Incels.is - Involuntary Celibate

Welcome! This is a forum for involuntary celibates: people who lack a significant other. Are you lonely and wish you had someone in your life? You're not alone! Join our forum and talk to people just like you.

LifeFuel Wrong approach to suffering

lemon21

lemon21

Isekai enjoyer
★★★★★
Joined
Sep 8, 2021
Posts
6,162
Oneitis have superpowers.... Imagine coming here, spending time and understanding your position. Then go back to square one, lmao.
 
DenHaag

DenHaag

Inquisitor
★★
Joined
Dec 30, 2022
Posts
2,663
I appreciate the perspective, even though maybe I see things slightly differently in some particulars. The forums are not always the greatest cope, but they're there for some of us from time to time anyway. Good luck out there.
 
buried_alive

buried_alive

Major
★★★★★
Joined
Sep 6, 2022
Posts
2,417
The meme is real. We were right all along. Very few people here are truly black pilled.

@sneed (not chuck) is deluding himself by thinking that revealing his feelings to his oneitis (imagine my shock when that will backfire KEK) will offer him some sort of respite from the cold, merciless abyss that is the black pill with every brutal truth it brings to bear.

Bro, you will be ultra depressed when the inevitable happens.

The inevitable: She will act shocked and offended that you are expressing your feelings, and she will bluntly and explicitly tell you that she does NOT feel the same way about you. Then she will completely ghost you, and you will spiral into depression if you can't help it.

There is no best case scenario here. It's only a handful of shit outcomes.
Exactly, thank you! Confessing your feelings is a desperate attempt. I've done it some times and nothing good came from it. In fact doing this is what led me to the red pill, at first, and then later to the black pill. I simply search if confessing feelings to a friend is a good idea. It isn't. And if you're friends with her it's already too late.
 
FakeFakecel

FakeFakecel

Normies,OUT!
★★
Joined
Feb 25, 2023
Posts
2,163
The meme is real. We were right all along. Very few people here are truly black pilled.

@sneed (not chuck) is deluding himself by thinking that revealing his feelings to his oneitis (imagine my shock when that will backfire KEK) will offer him some sort of respite from the cold, merciless abyss that is the black pill with every brutal truth it brings to bear.

Bro, you will be ultra depressed when the inevitable happens.

The inevitable: She will act shocked and offended that you are expressing your feelings, and she will bluntly and explicitly tell you that she does NOT feel the same way about you. Then she will completely ghost you, and you will spiral into depression if you can't help it.

There is no best case scenario here. It's only a handful of shit outcomes.
highest IQ post here
 
M

Med Amine

Transcendental
★★★★★
Joined
Dec 29, 2022
Posts
25,284
you will just get giga cucked by this "oneitis" of yours and you will just live in pain and agony after this
i wonder if you can still read the posts in this thread, you probably left forever but this just show how an inkwell can just turn on his whole mentality just one single drop of affection from toilets
kinda reminds me of what @BlkPillPres said , if they get attention from toilets they drop their whole ideology, they never were really blackpilled. but you will never escape inceldom. you will always be like the rest of us and you will always be miserable
 
_Courage_

_Courage_

Veteran
Joined
Aug 30, 2019
Posts
1,057
I'm thinking of that scene in RDR1 where John Marston gets railed with bullets by the cops kek. Get fucked simp, and get off my forum.
 
Michael W. Ford

Michael W. Ford

-
Joined
Jul 25, 2022
Posts
11,944
I'd like to depart. I've rekindled my friendship with my oneitis. I will express my feelings to her soon.

Regardless of the outcome, I don't want to be a bitter incel any longer. Nothing good will come from cynicism, resentment, and pessimism. It makes me more depressed. My creative drive will be directed toward something other than shitposting. That is, writing about my experiences and life.

I hope the rest of you find a way to make meaning out of your suffering because it is never going to stop. Even the Chads and Staceys you admire suffer. The difference is that some come out the other end better for it. Yes, cancer, grief, injury, financial ruin, heartbreak, rejection, unfair accusations, and more - these can all make your life much more fulfilling and meaningful! As Viktor Frankl says, "there is so much suffering to get to!" Don't hesitate. Attend to your suffering and do so nobly, no matter how much you are mocked and ridiculed.

There is a reason men like Nelson Mandela are respected the world over. All of us, from all walks of life, know that the highest expression of character is to endure inevitable suffering nobly. To not give in to malice and black-heartedness.

View attachment 740507
Pictured: A man who faced extreme suffering and was not defeated.


I believe we all have the potential to rise above our circumstances and find meaning. Men with a much worse lot than you in life have managed to do it - inceldom is hardly as bad as years of unfair incarceration, being a parapalegic, having a terminal illness. Yet humans in these circumstances have found meaning and have risen above suffering. That is the power of the human spirit!

Find humor in your situation
There is undoubtedly great humor in inceldom. Millions of years of the evolution of life on Earth to produce a complex organism incapable of finding a mate! It is nothing short of a cosmic comedy! As Viktor Frankl highlighted, during his time in labor camps, humor was one of the best antidotes to suffering. It allows you to take yourself less seriously, you gain a better perspective of your place in the universe, and the load on your shoulders gets lighter. Learning to laugh at yourself is the greatest gift you can give your soul.


Stop visiting IT
They are no better than you. It takes a pathetic person to laugh at those in their worst hour. IT are the prison guards in the labor camps, reveling in our suffering. They do not grow from their devilish behavior and neither do you. Stay away from the cretins.

Do not lose your morality
Despite it all, don't give into the darkness. It is the ultimate test of character to endure hardship and not give in to malice. Your suffering is a test. You forge meaning out of it by facing it nobly. You may not be able to change your circumstances, but you can change your reaction to suffering. Will you allow the suffering to win and drag you into the depths of darkness? Or will you rise above?

View attachment 740511
Pictured: Viktor Frankl was a doctor before he was thrown into Auschwitz. He rose above his suffering despite seeing death and sadism daily. His resilience allowed him to revolutionize psychology. This is the power of the human spirit in the face of suffering.


Meaning is intrinsic, you just have to see it
There is great meaning in your suffering! Male virgins at 30 make up less than 5% of the population. You are part of a very unique group. What meaning will you find in your unique experience? What will you unearth to show the world? The uniqueness of your suffering opens unique opportunities for discovery as you function on the fringes of human experience. Don't take this for granted. It is the most important aspect of what makes you who you are.

Please ban me, and I'm sorry for all the horrible things I've said here.
@Caesercel
@TheProphetMuscle
@Dregster
@Fat Link

Carry a rose quartz in your left pocket when you talk to your oneitis.
 
Grim_Reaper

Grim_Reaper

St. Creepshotcel
★★★★★
Joined
Dec 21, 2022
Posts
12,835
A foid gave him a pity smile and this nigga forgot the blackpill existed.
 
R

real_blackcel

Banned
-
Joined
Feb 24, 2023
Posts
542
You may be done with the blackpill, but the blackpill isn't done with you
 
AcidTrip

AcidTrip

Antinatilism is the solution to your problems
★★★★★
Joined
Mar 16, 2023
Posts
1,667
Gone too soon. But you can’t destroy the black pill, the black pill destroys you
 
NormieKong

NormieKong

Slavic Subhuman
★★★
Joined
Jan 27, 2023
Posts
1,275
Is anyone surprised when he spammed questions asking how you’d feel getting raped? Dude was obvious LGBT ally
 
VitaminS

VitaminS

For Imperishable glory of the Kingdom of Heaven...
★★★★★
Joined
Feb 13, 2023
Posts
1,984
Is anyone surprised when he spammed questions asking how you’d feel getting raped? Dude was obvious LGBT ally


NormieKong

★★
Slavic Subhuman
Joined Jan 27, 2023
Posts666
 
ADHD_cel

ADHD_cel

Vita fortuna est; aut eam habest aut ea carest.
★★★★★
Joined
Dec 13, 2022
Posts
8,352
IceStorm

IceStorm

Ashes and Wind
-
Joined
Feb 25, 2023
Posts
7,762
Stay banned Nigger

@wereq @30klhlvwizard @based_meme
 
Last edited:
IceStorm

IceStorm

Ashes and Wind
-
Joined
Feb 25, 2023
Posts
7,762
Reverted right back to the bluepill all because of his oneitis. This is something I’d expect to read on reddit, not here.
Yeah fuck that Bluepilled Nigger

@wereq @30klhlvwizard @based_meme
 
IceStorm

IceStorm

Ashes and Wind
-
Joined
Feb 25, 2023
Posts
7,762
The meme is real. We were right all along. Very few people here are truly black pilled.
Spot on

@wereq @30klhlvwizard @based_meme
@sneed (not chuck) is deluding himself by thinking that revealing his feelings to his oneitis (imagine my shock when that will backfire KEK) will offer him some sort of respite from the cold, merciless abyss that is the black pill with every brutal truth it brings to bear.

Bro, you will be ultra depressed when the inevitable happens.

The inevitable: She will act shocked and offended that you are expressing your feelings, and she will bluntly and explicitly tell you that she does NOT feel the same way about you. Then she will completely ghost you, and you will spiral into depression if you can't help it.

There is no best case scenario here. It's only a handful of shit outcomes.
Exactly , the retard is digging his own grave willingly
 

Similar threads

nosine
Replies
10
Views
997
mknova
mknova
soul contre tous
Replies
10
Views
481
Incedel
Incedel
future&$
Replies
12
Views
207
OutcompetedByRoomba
OutcompetedByRoomba
Rixinuj
Replies
0
Views
218
Rixinuj
Rixinuj
Zhou Chang-Xing
Replies
6
Views
473
67InchesSubhuman
67InchesSubhuman

Users who are viewing this thread

shape1
shape2
shape3
shape4
shape7
shape8
Top