i honestly cant stand the cope that it is much worse to have never had anything at all, than to have had something and had it brutally taken away from you
take these two examples for instance:
-in this first instance, you are a KHHV incel for your entire life, playing the wage game and just getting by. like the name suggests you have had few to no positive interactions with women in general and have definitely never had sex or a romantic dynamic. in your teens and 20s, you feel hopeless with women, but you slowly begin to accept a life of celibacy and lonliness and make the most out of what you got.
-in this second instance, everything physically, economically, and socially about you is the same - but one day, say when you are early 20s (20-25). you meet a girl that is perfect for you in every way. shes very attractive to you, accepting of your incel past (very rare for any woman to understand or accept), has the same humor as you, life goals, parents like her, etc. you instantly fall for her and so does she for you, and you have a great relationship with her. the sex is awesome, your folks love her, you plan on moving in together or have moved in together, and are thinking about having kids and a happy life. but suddenly, it all ends. either she cheats on you (meets a better looking or higher social proof/NT guy) or she gets the ick with you over something you do and loses attraction and leaves you. your whole world falls apart, you beg her, chase her, plead for her to come back with you, but its all incredibly futile. it goes back to the way it was much slower than how she came into your life, and you never meet a girl whos into you again.
which of these two instances is worse? i can confidently say most sub100 iq users here would cry fakecel at the second example because "he had sex bro!!!!!", classic example of incel mindset when you do something that outs you from the group.
if you've ever experienced emotional pain or trauma from people, you would know the second option would leave you much more unhappy and hurt than the first ever could. when you are an incel for your entire life, you have no frame of reference to measure your life quality to - you are used to being alone, having no one, and only relying on yourself to get by in this world. in EVERY instance, the second guy is identical to the first before he has the girl of his dreams enter into his life. and for the first time, he experiences what its like to be a happy human being. he finally knows what its like to be loved, wanted, he is finally optimistic to a future with someone he cares about and things are looking bright for him. but at the height of all these great things that finally make him feel human for once in his life, they are brutally snatched away from him by things he couldn't predict. the girl leaves fast, she moves on quick, while he spends the rest of his life wondering where everything went wrong with the one girl who gave him a chance when no one else would.
both men are incel and socially invisible for the rest of their lives, but one of the men is content with being alone and has made peace with it, while the mind of the other man is tortured for years to come. wondering where he went wrong, wondering if he could get her back, asking himself how she could move on so quickly when it seemed like she gave his entire heart to him and he gave his entire heart to her. you guys may think that because the second guy had sex with a girl that he legit liked that he mogs the 1st guy hard, but you never identify the lifelong problems something like this has on an incel. sure, every normie gets their heartbroken just like incel #2. but they move on quick, either through their large mixed gender social circle or by dating apps. but the incel never has this opportunity again, leaving his heartbroken thoughts at war with his mind for years to come.
TLDR, you cant miss what you never had. you can't be negatively affected by the absence of something if it has never come into your life to begin with. many of you have never really been tested by a glimpse of a happy life, and i am sure that the majority of you would snatch that opportunity as soon as it presented itself. but never be naive, never forget what has happened to you in the past, and always understand that what you THINK you deserve in life is often not what you get. when these things happen to you, your black pilled beliefs will be tested to the shadow realm and back, and ultimately will haunt you for ages.
take these two examples for instance:
-in this first instance, you are a KHHV incel for your entire life, playing the wage game and just getting by. like the name suggests you have had few to no positive interactions with women in general and have definitely never had sex or a romantic dynamic. in your teens and 20s, you feel hopeless with women, but you slowly begin to accept a life of celibacy and lonliness and make the most out of what you got.
-in this second instance, everything physically, economically, and socially about you is the same - but one day, say when you are early 20s (20-25). you meet a girl that is perfect for you in every way. shes very attractive to you, accepting of your incel past (very rare for any woman to understand or accept), has the same humor as you, life goals, parents like her, etc. you instantly fall for her and so does she for you, and you have a great relationship with her. the sex is awesome, your folks love her, you plan on moving in together or have moved in together, and are thinking about having kids and a happy life. but suddenly, it all ends. either she cheats on you (meets a better looking or higher social proof/NT guy) or she gets the ick with you over something you do and loses attraction and leaves you. your whole world falls apart, you beg her, chase her, plead for her to come back with you, but its all incredibly futile. it goes back to the way it was much slower than how she came into your life, and you never meet a girl whos into you again.
which of these two instances is worse? i can confidently say most sub100 iq users here would cry fakecel at the second example because "he had sex bro!!!!!", classic example of incel mindset when you do something that outs you from the group.
if you've ever experienced emotional pain or trauma from people, you would know the second option would leave you much more unhappy and hurt than the first ever could. when you are an incel for your entire life, you have no frame of reference to measure your life quality to - you are used to being alone, having no one, and only relying on yourself to get by in this world. in EVERY instance, the second guy is identical to the first before he has the girl of his dreams enter into his life. and for the first time, he experiences what its like to be a happy human being. he finally knows what its like to be loved, wanted, he is finally optimistic to a future with someone he cares about and things are looking bright for him. but at the height of all these great things that finally make him feel human for once in his life, they are brutally snatched away from him by things he couldn't predict. the girl leaves fast, she moves on quick, while he spends the rest of his life wondering where everything went wrong with the one girl who gave him a chance when no one else would.
both men are incel and socially invisible for the rest of their lives, but one of the men is content with being alone and has made peace with it, while the mind of the other man is tortured for years to come. wondering where he went wrong, wondering if he could get her back, asking himself how she could move on so quickly when it seemed like she gave his entire heart to him and he gave his entire heart to her. you guys may think that because the second guy had sex with a girl that he legit liked that he mogs the 1st guy hard, but you never identify the lifelong problems something like this has on an incel. sure, every normie gets their heartbroken just like incel #2. but they move on quick, either through their large mixed gender social circle or by dating apps. but the incel never has this opportunity again, leaving his heartbroken thoughts at war with his mind for years to come.
TLDR, you cant miss what you never had. you can't be negatively affected by the absence of something if it has never come into your life to begin with. many of you have never really been tested by a glimpse of a happy life, and i am sure that the majority of you would snatch that opportunity as soon as it presented itself. but never be naive, never forget what has happened to you in the past, and always understand that what you THINK you deserve in life is often not what you get. when these things happen to you, your black pilled beliefs will be tested to the shadow realm and back, and ultimately will haunt you for ages.
. Not possible. Your example is wrong cuz it's impossible. It's just a little thought experiment you came up with, pure theory. In practice a woman will not as much as bat a fucking eyelid at your suffering, especially if you aren't Brad, Chadlite or Chad. You can't just say 'well here is an incel but a girl is with him for sum reason'. That doesn't happen in real life buddy boyo, otherwise we wouldn't be incels.
