If it's not important or special then:
Explain why it's in literally all types of media including games, movies, music, tv shows, comics, books, live performances, etc.
Explain why there are SEVERAL multi-million user communities dedicated to the topic such as r/sex, r/dating, r/tinder, r/relationships, r/relationship_advice, r/twoX (JFL basically 90% of the discussion in this sub), etc.
Explain why normies insult or compliment you based on your sexual prowess and consider it bad to be a virgin (don't fucking lie and say this stigma doesn't exist) or on a "dry-spell" (as if they are a farmer and drought is destroying their crops or something
)
Explain why it is necessary for the continued survival of humans (i.e if everyone took the advice that it doesn't matter and it's not worth it, humans would go extinct within 100 years)
Oh wait you can't explain any of this because you are making a low IQ bad faith argument.
why do we even bother.