Would we even be capable of pair bonding?

[and]

You know how sloots aren’t capable of being in a truly loving relationship even when they settle down with some beta provider, because they’ve had too much of their souls fucked out of them by Chad? I wonder if an incel would even be able to love and receive love from a woman and to let his guard down if by some bizarre accident he did get a gf. Could the bitterness and resentment ever fade away enough to allow a former incel to have a healthy relationship with any woman?

Notice I’m saying “*would* we be able to pair bond,” not “*will* we be able to pair bond.” I’m not implying it will ever even matter, so don’t sperg on me for being whitepilled.

 

[Richard spencer]

Only with a girl with issues similar to me.
A normal girl no.

 

[NeverSubmit]

I'm not compatible with modern day women

 

[God]

You know how sloots aren’t capable of being in a truly loving relationship even when they settle down with some beta provider, because they’ve had too much of their souls fucked out of them by Chad?

Thats cope. Women can love guys. Many women love guys.

Could the bitterness and resentment ever fade away enough to allow a former incel to have a healthy relationship with any woman?

I suppose so, provided she is the right person. Many incels arleady have a "oneitis" with whom they are in love. Thus it wouldn't surprise me if most incels could "recover", though there might be a minority of us that are "to far gone".

 

[Deleted member 5712]

Society has normalized promiscuity that pair-bonding just doesn't happen anymore even in religious households. Instead of working your problems out and staying in a committed relationship there are too many people that think one argument means you aren't each other's "soul mate" so they break up and move onto the next partner. Then they wonder why they are 25+ and still not married and single.

Pair bonding should happen at a very young age so you go through all the angst and sexual tension early and together. Quite hard for females to understand this because they treat sex as a just a regular thing and suddenly it doesn't become 'special' if she is giving it to a different guy every week. Which means she doesn't feel that any guy is special then when she finally does get married they divorce 3 years later because if hundreds of guys have had you then what else is there to give for your husband? Women in 2018 are very selfish.

 

[Weirdcel]

Not if you're schizoid

 

[StormlitAqua]

Society has normalized promiscuity that pair-bonding just doesn't happen anymore even in religious households. Instead of working your problems out and staying in a committed relationship there are too many people that think one argument means you aren't each other's "soul mate" so they break up and move onto the next partner. Then they wonder why they are 25+ and still not married and single.

Pair bonding should happen at a very young age so you go through all the angst and sexual tension early and together. Quite hard for females to understand this because they treat sex as a just a regular thing and suddenly it doesn't become 'special' if she is giving it to a different guy every week. Which means she doesn't feel that any guy is special then when she finally does get married they divorce 3 years later because if hundreds of guys have had you then what else is there to give for your husband? Women in 2018 are very selfish.

Extremely high IQ blackpill right here. Pay attention tradcels and christcels, it may be over for us.

 

[_incelinside]

Only with a girl with issues similar to me.
A normal girl no.

This, I would find a relationship with a normie foid intimidating because she would lifemog me

 

[Deleted member 6501]

nope, the moment i miraculously acquire a gf, i'd probably end up killing her because of my past

 

[The End]

I think it's possible, sure. Some here are so desperate for affection they'll fall in love with the first girl who smiles at them. And that is regardless of what they say - since love is an emotion and emotion isn't logical.

I mean, love is just a chemical reaction really. Maybe our capability for that chemical to be released and enjoyed is gone by now, but I think it's still in there.

But there are some, like myself, who are way too bitter and cynical to feel love easily. We could be switched on, I'm sure, but it'd be some sort of brief anomaly that'd take a herculean effort.

 

[Incelibate anarchist]

I have often wondered that myself, the human pairbond is not easily broken, if a girl has sexual intercourse with Chad, she will always like him to a certain degree. Once she starts having sexual relations at,on average age 14, she forms and break's the pairbond dozens upon dozens of time's leaving her unable to truely form the connection again. Non-virgins get divorced at a much higher rate, one prior partner ups the chance of divorce by 10%.That is why a a virgin bride is a must, nothing less is acceptable.

 

[Adamski]

I would definitely pair bond and be overcome with feelings of love towards a foid who liked me. But the chances of such an occurance is near zero, and most modern cunts are alpha-widows who will never be able to bond with anyone themselves.

 

[mikepence]

I would definitely pair bond and be overcome with feelings of love towards a foid who liked me. But the chances of such an occurance is near zero, and most modern cunts are alpha-widows who will never be able to bond with anyone themselves.

You really have to A) Be Chad and B) Get 'em young. If you become a girl's first in MS/early HS she'll be able to form a relationship you can't get in your 20s and 30s.

 

[Deleted member 60]

I'm probably too far gone

 

[Deleted member 60]

I'm not compatible with modern day women

 

[Adamski]

You really have to A) Be Chad and B) Get 'em young. If you become a girl's first in MS/early HS she'll be able to form a relationship you can't get in your 20s and 30s.

I agree completely. The "keepers" get in a committed relationship during their teens and often remain faithful to the guy for life.

 

[Grapefruit]

I'm undeveloped socially, honestly. I could totally believe it for a while if I got a gf. I'm basically at middle school level with my social skills, so it would be something like that for me. Of course, over time the veneer would wipe off and reality would slap me right in the face. But until then, I could believe.

 

[PleaseKillMeLoseSkin]

If I saw that she was making the extra effort to be with me I'd consider a date, but I'm so fucked in the head I wouldn't be able to let loose at all I would constantly be cynical about anything that she does to the point that I'm sure it would drive her away. It's escortceling away for me.

 

[iblamemyself]

I think I am.