Venting "You don't need a girlfriend, you need friends"

[Misogynist Vegeta]

It's such a typical assumption from NT normalfags but they really do believe that it's very easy to make friends. These normalfags can not comprehend how hard it is to make friends as someone who is neurodivergent. I'm talking about real friends not people who are friendly with you because they sort of know you. Someone who would help you when you are at your lowest low, someone you could share your sincere feelings with. I've had plenty of "friends" in my life but they all either abandoned me when I'm not useful to them anymore or stabbed me in the back. I could go out and make these kinds of "friends" right now by faking who I really am but what's the point It won't get me anything that I need to be psychologically healthy.

So yes I'd like to have real friends but it's nearly impossible for me to make them, I'm just so different to the average person that I can't relate to them and they can't relate to me. We don't have similar life experiences and don't have similar ideals, while some of hobbies I have are quite common the way I partake in them is very different to everybody else, My attitudes and the way I think are very different to them. This all leads to people "liking" me when I keep to myself but when I start opening up these same people start hating me, Even when I met people "similar" to me this would happen.

It's not like I can just magically change who I am, I can put on mask and pretend I'm different I've done for work multiple times before but what's point of fake friendship? Nothing it's no different then paying some e-whore to pretend to be your girlfriend. I just can't make friends no matter what I do whether it be in real life or online It just doesn't happen.

Finally even If I had friends I'd still be missing intimacy from my life something that I am biologically programmed to desire, Friends would certainly make my situation better as I'd have someone to lean on in my darkest times but it's not a permanent solution to just have friends. So no I don't just need friends I need it all, real friends and a loving girlfriend.

 

[Caichan]

people who are friendly with you because they sort of know you

Never had anything more than this. Never hung out with anyone in my life once

 

[CRASH THE CUCK]

as if making friends is easier

 

[Tšuudi]

I don't think I've ever had true friends .

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Nobody has many real true friends like that, and I think most people don't have any at all, even popular people.

They're telling you to talk to people and sort of know them. The problem is, and I assume most here are like me, making acquaintances like that does nothing for me and is just a waste of time. If you're ugly, they're not going to help you get girls either.

 

[Skelly]

If you can't make friends it's over for you, Don't even think about getting a gf if you can't even talk to other men IRL jfl

 

[Trident]

it's nearly impossible as ND especially past age of like 18

 

[La Longue Fourchett]

I find that friends become impossible to make as you get older. Especially after high school, friends are friends. They are temporary allies that you work with for some time before moving on and never seeing again.
Whether it's university, jobs or hobby circles, "friends" you make as adults are not the same type of friends you make as a kid.

 

[autisticsoy]

Making friends is difficult once in highschool and college especially for nd. People already have made their own circles and many arent in the mood to make friends. I wished to make friends I wish for to find love I wish to finally be free, but this faulty mind wont allow it. Its a curse to never be fully in tune with people to constantly feel like something else. Normies cant or wont understand this ever and is irrating.

 

[ColderManTruce]

I don't think I've ever had

riends .

 

[nakolas]

NTs will never understand how hard it is to make friends as an outcasted autist.

 

[Todd Thundercock]

NTs will never understand how hard it is to make friends as an outcasted autist.

It's not hard even as an autist. For many people, it's as simple as sitting there and listening to their shit.

 

[TimeMachineOrLDAR]

It's not hard even as an autist. For many people, it's as simple as sitting there and listening to their shit.

My inferiority complex is too big to make and keep friends. Always has been this way, that's why I never was cool enough for people. I also have depression and social anxiety since age 13-15. It's over for childhood-traumatized, love-shy, self-hating, depressed and anxious NDs like me with a monotone, incosistent voice and a weak body on top of that. OVER

 

[160cmbloop]

not having female friends = you never met the base threshold to begin with

just be friends with other subhumans coping theory

your looks dictate the kind of people you attract

never had any friends nor female friends

 

[sirlancelot]

If you can't make friends it's over for you, Don't even think about getting a gf if you can't even talk to other men IRL jfl

Not being able to get along with the gender that’s supposedly “simple” and attempting to build relations with the gender that is infamous for their bullfuckery even amongst normfags is just a humiliation ritual tbh

 

[MajorThomas666]

Making friends is easy in MS and HS, if your NT, Chad or Jester (incels included here because it's the only thing you can really do to socialize, and while it can be very fun it's an empty vessel and your the object).

Once in college jestermaxxing is off the table unless you become a comedian. People will start to hate you for it. And in adulthood, jestermaxxing gets you acorn nowadays.

You need to be at least NT to survive, and don't be very short or very ugly.

Making friends is difficult once in highschool and college especially for nd. People already have made their own circles and many arent in the mood to make friends. I wished to make friends I wish for to find love I wish to finally be free, but this faulty mind wont allow it. Its a curse to never be fully in tune with people to constantly feel like something else. Normies cant or wont understand this ever and is irrating.

 

[MajorThomas666]

If you are autist, NDCEL or don't have guy friends, girls will never even think about dating you. You need to have a large friend group.

Now that I think of it, I don't know one guy whose found a decent girl that had zero friends.

 

[Based_Catcel]

Why do normies think that making friends and getting a girlfriend is so easy?

 

[NormieCelll]

"You need male friends before you even think about getting a girlfriend "

This phrase is pure copium, how does having friends suddenly makes foids attracted to someone, if anything you're likely to be mogged by them which lowers your chances in a social settings

 

[Brass]

This phrase is pure copium, how does having friends suddenly makes foids attracted to someone, if anything you're likely to be mogged by them which lowers your chances in a social settings

 

[Brass]

Also no friends for your bad social skills

 

[Rapistcel]

It's such a typical assumption from NT normalfags but they really do believe that it's very easy to make friends. These normalfags can not comprehend how hard it is to make friends as someone who is neurodivergent. I'm talking about real friends not people who are friendly with you because they sort of know you. Someone who would help you when you are at your lowest low, someone you could share your sincere feelings with. I've had plenty of "friends" in my life but they all either abandoned me when I'm not useful to them anymore or stabbed me in the back. I could go out and make these kinds of "friends" right now by faking who I really am but what's the point It won't get me anything that I need to be psychologically healthy.

So yes I'd like to have real friends but it's nearly impossible for me to make them, I'm just so different to the average person that I can't relate to them and they can't relate to me. We don't have similar life experiences and don't have similar ideals, while some of hobbies I have are quite common the way I partake in them is very different to everybody else, My attitudes and the way I think are very different to them. This all leads to people "liking" me when I keep to myself but when I start opening up these same people start hating me, Even when I met people "similar" to me this would happen.

It's not like I can just magically change who I am, I can put on mask and pretend I'm different I've done for work multiple times before but what's point of fake friendship? Nothing it's no different then paying some e-whore to pretend to be your girlfriend. I just can't make friends no matter what I do whether it be in real life or online It just doesn't happen.

Finally even If I had friends I'd still be missing intimacy from my life something that I am biologically programmed to desire, Friends would certainly make my situation better as I'd have someone to lean on in my darkest times but it's not a permanent solution to just have friends. So no I don't just need friends I need it all, real friends and a loving girlfriend.

"I had my first girlfriend at 12 but thats a coincidence "

 

[outerdarkness]

Why do normies think that making friends and getting a girlfriend is so easy?

Because it was easy for them, the people who say shit like that have no empathy for ND people. Don’t bother listening to them.

 

[turtlecel]

You could make friends but it wont ever lead to having a gf if you are already relegated to the bottom strungs of the social ladder. If you have been ostracized its usually for a reason. And normfags always will try to backstab you slight you if they sense you are off or different to them just to social climb. Foids dont need to be friendly with males that they dont want to fk so making friends is gay anyways

 

[Jestermaxxest]

not having female friends = you never met the base threshold to begin with

just be friends with other subhumans coping theory

your looks dictate the kind of people you attract

never had any friends nor female friends

 

[RandomGuy]

 

[DCI Gene Hunt]

I need both but I need a gf more

 

[Pikacel]

It's such a typical assumption from NT normalfags but they really do believe that it's very easy to make friends. These normalfags can not comprehend how hard it is to make friends as someone who is neurodivergent. I'm talking about real friends not people who are friendly with you because they sort of know you. Someone who would help you when you are at your lowest low, someone you could share your sincere feelings with. I've had plenty of "friends" in my life but they all either abandoned me when I'm not useful to them anymore or stabbed me in the back. I could go out and make these kinds of "friends" right now by faking who I really am but what's the point It won't get me anything that I need to be psychologically healthy.

So yes I'd like to have real friends but it's nearly impossible for me to make them, I'm just so different to the average person that I can't relate to them and they can't relate to me. We don't have similar life experiences and don't have similar ideals, while some of hobbies I have are quite common the way I partake in them is very different to everybody else, My attitudes and the way I think are very different to them. This all leads to people "liking" me when I keep to myself but when I start opening up these same people start hating me, Even when I met people "similar" to me this would happen.

It's not like I can just magically change who I am, I can put on mask and pretend I'm different I've done for work multiple times before but what's point of fake friendship? Nothing it's no different then paying some e-whore to pretend to be your girlfriend. I just can't make friends no matter what I do whether it be in real life or online It just doesn't happen.

Finally even If I had friends I'd still be missing intimacy from my life something that I am biologically programmed to desire, Friends would certainly make my situation better as I'd have someone to lean on in my darkest times but it's not a permanent solution to just have friends. So no I don't just need friends I need it all, real friends and a loving girlfriend.

I’m more concerned with a normal social life (regular hangouts, thugs you can call on opps, etc)

It’s bare hard to get that if you’re non-NT. Maybe you can get some acquaintances and pity friends that’s it

 

[The New York Times]

I'd like a friend who has a vagina I can insert my penis into, and then cum.

 

[valentino_zagria]

Yep, normies are out of touch in this regard. If you try to point out to them that you also need human connection, love, intimacy (which they can easily get compared to you), they will tell you that you're not trying hard in other departments... Hiprocrisy at its finest

 

[Max Doltman]

Why do normies think that making friends and getting a girlfriend is so easy?

because that

 

[Goofygoober007]

Nobody has many real true friends like that, and I think most people don't have any at all, even popular people.

They're telling you to talk to people and sort of know them. The problem is, and I assume most here are like me, making acquaintances like that does nothing for me and is just a waste of time. If you're ugly, they're not going to help you get girls either.

Having friends make not think about girls.

 

[Max Doltman]

I need both but I need a gf more

girl + friend gf if you have things in common with her thats all i need.

 

[Altunyiskon]

Finally even If I had friends I'd still be missing intimacy from my life something that I am biologically programmed to desire,

They tell you "some people aren't meant to have a partner" and tell you you should accept this, but then they get all depressed and suicidal when they get dumped. The hypocrisy is what I get mad about. They could say "Yeah tough shit." and at least I wouldn't be this mad at them. Just say the cold fucking truth and I'd be somewhat fine with that.

 

[aspergillus_rotter]

NTs will never understand how hard it is to make friends as an outcasted autist.

# make euthanasia legal for NDs. Especially sub8 ND men coz foids still have it easy despite having ND. Autism and asperger is congenital (meaning inborn trait cannot be acquired or cured part of your f*king soul) we got this from our parents or random f*king mutations or recombinations during our birth. At least we should get get the chance to leave this nightmare hellish realm once and for all. It's not our fault buddy boyos from the bottom of my heart I am very sorry for what you go through every day just becoz you were born with this curse. It truly nevER began for us

 

[ThePornographer]

Even if you get male friend.

It doesn't solve you issue, you either find ND friend like you, looser like you at least in dating and end up like redneck guys drinking beers and fishing in the weekend to cope.

Or you will have normies friends who are going to get married and have kids and forget about you with time, because you do not match their life style.

If you have GF , it doesn't really matter to have friends, you can have sex and still have fun with you GF and if you need male friends, you can find friend at work or other space related to think you like...But a mal friends will never give you what you search : The soft body of a woman