Venting "You have your whole life ahead of you"

[TheHungariancel]

People told me this phrase a lot both irl and online.

A whole life of wageslaving, coping, rotting, jerking off.

Feeling worthless all the time, feeling like a burden to everyone.

Constant suicidal thoughts.

Never experiencing love, never feeling appreciated.

Yeah definitely, they're right, my whole life is ahead of me. Not so sure if I want to go through that "life" though.


Just wanted to vent a little, I'm depressed af.

How do you guys deal with the fact that "you have your whole life ahead of you"? The thought that I have at least 30-40 years left to live is just brutal.

 

[Fr0st]

How do you guys deal with the fact that "you have your whole life ahead of you"? The thought that I have at least 30-40 years left to live is just brutal.

Suicide.

 

[Grodd]

Boomers say that shit all the times it's such an obnoxious cope

 

[Anarcho Nihilist]

People told me this phrase a lot both irl and online.

A whole life of wageslaving, coping, rotting, jerking off.

Feeling worthless all the time, feeling like a burden to everyone.

Constant suicidal thoughts.

Never experiencing love, never feeling appreciated.

Yeah definitely, they're right, my whole life is ahead of me. Not so sure if I want to go through that "life" though.


Just wanted to vent a little, I'm depressed af.

How do you guys deal with the fact that "you have your whole life ahead of you"? The thought that I have at least 30-40 years left to live is just brutal.

Games, books, movies, alcohol, and sometimes sports. There are many ways to cope, but I have already mentally come to terms with my life. It doesn't matter how you have lived your life, you will still die and receive eternal non-existence.

 

[Asgard]

receive eternal non-existence

 

[Zaraj11]

“Anything can happen in life, especially nothing.”​

Great quote

 

[Anarcho Nihilist]

There is no afterlife anyway.

View: https://youtu.be/SLG8JV2ys1s?si=_3MGb6wzKp7luQ0-

 

[TheHungariancel]

Boomers say that shit all the times it's such an obnoxious cope

I mean I understand why they say it, they just can’t relate to nor comprehend our situation.

 

[Zaraj11]

How do you guys deal with the fact that "you have your whole life ahead of you"? The thought that I have at least 30-40 years left to live is just brutal.

I have a long list of movies and books I want to finish before I die

 

[Asgard]

There is no afterlife anyway.

View: https://youtu.be/SLG8JV2ys1s?si=_3MGb6wzKp7luQ0-

I cannot come to terms with it. I have an intense fear of nothing happening after death, I cannot comprehend what will happen if I do not exist and it severely agitates me thinking about it. I want to live for all eternity.

 

[Asgard]

I have a long list of movies and books I want to finish before I die

Are you a NEET?

 

[Zaraj11]

Are you a NEET?

No, I am a programmer

 

[Asgard]

No, I am a programmer

Mogger.

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

Life isnt worth living for most people after 35

 

[TheHungariancel]

Games, books, movies, alcohol, and sometimes sports. There are many ways to cope, but I have already mentally come to terms with my life. It doesn't matter how you have lived your life, you will still die and receive eternal non-existence.

I understand brocel and I agree with you. You’re probably more mature than if you could accept your life or fate as it is, I hope I’ll get to that point too. Sooner the better.

“Anything can happen in life, especially nothing.”​

Great quote

It’s from the novel Platform by Michel Houellebecq. I recommend reading it.

No, I am a programmer

You mog the whole forum bro.

 

[Clavicus Vile]

Life is far too long, normies love their lives that’s why they feel it’s too short.

 

[SickWeakCoward]

You've got your whole private hell ahead of you!
The only logical conclusion to a shit life is a speedy demise.
The sooner, the better. Time to die. It's always been that time for me.


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NoAzpa1x7jU

 

[Zaraj11]

You mog the whole forum bro.

I am sure there are a lot of people here who work in IT, the stereotype exists for a reason

 

[TheHungariancel]

I have a long list of movies and books I want to finish before I die

Share some of those movies and books, I’m interested.

Life isnt worth living for most people after 35

I have to agree unfortunately. For most people life after their 30s is mostly vegetation plus declining physical health and cognitive abilities.

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

I have to agree unfortunately. For most people life after their 30s is mostly vegetation plus declining physical health and cognitive abilities.

There is a reason our prehistoric ancestors rarely became older than 35. We shouldnt have disrupted the natural order.

 

[SickWeakCoward]

I have to agree unfortunately. For most people life after their 30s is mostly vegetation plus declining physical health and cognitive abilities.

That's been my life up to 30 aswel.

 

[TheHungariancel]

I am sure there are a lot of people here who work in IT, the stereotype exists for a reason

Less than you might assume, most of us are either NEETs or work some dead end minimum wage job.

 

[Zaraj11]

Share some of those movies and books, I’m interested.

I sent in a PM

 

[Anarcho Nihilist]

I understand brocel and I agree with you. You’re probably more mature than if you could accept your life or fate as it is, I hope I’ll get to that point too. Sooner the better.



It’s from the novel Platform by Michel Houellebecq. I recommend reading it.


You mog the whole forum bro.

Periodically, my depression also worsens, but then I realize that if I were Normies, I would hardly be happier, I would most likely get married, then my wife would cheat on me and I would get a divorce and loss of property.

 

[Anarcho Nihilist]

I understand brocel and I agree with you. You’re probably more mature than if you could accept your life or fate as it is, I hope I’ll get to that point too. Sooner the better.



It’s from the novel Platform by Michel Houellebecq. I recommend reading it.


You mog the whole forum bro.

Sometimes, when I feel bad, I just turn on the TV series, cartoons or anime that I watched when I was 12-14 years old to immerse myself in the times when I had my whole life ahead of me and I didn't worry about anything, because my whole life was ahead of me. It helps me, along with alcohol, to cope with severe bouts of depression at the same time.

 

[SickWeakCoward]

I've been watching cartoons and drinking myself to death too - it's a very potent cope.


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Js6KqgAyaBQ

 

[BricABrac]

Most of the shit I want to do or look forward to is just distraction though. There's shit I want to read, places I want to go, but I've done that before. I've been doing that kind of thing and what is it? What is the reward? I'm still me afterwards. I have a bit of fun, got distracted.

But it's still me.

 

[TheHungariancel]

Sometimes, when I feel bad, I just turn on the TV series, cartoons or anime that I watched when I was 12-14 years old to immerse myself in the times when I had my whole life ahead of me and I didn't worry about anything, because my whole life was ahead of me. It helps me, along with alcohol, to cope with severe bouts of depression at the same time.

Sounds like a good cope tbh, but nostalgia is double edged sword: it can be geniunely awesome but incredibly painful which only expands the inner void. There are certain songs and movies I used to listen to a lot as kid which I purposefully avoid because they trigger so heavy and intense emotions in me that I get extremely depressed.

It’s pretty cucked to be this emotional but it is what it is.

Most of the shit I want to do or look forward to is just distraction though. There's shit I want to read, places I want to go, but I've done that before. I've been doing that kind of thing and what is it? What is the reward? I'm still me afterwards. I have a bit of fun, got distracted.

But it's still me.

Exactly, that’s the thing, it’s the coping that awaits us and not much that’s actually meaningful.

 

[Pancakecel]

Just hold onto some false sense of hope, and one day everything will magically be better. Normfag logic jfl.

It's them trying to shut you up, and make you go away with your problems. They don't want to hear the problems of sub5 males.

 

[chowasright]

Yeah a whole lifetime of pain and misery lol thank goodness we humans don't live forever

 

[BlueCore]

"You have your whole life ahead of you"

I wish I didn't

 

[femcelbreedingnig]

“You have your whole life ahead of you” - sincerely GenXers and Boomers

 

[TheHungariancel]

Just hold onto some false sense of hope, and one day everything will magically be better. Normfag logic jfl.

I kinda envy those who are not blackpilled and have false hope. The mental torment wouldn’t be that bad.

 

[TheCatMan]

Wake up, go to work, come home and go to bed. Repeat until death.

 

[Fraud Mortal]

People will say that to you no matter what age you are. I've been hearing that shit since I was in gradeschool and now, I'm over 30 but I still get told that exact line by people older than me.

Expect to be hearing it for a long time.

 

[Fraud Mortal]

Just hold onto some false sense of hope, and one day everything will magically be better. Normfag logic jfl.

It's them trying to shut you up, and make you go away with your problems. They don't want to hear the problems of sub5 males.

Exactly this. They would rather you suffer in silence but they'll never admit that since they want to come across as nice

 

[TheHungariancel]

People will say that to you no matter what age you are. I've been hearing that shit since I was in gradeschool and now, I'm over 30 but I still get told that exact line by people older than me.

Expect to be hearing it for a long time.

Yeah they always find a way to tell you this. I read a reddit post made by a 40+ years old guy who talked about how over it is for him that he’s practically still KHHV over 40 and people told him shit like “well you’re certainly not young anymore, but you still have a lot of time to find love”.

 

[Fraud Mortal]

Yeah they always find a way to tell you this. I read a reddit post made by a 40+ years old guy who talked about how over it is for him that he’s practically still KHHV over 40 and people told him shit like “well you’re certainly not young anymore, but you still have a lot of time to find love”.

How deluded do you have to be to think that a 40 year old virgin man has a chance to find love? These people don't realize that literally no woman wants a man who has never been wanted by another woman. I know it's paradoxical but that's the way it works, they see it as a red flag if you've been single your whole life.

 

[coreacheeka]

How do you guys deal with the fact that "you have your whole life ahead of you"? The thought that I have at least 30-40 years left to live is just brutal.

I am not feeling that i have a whole life ahead of me, actually it is quite opposite-my life is about to end and ahead is nothing but shallow shadow of my current life, so usually i just imagine how i will die somehow in next 5-7 years and there won't be any of that shit, it's quite relaxing, actually