Venting Your early 20s are the worst years for an incel

[RealSchizo]

I don't know but recently I've been beyond defeated due to not having a girlfriend and any experience with a girl whatsoever.
I used to not care that much when I was a teen unironically couldn't care that much (still wanted a girl, but not as severely as I do now)
I am in my early 20s, 20 to be exact.
I have never been that desperate in my entire life for a female companionship and it gets worse with each passing day.
Seeing couples, references to dating and seeing girls in general has been pretty brutal and it defeats me a lot.
It takes such a toll on my mental health that I am fatigued all the time and have got 0 energy to do anything.
I've already entered the worst phase for an incel.
I've heard from oldcels that it gets much easier as time goes on, but right now its beyond brutal for me.
I don't know how long I'll be able to keep going before ending my life out of desperation and self-loathe.

 

[fokusin]

Try for an escort

 

[subpar genes]

Agreed. I'm looking forward to my mid-twenties already.

 

[NonNTFailure]

Brutal, I am 24 and don’t desire for a gf much at all anymore. But I’ve also basically become a low libidocel at this point. Maybe you’ll start desiring sex less yourself as time goes on

 

[parbate2025]

I don't know but recently I've been beyond defeated due to not having a girlfriend and any experience with a girl whatsoever.
I used to not care that much when I was a teen unironically couldn't care that much (still wanted a girl, but not as severely as I do now)
I am in my early 20s, 20 to be exact.
I have never been that desperate in my entire life for a female companionship and it gets worse with each passing day.
Seeing couples, references to dating and seeing girls in general has been pretty brutal and it defeats me a lot.
It takes such a toll on my mental health that I am fatigued all the time and have got 0 energy to do anything.
I've already entered the worst phase for an incel.
I've heard from oldcels that it gets much easier as time goes on, but right now its beyond brutal for me.
I don't know how long I'll be able to keep going before ending my life out of desperation and self-loathe.

That's why i force my teenage cousins to date or woo a girl.
They don't know how brutal it is if you miss out on teenage love

 

[RealSchizo]

Try for an escort

Has nothing to do with horniness, it is more like a miserable feeling, feeling like the biggest loser that has ever walked on this earth type of feeling combined with shame and hopelessnes.

 

[RealSchizo]

Agreed. I'm looking forward to my mid-twenties already.

Early 20s and KHHV is way too brutal especially if you're enrolled in some college.

 

[SilentShadow]

I will turn 23 this year it's over

 

[RealSchizo]

I will turn 23 this year it's over

 

[LeFrenchCel]

No.

It gets worse as you age.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

No.

It gets worse as you age.

It gets far worse. As you get older, you're forced to watch all of your peers settle down and have kids. The social chasm between you and them only widens over time, so it becomes even harder to relate with them. People naturally expect more of you as you get older. And thus the stigma around being a KHHV only becomes more burdensome.

And then you have to deal with ageing, health problems and the loss of your parents. Inceldom gets much, much worse. If anything, I think your 20s are inceldom on easy mode.

 

[Mutilator]

It gets far worse. As you get older, you're forced to watch all of your peers settle down and have kids. The social chasm between you and them only widens over time, so it becomes even harder to relate with them. People naturally expect more of you as you get older. And thus the stigma around being a KHHV only becomes more burdensome.

And then you have to deal with ageing, health problems and the loss of your parents. Inceldom gets much, much worse. If anything, I think your 20s are inceldom on easy mode.

 

[MrZez]

I really hope so but i belive it gets far worse with ageing

 

[LeFrenchCel]

It gets far worse. As you get older, you're forced to watch all of your peers settle down and have kids. The social chasm between you and them only widens over time, so it becomes even harder to relate with them. People naturally expect more of you as you get older. And thus the stigma around being a KHHV only becomes more burdensome.

And then you have to deal with ageing, health problems and the loss of your parents. Inceldom gets much, much worse. If anything, I think your 20s are inceldom on easy mode.

Meanwhile young foids get further and further from your age and it makes you more depressed knowing that ppl younger and younger than you mog you in every aspect of life.

 

[ItsOverMan]

I don't know but recently I've been beyond defeated due to not having a girlfriend and any experience with a girl whatsoever.
I used to not care that much when I was a teen unironically couldn't care that much (still wanted a girl, but not as severely as I do now)
I am in my early 20s, 20 to be exact.
I have never been that desperate in my entire life for a female companionship and it gets worse with each passing day.
Seeing couples, references to dating and seeing girls in general has been pretty brutal and it defeats me a lot.
It takes such a toll on my mental health that I am fatigued all the time and have got 0 energy to do anything.
I've already entered the worst phase for an incel.
I've heard from oldcels that it gets much easier as time goes on, but right now its beyond brutal for me.
I don't know how long I'll be able to keep going before ending my life out of desperation and self-loathe.

I'm over 40 now, and I think my teen years (age 10-19) in the 90s were the worst years of my life. A decade of exclusion and loneliness plus constant bullying by both students and teachers leading to abused dog syndrome. Junior high and high school were torture. My dad died. Also all my current mental illnesses developed in my teen years. My best years were age 0-9 in the 80s.

I cringe so hard every time people online have an orgasm about how great the 90s were.

 

[ItsOverMan]

I've heard from oldcels that it gets much easier as time goes on, but right now its beyond brutal for me.
I don't know how long I'll be able to keep going before ending my life out of desperation and self-loathe.

I say as an oldcel wizardcel keep going and coping because it did get easier for me.

 

[Mr.Breb]

Teenage are the worse. Curiously I would say early 20's are the "peak" of your life, at least in my case. It's the perfect balance between being a NEET and not being an oldcel

 

[Pancakecel]

You might feel even worse down the line, you don't know yet.

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

At 21 I was thinking about killing myself constantly, but I don't know if I was worse off then than in my teens. There's not a period of my life that hasn't been miserable.

 

[fastnbulbous]

Wait till you get to 25 and you will realize it doesn't get any better. If you're not some youngcel fakecel, that is.

 

[Giracel]

I don't know but recently I've been beyond defeated due to not having a girlfriend and any experience with a girl whatsoever.

It takes such a toll on my mental health that I am fatigued all the time and have got 0 energy to do anything.

I am 22 and this is how I feel. Also, 20th birthday felt like a point of no return. This a completely unjust.

 

[Emba]

No.

Yes. And it also,

It gets worse as you age.

);;;

 

[ThePornographer]

No.

It gets worse as you age.

I came just to say this.

If you think that 20's is bad, wait for your 30's , 40's it only get worst.

 

[borntolose99]

Early 20s and KHHV is way too brutal especially if you're enrolled in some college.

i feel like a complete loser walking around campus. ER was right though, they'll never give us a chance.

 

[nazianime]

I think early 20’s is when it hits you the most. I was out of my mind in my 20’s with crazy suicidal ideation. That’s also the age when ER went ER.

 

[ectomorphuser]

im not ready for the day that the copes stop working and reality truly sets in

 

[NIGGA BANBAN]

I think early 20’s is when it hits you the most. I was out of my mind in my 20’s with crazy suicidal ideation. That’s also the age when ER went ER.

Most ER's were either done by people 20+ or by some dumbass teenagers.

Anyways, I'm dreading of turning 20.

Fuck.

If I only did something with my life.

 

[NightOwl2023]

I don't know but recently I've been beyond defeated due to not having a girlfriend and any experience with a girl whatsoever.
I used to not care that much when I was a teen unironically couldn't care that much (still wanted a girl, but not as severely as I do now)
I am in my early 20s, 20 to be exact.
I have never been that desperate in my entire life for a female companionship and it gets worse with each passing day.
Seeing couples, references to dating and seeing girls in general has been pretty brutal and it defeats me a lot.
It takes such a toll on my mental health that I am fatigued all the time and have got 0 energy to do anything.
I've already entered the worst phase for an incel.
I've heard from oldcels that it gets much easier as time goes on, but right now its beyond brutal for me.
I don't know how long I'll be able to keep going before ending my life out of desperation and self-loathe.

I've found it gets easier the older you are. Plus obviously having copes help. What are yours?

 

[uncomfortablecel225]

Every year is shit

 

[SlayerSlayer]

I don't know but recently I've been beyond defeated due to not having a girlfriend and any experience with a girl whatsoever.
I used to not care that much when I was a teen unironically couldn't care that much (still wanted a girl, but not as severely as I do now)
I am in my early 20s, 20 to be exact.
I have never been that desperate in my entire life for a female companionship and it gets worse with each passing day.
Seeing couples, references to dating and seeing girls in general has been pretty brutal and it defeats me a lot.
It takes such a toll on my mental health that I am fatigued all the time and have got 0 energy to do anything.
I've already entered the worst phase for an incel.
I've heard from oldcels that it gets much easier as time goes on, but right now its beyond brutal for me.
I don't know how long I'll be able to keep going before ending my life out of desperation and self-loathe.

14-24 are the ten worst years of an incel's life

 

[OverLoner]

I think early 20’s is when it hits you the most. I was out of my mind in my 20’s with crazy suicidal ideation. That’s also the age when ER went ER.

I skipped that. Started hitting me hard in my late twenties once the depression over my father being dead started to die down.

 

[RealSchizo]

I skipped that. Started hitting me hard in my late twenties once the depression over my father being dead started to die down.

 

[OverLoner]

Compared to most people here I am old. Now if only I could tell off women like Pai Mei.

"Just like all Yankee women, all you are good at is ordering in restaurants- and spending a man's money!" - Pai Mei

 

[superpsycho]

i dont think it can possibly be worse than my high school years, as those were the most brutal and traumatizing years of my life

if my 20s are bound to be worse then i might as well just kill myself in advance