are not incapacitated.

That said, I've done both, and neeting is better than working a 24/7 shit job but worse if you have a job you like that pays extremely well, which is rare.
 
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More so they grow out of you. Say your friendship starts when you’re young (easiest time to make friends) and eventually you hit the stage when everyone is interested in the opposite sex. You will be the odd one out. Everyone is making progress. They’ve held hands, hugged, kissed, gotten head, had sex. Everyone but you. You are defective. No one want to associate themselves with that
This is probably why monks stick to monastaries away from society. Nobody actually wants to associate with them, so it's a biological imperative to acquire a mate, and when you fail, you probably aquire some kind of syndrome, maybe you release pheromones that tell other
humans to stay away. Sort of like sickness syndrome. Nobody wants to be near a sick person,
except for maybe divine saints that help people with leprosy.
 
I've experienced this. I don't have friends, but acquaintances would always lose respect for me once they realized that I'm a loser. In most cases, being an incel is an inevitable death sentence for your social life.
 

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