I just have no idea considering the lack of anything boomers could provide.
Blackpill Wtf did milennials do abt understanding women/looksmaxxing before ER?
There was a "pre-redpill" created by PUA guys like Neil Strauss and his "The Game". Other than that they were probably believing in bluepill
They were roaming in the dark. Blackpill saved millions of male lives and prevented them from turning into betabuxxer debt slaves. Thats why spreading knowledge about this deceitful realm is of the utmost importance.
but we're doomed with happiness and cope otherwise.
it means that all intelligence really only comes from mass communication to the point we've built here. People used fucking bible quotes before clinical psyche lol
jesus 2005.
Lmao what even is this
What do we all think of this now
I think what he is saying is mostly accurate. Some of the stuff is water is wet tier like money won't make you more attractive to women and will just put you into the provider role.
He just overestimates how important your social skills are in general. According to him, your looks don't matter at all, which is obviously wrong. That alone is the reason why most blackpillers will discredit everything else he is saying. But if your looks are at least normie tier, his insights will generally still apply in my opinion.
He thinks that good looks matter indirectly, because they make it easier to achieve "state" where you interact with others in a confident and natural way. If you're good looking or otherwise perceived as high value by others, the positive reinforcement will make your brain relax and you will be able to let out your true personality. If you think that you're low value compared to the people that you're interacting with, then you will instinctively put up a front that protects you from being yourself. Because your brain doesn't deem it safe to let loose and access all parts of your personality. You will become stiff and won't know what to say, you won't have access to your jokes and you will try to rehearse things before you're saying them.
The goal is to achieve this confident state all the time, no matter how you look like, or how successful you are. Because this mental state is what makes others attracted to you.
I think what he is saying is kind of true. Most people have close friends around whom they're very comfortable. But around strangers that they perceive as having higher status, they aren't able to access that same personality.
The problem is that he doesn't really provide a solution.
Julien Blanc talks about "letting loose" which is a similar concept. If the problem is due to childhood trauma, he has some tools to let go of it. Like meditation and allowing yourself to feel the associated emotions and then letting go of them.
But I doubt that you can overcome this safety mechanism. The brain wants to protect you from saying something weird or acting in an inappropriate way, which might have gotten you killed in more primitive times. It's certainly not easy to circumvent this protection mechanism, if not impossible. Owen and Julien often use themselves as examples of people who have dramatically changed and have now achieved this inner confidence that doesn't rely on external validation. But they are both millionaires that have hooked up with 100s of women, while being treated like gods by their followers. To say that they achieved their confidence without positive reinforcement is bullshit.
Overall I think they are mostly correct about their observations. But I'm not sure if the solutions that they offer actually work.
yeah but ultimately this doesn't work for peopele because things are way worse now, and self improvement can be deconstructed by darwinist bullies etc.
You always have to play by a certain bubble and being attacked creates insecurity and rage. We feel like janitors being positive 247.
People are worse bullies now that people have looksmax culture being well circulated. Even among normies al ittle bit.
Some thigns won't just work. Women are cunts.
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