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Serious You aren't an incel unless you asked out several women

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This topic is often ignored here. Because a huge amount of users here, maybe even the majority doesn't have the balls to ask a woman out. How can you bitch and moan on this site that woman reject you if you never even asked any of them out?

It is truly pathetic and also insulting to claim to be an incel whilst never even attempting to get laid. Only chads have women asking them out. Most men have to do most of the job in getting a relationship. It just how it is unfortunately.

Honestly claiming to be an incel without ever approaching is like starving but not trying in any way to get food and then complaining that people don't offer you food for no reason..

Unless you asked out at least 10 women you can't calim to be a incel. Even that is low. most men have to do much more. It just pisses me off. So many cunts here that excuse this pathetic behavior.
 
Cope. Why would we want to get rejected and humiliated when we already know we're ugly.
 
I've asked out probably 20 or so women online
all rejected me
 
Cope, a guy doesn't need to know he is ugly, short and undesirable by asking foids out
 
If you're sub3 you get a pass to inceldom without ever having tried. Highter than that, I'd say you're a mentalcel at best.
 
If I know am severely out of my depth why would I participate in said activity makes no sense.
 
What for? I'm hideous.
 
3 within 1st to 5th grade.
3 in 6th grade.
1 in 7th grade.
2 in 8th grade.
1 in 9th grade.
1 in 10th grade.
1 in 11th grade.
4 in 12th grade. Including oneitis.
2 in college.
7 outside of school.
over 10 online.

Several means "more than two". That's more than two.
 
Judging by what kind of people browse this forum you arent truly incel until youve been asked out by several women
 
I don't even know how to properly talk
 
If you're sub3 you get a pass to inceldom without ever having tried. Highter than that, I'd say you're a mentalcel at best.
More like sub5

Sub3s are truecel, you don't need to be truecel to be incel. Sub5s who get laid or are betabuxxers, or are an exception
 
Tried in the past when i was bluepilled but no surprise i was rejected. My self esteem took a hit with each rejection.

Given up now, the blackpill has shown me that my efforts are futile.
 
You probably "approached" women on the street. Fucking autist. Most of us don't even know any girls.
 
Low iq cel when you need to ask out several women just to recognize being an incel
 
I've asked out 12. All rejections
Plus , no woman ever has shown interest in me. I wont describe it, but you just FEEL inceldom.

You see an obscure pattern that points to you dying undesired.

Not investing for anything ever again regarding women. From relationships tp just feeling bad for tragedies happening to them.

Stillbirth wishes.
 
Unless you asked out at least 10 women you can't calim to be a incel.
JFL

Why not 9 ? Why not 11 ? Setting up numbers is stoopid. You don't need to ask foids if you're an obvious 0/10. Foids literally flee from your presence. You're a fakecel if you happened to have talked with foids in the first place. JFL.
FEEL inceldom
Basically this.
 
I have tried, maybe not much cold-approaching due to nerves, but it's pretty pointless when you don't get any positive signals to "make a move" anyway.
My undesirability has been proven countless times, when trying all the most popular dating sites and apps also.
 
i asked more than 100 foids online , even landwhales reject me :feelsbadman:
 
I have tried, maybe not much cold-approaching due to nerves, but it's pretty pointless when you don't get any positive signals to "make a move" anyway.
My undesirability has been proven countless times, when trying all the most popular dating sites and apps also.
I've asked out 12. All rejections
Plus , no woman ever has shown interest in me. I wont describe it, but you just FEEL inceldom.

You see an obscure pattern that points to you dying undesired.

Not investing for anything ever again regarding women. From relationships tp just feeling bad for tragedies happening to them.

Stillbirth wishes.
Tried in the past when i was bluepilled but no surprise i was rejected. My self esteem took a hit with each rejection.

Given up now, the blackpill has shown me that my efforts are futile.
3 within 1st to 5th grade.
3 in 6th grade.
1 in 7th grade.
2 in 8th grade.
1 in 9th grade.
1 in 10th grade.
1 in 11th grade.
4 in 12th grade. Including oneitis.
2 in college.
7 outside of school.
over 10 online.

Several means "more than two". That's more than two.
i asked more than 100 foids online , even landwhales reject me :feelsbadman:


The only true incels on this thread so far.
 
That kind of thinking is the remnant of the slowly fading pua culture.

You cant be an incel if you havent asked out n women +1.

Like you think normies go out taking 20 rejections a day.

Bruh, they take 1,2 then a foid jumps in professing interest.
 
To be honest i have not ever given a serious effort. I am young without access to spaces where you can get with girls, and am an outcast that doesn't get invited to outings.
 
And where the hell are we supposed to "ask out" women? Online, where they are inundated with men trying to win their favor? At work, in the streets, etc, in the midst of a sexual assault/harassment hysteria? Within our social circles, completely neglecting the fact that most incels have no social circles to begin with?
 
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That kind of thinking is the remnant of the slowly fading pua culture.

You cant be an incel if you havent asked out n women +1.

Like you think normies go out taking 20 rejections a day.

Bruh, they take 1,2 then a foid jumps in professing interest.
nah normies don’t have foids professing interest
 
I agree. You need to try a few times before declaring yourself incel.
 
If more rejections = more incel. I am probably a king. I asked out over 60 girls in my life IRL. Prob more, 60 is what I remember counting.

And fuckin hundreds, online, hundreds of thousands if you consider dating aps where swiping right = asking a girl out.

I am probably the only one here in which an ENTIRE CITY rejected me. Like I exhausted the database of girls in my city/ ran out of matches on tinder. I had to set the parameters to include other cities near by.

I was legit about to become an hero


The astronomical odds that this could even happen has made me question this reality. Am I really in a video game simulation? Must me right? There is just no way. the math doesn't add up. I've seen fucking fat apes at least get a fat chick. fuck. No way this reality is real.
 
Volcel if you dont ask toilets out.
 
You can ask them out online. If you have the looks for it, they'll say yes. If not, that means you're an incel. Online is real life. And lots of chads do get casual hookups by meeting foids online.
 
"Just be confident bro :bluepill:"
 
You probably "approached" women on the street. Fucking autist. Most of us don't even know any girls.
Why not 9 ? Why not 11 ? Setting up numbers is stoopid. You don't need to ask foids if you're an obvious 0/10. Foids literally flee from your presence. You're a fakecel if you happened to have talked with foids in the first place.
High IQ
 
if you try Tinder or some other dating app with no success then you are obviously an incel. if you don't frequently receive looks from women when you go out in public then you are not desirable. whether you are attractive or not depends on the frequency and amount of looks you receive from women or your success in dating apps. if you were good looking then it would be women who point that out. remember that good looks are an objective and measurable. simply telling yourself you look good is not the same as factually being good looking nor does it provide the same results
 
There is some truth to this, the embarassed look in a foid's face when she goes "Uhmm I'll let you know" is a side of the blackpill everyone needs to know.
 
unless you're indeed very ugly you're just cucking yourself by not trying. Just like you said, that's how things work for most men, even not so ugly ones (normies), women won't jump at your crotch just 'cause you're a guy "but chad" yeah, chad's chad. Even then, most women are just too embarassed to do so, they'll often just give them blatant IOIs. I regret not trying hard enough back when I was younger tbh..

if you try Tinder or some other dating app with no success then you are obviously an incel.
I don't think we should use apps designed to squeeze money out of incels by exacerbating hypergamy to judge oneself. Even heard them say they're not as picky as they're on tinder in real life. Most of them are on the app just for the ego boost, if chad comes along then they may take the chance
 
unless you're indeed very ugly you're just cucking yourself by not trying. Just like you said, that's how things work for most men, even not so ugly ones (normies), women won't jump at your crotch just 'cause you're a guy "but chad" yeah, chad's chad. Even then, most women are just too embarassed to do so, they'll often just give them blatant IOIs. I regret not trying hard enough back when I was younger tbh..


I don't think we should use apps designed to squeeze money out of incels by exacerbating hypergamy to judge oneself. Even heard them say they're not as picky as they're on tinder in real life. Most of them are on the app just for the ego boost, if chad comes along then they may take the chance
Well, that is, dare I say, coping, bro. Why would women have different standards online and offline? Why would they raise their standards once they enter Tinder?
 
Well, that is, dare I say, coping, bro. Why would women have different standards online and offline? Why would they raise their standards once they enter Tinder?
Maybe the excess of good looking males they otherwise wouldn't have access to in their offline lives?

Even among ugly males, not many men will go out there catcalling foids, it's embarassing. But online they're infesting their DMs with stupid pick up lines. They raise their standards because they are now aware they have way more SMV they thought they had.
 
If more rejections = more incel. I am probably a king. I asked out over 60 girls in my life IRL. Prob more, 60 is what I remember counting.

And fuckin hundreds, online, hundreds of thousands if you consider dating aps where swiping right = asking a girl out.

I am probably the only one here in which an ENTIRE CITY rejected me. Like I exhausted the database of girls in my city/ ran out of matches on tinder. I had to set the parameters to include other cities near by.

I was legit about to become an hero


The astronomical odds that this could even happen has made me question this reality. Am I really in a video game simulation? Must me right? There is just no way. the math doesn't add up. I've seen fucking fat apes at least get a fat chick. fuck. No way this reality is real.
Things like this make me believe in fate
 
Maybe the excess of good looking males they otherwise wouldn't have access to in their offline lives?
You cannot distinguish offline and online lives. Many foidoids spend more waking hours staring at their phones than they stare at the offline world. Foidoids have more online existence than offline. Their social media accounts exist more than their physical selves. Getting 10 thousand likes on Instagram and having 800 matches on Tinder while only having two decent looking dudes at their workplace means they exist more online than offline.
They raise their standards because they are now aware they have way more SMV they thought they had.
You are on the right tracks but it's not because they perceive to have more SMV. The thing is that SMV is measurable and real, and women have infinitely more SMV than men do. This is a matter of quantity: there are way more males than females in the dating markets & men distribute their interest evenly and more generously than women. This means that there are not only more men but also more interest from men to women. Men outnumber women. Men find interest in some 70% of women on average while women are less interested in dating and find some 1-5% of men attractive on average.

Like distribution


This is a statistical thing. Your average man finds some 70% of women attractive while an average woman find 1-5% of men attractive. The men women find attractive are usually the same top 10%ers. Women do not distribute sexual interest to sub 9 men. The probability that an average man would find a woman who likes him back is abysmal.
 
I have slight to moderate skin deformities with autism to top it off. no reason to approach IRL unless I want to be shit on.
Exactly why accumulate even more negative experiences.
 
This topic is often ignored here. Because a huge amount of users here, maybe even the majority doesn't have the balls to ask a woman out. How can you bitch and moan on this site that woman reject you if you never even asked any of them out?

It is truly pathetic and also insulting to claim to be an incel whilst never even attempting to get laid. Only chads have women asking them out. Most men have to do most of the job in getting a relationship. It just how it is unfortunately.

Honestly claiming to be an incel without ever approaching is like starving but not trying in any way to get food and then complaining that people don't offer you food for no reason..

Unless you asked out at least 10 women you can't calim to be a incel. Even that is low. most men have to do much more. It just pisses me off. So many cunts here that excuse this pathetic behavior.
No sorry high inhib is an additional incel trait. So makes you even more incel
 
If you get completely rejected on Tinder you’re probably not going to find better luck IRL.
 
"You aren't a mouse unless you've been caught in a mouse trap."
 
Agreed, get rejected by at least 15 foids in a row and in person.
Or don't, don't ask anyone out, it's your life.
I've been rejected by 150 foids in person but a lot of these were just them excusing themselves and walking away or talking to me in one-word sentences and letting the conversation die down, I count those as rejections as well even though I didn't ask them out on a date or whatever.
 
You don't need to ask them out to know they will reject you. I have no success in online dating, why should it be different in real life? Especially if no woman ever showed interest in me?

Besides there don't even exist women I can ask out unless I do cold approach. I have no friends or social circle. Since I am out of school I haven't met one new foid I can tell you the name of.
 

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