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You don’t see ugly men with beautiful women ,you just judge men’s looks more harshly

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You don't actually see 'ugly guys' with beautiful girls, you just judge men's looks more harshly

9 time out of 10 relationships are just average guys with average girls but men are judged a lot more harshly especially by women. Im only mentioning women here because I've only heard women say they see so many 'ugly' guys with 'beautiful' girls.

You know this whole thing is because women will just say *any* woman is beautiful no matter what she looks like lol. Fucked up teeth, bad skin, bad hair, overweight, weird face shape, etc. Like a girl could have all of these things and women will still call her beautiful, meanwhile it's very easy to be 'ugly' as a guy. Pretty much any one of those flaws will make you ugly.

If we went by actual, objective beauty standards you'll see *equally* as many girls dating guys that are out of their league but obviously no woman is gonna want to say that about another woman.

There's this tiktok couple, an overweight woman with a very attractive (clearly out of her league) guy (I have her ig but I don't want to give it out here in case I'm breaking any rules). She's clearly obese (which is fine, but I'm only bringing it up to make this point) and the husband is super fit. I remember seeing a video of her talking about how insecure she wad about it on Facebook all (fucking *all*) the comments were telling her she was perfectly in his league, some were saying she was the one that was out of his league, etc.

It's cute and all but I could not help but think that if her male equivalent was with a super hot, fit girl that he'd never hear the end about how she's out of his league, that she's doing 'charity work', 'must have good personality/money' etc., lmao.

I just think its unfair and I don't think anyone is ever fully consistent or honest when they say they see a bunch of ugly guys with hot girls. I know attractiveness is subjective, that doesn't mean it doesn't have some intention behind it. I don't think it's honest of anyone who says this. Or at least, you should acknowledge that it goes both ways, and men aren't any more shallow than women.

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dnr, at the end of the day its chad > anything else
 
You don't actually see 'ugly guys' with beautiful girls, you just judge men's looks more harshly

9 time out of 10 relationships are just average guys with average girls but men are judged a lot more harshly especially by women. Im only mentioning women here because I've only heard women say they see so many 'ugly' guys with 'beautiful' girls.

You know this whole thing is because women will just say *any* woman is beautiful no matter what she looks like lol. Fucked up teeth, bad skin, bad hair, overweight, weird face shape, etc. Like a girl could have all of these things and women will still call her beautiful, meanwhile it's very easy to be 'ugly' as a guy. Pretty much any one of those flaws will make you ugly.

If we went by actual, objective beauty standards you'll see *equally* as many girls dating guys that are out of their league but obviously no woman is gonna want to say that about another woman.

There's this tiktok couple, an overweight woman with a very attractive (clearly out of her league) guy (I have her ig but I don't want to give it out here in case I'm breaking any rules). She's clearly obese (which is fine, but I'm only bringing it up to make this point) and the husband is super fit. I remember seeing a video of her talking about how insecure she wad about it on Facebook all (fucking *all*) the comments were telling her she was perfectly in his league, some were saying she was the one that was out of his league, etc.

It's cute and all but I could not help but think that if her male equivalent was with a super hot, fit girl that he'd never hear the end about how she's out of his league, that she's doing 'charity work', 'must have good personality/money' etc., lmao.

I just think its unfair and I don't think anyone is ever fully consistent or honest when they say they see a bunch of ugly guys with hot girls. I know attractiveness is subjective, that doesn't mean it doesn't have some intention behind it. I don't think it's honest of anyone who says this. Or at least, you should acknowledge that it goes both ways, and men aren't any more shallow than women.

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Jfl, the examples I seen of "Ugly" guys with hot girls is always a dude very much more attractive than the average guy but girls only see chad only.
 
True. Most relationships are looksmatched, with the guy looking a bit better than her. It's just that male beauty standards are extremely harsh.

Relationships where the girl is much more attractive than the guy don't last at all. Women are constantly bombarded with options and she'll eventually cheat or monkey branch to a more attractive guy. Foids know very well their own attractiveness.
 
Failed normies do this. We usually don't.
 
True. The way I see it, in the end, we are heterosexual guys who aren't going to see even an objectively very attractive guy appealing in the slightest, while even an ugly chick will always have a "neuron activation" effect on us, because no matter what, she's what we are attracted to. Thus, when we see an objectively looksmatched couple, our attempts to rate them will still be influenced by the fact that only one person there is getting us aroused.

True. Most relationships are looksmatched, with the guy looking a bit better than her. It's just that male beauty standards are extremely harsh.

Relationships where the girl is much more attractive than the guy don't last at all. Women are constantly bombarded with options and she'll eventually cheat or monkey branch to a more attractive guy. Foids know very well their own attractiveness.
 

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