100% - Permaban
I'd like to depart. I've rekindled my friendship with my oneitis. I will express my feelings to her soon.
Regardless of the outcome, I don't want to be a bitter incel any longer. Nothing good will come from cynicism, resentment, and pessimism. It makes me more depressed. My creative drive will be directed toward something other than shitposting. That is, writing about my experiences and life.
I hope the rest of you find a way to make meaning out of your suffering because it is never going to stop. Even the Chads and Staceys you admire suffer. The difference is that some come out the other end better for it. Yes, cancer, grief, injury, financial ruin, heartbreak, rejection, unfair accusations, and more - these can all make your life much more fulfilling and meaningful! As Viktor Frankl says, "there is so much suffering to get to!" Don't hesitate. Attend to your suffering and do so nobly, no matter how much you are mocked and ridiculed.
There is a reason men like Nelson Mandela are respected the world over. All of us, from all walks of life, know that the highest expression of character is to endure inevitable suffering nobly. To not give in to malice and black-heartedness.
Pictured: A man who faced extreme suffering and was not defeated.
I believe we all have the potential to rise above our circumstances and find meaning. Men with a much worse lot than you in life have managed to do it - inceldom is hardly as bad as years of unfair incarceration, being a parapalegic, having a terminal illness. Yet humans in these circumstances have found meaning and have risen above suffering. That is the power of the human spirit!
Find humor in your situation
There is undoubtedly great humor in inceldom. Millions of years of the evolution of life on Earth to produce a complex organism incapable of finding a mate! It is nothing short of a cosmic comedy! As Viktor Frankl highlighted, during his time in labor camps, humor was one of the best antidotes to suffering. It allows you to take yourself less seriously, you gain a better perspective of your place in the universe, and the load on your shoulders gets lighter. Learning to laugh at yourself is the greatest gift you can give your soul.
www.themarginalian.org
Stop visiting IT
They are no better than you. It takes a pathetic person to laugh at those in their worst hour. IT are the prison guards in the labor camps, reveling in our suffering. They do not grow from their devilish behavior and neither do you. Stay away from the cretins.
Do not lose your morality
Despite it all, don't give into the darkness. It is the ultimate test of character to endure hardship and not give in to malice. Your suffering is a test. You forge meaning out of it by facing it nobly. You may not be able to change your circumstances, but you can change your reaction to suffering. Will you allow the suffering to win and drag you into the depths of darkness? Or will you rise above?
Pictured: Viktor Frankl was a doctor before he was thrown into Auschwitz. He rose above his suffering despite seeing death and sadism daily. His resilience allowed him to revolutionize psychology. This is the power of the human spirit in the face of suffering.
en.wikipedia.org
Meaning is intrinsic, you just have to see it
There is great meaning in your suffering! Male virgins at 30 make up less than 5% of the population. You are part of a very unique group. What meaning will you find in your unique experience? What will you unearth to show the world? The uniqueness of your suffering opens unique opportunities for discovery as you function on the fringes of human experience. Don't take this for granted. It is the most important aspect of what makes you who you are.
Please ban me, and I'm sorry for all the horrible things I've said here.
@Caesercel
@TheProphetMuscle
@Dregster
@Fat Link
Regardless of the outcome, I don't want to be a bitter incel any longer. Nothing good will come from cynicism, resentment, and pessimism. It makes me more depressed. My creative drive will be directed toward something other than shitposting. That is, writing about my experiences and life.
I hope the rest of you find a way to make meaning out of your suffering because it is never going to stop. Even the Chads and Staceys you admire suffer. The difference is that some come out the other end better for it. Yes, cancer, grief, injury, financial ruin, heartbreak, rejection, unfair accusations, and more - these can all make your life much more fulfilling and meaningful! As Viktor Frankl says, "there is so much suffering to get to!" Don't hesitate. Attend to your suffering and do so nobly, no matter how much you are mocked and ridiculed.
There is a reason men like Nelson Mandela are respected the world over. All of us, from all walks of life, know that the highest expression of character is to endure inevitable suffering nobly. To not give in to malice and black-heartedness.
Pictured: A man who faced extreme suffering and was not defeated.
I believe we all have the potential to rise above our circumstances and find meaning. Men with a much worse lot than you in life have managed to do it - inceldom is hardly as bad as years of unfair incarceration, being a parapalegic, having a terminal illness. Yet humans in these circumstances have found meaning and have risen above suffering. That is the power of the human spirit!
Find humor in your situation
There is undoubtedly great humor in inceldom. Millions of years of the evolution of life on Earth to produce a complex organism incapable of finding a mate! It is nothing short of a cosmic comedy! As Viktor Frankl highlighted, during his time in labor camps, humor was one of the best antidotes to suffering. It allows you to take yourself less seriously, you gain a better perspective of your place in the universe, and the load on your shoulders gets lighter. Learning to laugh at yourself is the greatest gift you can give your soul.
Viktor Frankl on Humor as a Lifeline to Sanity and Survival
“Humor, more than anything else in the human make-up, can afford an aloofness and an ability to rise above any situation, even if only for a few seconds.”
www.themarginalian.org
Stop visiting IT
They are no better than you. It takes a pathetic person to laugh at those in their worst hour. IT are the prison guards in the labor camps, reveling in our suffering. They do not grow from their devilish behavior and neither do you. Stay away from the cretins.
Do not lose your morality
Despite it all, don't give into the darkness. It is the ultimate test of character to endure hardship and not give in to malice. Your suffering is a test. You forge meaning out of it by facing it nobly. You may not be able to change your circumstances, but you can change your reaction to suffering. Will you allow the suffering to win and drag you into the depths of darkness? Or will you rise above?
Pictured: Viktor Frankl was a doctor before he was thrown into Auschwitz. He rose above his suffering despite seeing death and sadism daily. His resilience allowed him to revolutionize psychology. This is the power of the human spirit in the face of suffering.
Viktor Frankl - Wikipedia
Meaning is intrinsic, you just have to see it
There is great meaning in your suffering! Male virgins at 30 make up less than 5% of the population. You are part of a very unique group. What meaning will you find in your unique experience? What will you unearth to show the world? The uniqueness of your suffering opens unique opportunities for discovery as you function on the fringes of human experience. Don't take this for granted. It is the most important aspect of what makes you who you are.
Please ban me, and I'm sorry for all the horrible things I've said here.
@Caesercel
@TheProphetMuscle
@Dregster
@Fat Link
