Venting “You need to socialize incel, you need to touch grass and go out among people! (soy emoji)”

[The Notorious SLAV]

Retard, I’m “socializing” and “touching grass” right now, and all it got me so far was that literally the minute I entered the room I had everyone there laughing hard at me with how awkwardly I tried greeting them and how I sat on the couch, and overall how weird my body language and the way I move are.

Funny that none of the “socializing” advice ever mentions getting ready for the mockery you’ll receive if you are sub-5 and barely NT, like in my case, or flat out non-NT like so many people are, because you absolutely will face that.

Well, at least I got reminded that our brains process social pain using almost the exact same circuitry as the physical one, shit felt like I was getting pummeled.

Brainscans show that people feel no empathy for the social pain of others + Social pain activates the same parts of the brain as physical pain

You see it all the time: some lonely male dares to briefly vent or complain online about how miserable his life is and everyone acts completely apathetic if not straight up aggressive. People will constantly downplay everything he's going through. Psychiatrists will just be confused and tell him...

incels.is

 

[Grodd]

Just touch grass for no reason theory

 

[Albertopenheimer]

The problem is that they never experienced being ugly and having no friends

 

[DarkStar]

Retard, I’m “socializing” and “touching grass” right now, and all it got me so far was that literally the minute I entered the room I had everyone there laughing hard at me with how awkwardly I tried greeting them and how I sat on the couch, and overall how weird my body language and the way I move are.

Holy shit, this is one of the most relatable things I've read here. When I do occasionally go out, I get greeted with the very superficial friendly and sort of mocking/condescending treatment; both by foids & males.

Funny that none of the “socializing” advice ever mentions getting ready for the mockery you’ll receive if you are sub-5 and barely NT

"just deal with it brah"

"they're just joking, they're laughing WITH you"

That's so much copium I heard & also told myself when I was in a redpill coping phase.

, like in my case, or flat out non-NT like so many people are, because you absolutely will face that.

being non-NT is an instant 50% nerf to your social skills

Well, at least I got reminded that our brains process social pain using almost the exact same circuitry as the physical one, shit felt like I was getting pummeled.

I think I heard a few years back social rejection was as painful as having a bone break.