If the woman isn't having sex with you, she's having sex with someone else. Women are never alone, every time a woman says things like "I want some time for myself, I need to think, I don't want to see anyone for the moment, I'm not feeling like having sex for these next months", it's a lie. The only periods in which they might not have sex is when they're trying to get with a new guy. But even if they fail to get some Chad, they'll just move on overnight anyway and try again and statistically succeed with a new guy.
Women are childlike and have no real control over their cravings. If they feel lonely or horny, they'll go and get it, because it's that easy for them and there are no negative consequences in 2020. How likely is it for someone to go for months, years, without feeling lonely or horny while being single? Even though women have much lower libidos, it isn't likely at all.
If she can't have vaginal sex, she'll have the other types. Passive gay men also don't have vaginas and they have tons of sex.