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Would being incel in japan be less brutal?

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Say you fully learn the language and you manage to migrate, get an okay job and an apartment, with a decent amount of income left to spend on copes.
Would it be less brutal?
 
no? why would that be any different?
 
idk, it seems like cope
 
The women there still have high standards, they are still picky, and they are surrounded by constant attention from men (i.e., geomaxxers). If anything, the culture makes it easier for women to ignore you, since politeness covers rejection.
 
Japan also has its own version of this problem, with hikikomori, herbivore men, and a huge sexless population.
 
I am ethnic but I am part chink, those fucking ricecel faggots still wouldn't accept me so I would sexually assault one of their noodlewhores on a subway in minecraft
 
Same shit really
 
The women there still have high standards, they are still picky, and they are surrounded by constant attention from men (i.e., geomaxxers). If anything, the culture makes it easier for women to ignore you, since politeness covers rejection.
Fair, but I was more thinking in terms of. Maybe the society is more built for loners, with the hikikomori culture and all that, but I'm probably just overestimating it.
 
Say you fully learn the language and you manage to migrate, get an okay job and an apartment, with a decent amount of income left to spend on copes.
Would it be less brutal?
fuck no
 
I think it would be even worse, now people hate you for being ugly + foreign instead of just ugly.
 
, with hikikomori, herbivore men, and a huge sexless population.
Wouldn't this make it more appealing for us? Less sexhavers and display of public intimacy (pretty sure public intimacy is more frowned upon also in japan)

Also less feminzai/gynocracy culture
 
Wouldn't this make it more appealing for us? Less sexhavers and display of public intimacy (pretty sure public intimacy is more frowned upon also in japan)

You would think, but fewer people having sex does not translate into more chances for you, it just means a larger share of men are being left out. The competition is still there, the standards are still high, and women still filter men the same way. You might feel less reminded of it day to day, but the underlying reality of being unwanted would not change.
 
You would think, but fewer people having sex does not translate into more chances for you, it just means a larger share of men are being left out. The competition is still there, the standards are still high, and women still filter men the same way. You might feel less reminded of it day to day, but the underlying reality of being unwanted would not change.

I do not think things being less in my face is going to make my living situation any better. I would just know a lot of other men are struggling too, and that we are all kind of screwed while the problem only worsens.
 
Japan looks like hell, conservative culture of conformity and rules, combined with feminism and liberalism
atleast in america there is apathy when it comes to dress and behavior in public you can get away with alot
 
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You would think, but fewer people having sex does not translate into more chances for you, it just means a larger share of men are being left out. The competition is still there, the standards are still high, and women still filter men the same way. You might feel less reminded of it day to day, but the underlying reality of being unwanted would not change.
I'm not saying it would lead to translate more chances for me (multiplying 0 by anything always equals zero) I was thinking that maybe it's less insufferable to be constantly reminded by lovelessness. Also if the a larger share of the population is single, maybe the society/culture will adjust more to that share of the population relative to countries where relationships are more common
 
Japanese wont like u unless u white
 
I am ethnic but I am part chink, those fucking ricecel faggots still wouldn't accept me so I would sexually assault one of their noodlewhores on a subway in minecraft
cuz ure not white
 
If you're a decent looking white guy it probably would be less brutal
 
The women there still have high standards, they are still picky, and they are surrounded by constant attention from men (i.e., geomaxxers). If anything, the culture makes it easier for women to ignore you, since politeness covers rejection.
Japan is a horrible place to geomaxx even if you're white. Jap women are still mega picky even for white men and japanese people don't really worship whites like SEAs do. You need to have a high salary which will require the right skills. English teaching is notoriously low paid. Japan also does not allow remote work visas so you can't just earn a 6 figure US salary and arbitrage. The final reason is theyve had a low birthrate for decades so the population of women is dwindling. the thai geomaxxing window is closing for similar reasons. Geomaxxing only works in poor countries with a high birthrate and a low foreigner population. Soon the only viable geomaxx opportunities will be Africa :feelskek:
 
I'm not saying it would lead to translate more chances for me (multiplying 0 by anything always equals zero) I was thinking that maybe it's less insufferable to be constantly reminded by lovelessness. Also if the a larger share of the population is single, maybe the society/culture will adjust more to that share of the population relative to countries where relationships are more common

Yeah, but what I am getting at is that Japan is already like that, and they do not care. The culture has adjusted, just not in a way that helps anyone. If anything, it has become even colder, since so many men retreat into being hikikomori or "herbivore men" rather than fighting against it. You also have to look at why the population is aging so fast and why birth rates keep falling: people are not forming relationships, they are not having sex, and the society just carries on as if that is normal. So yes, there may be fewer public reminders, but the reality is the same, only with more isolation and decline.
 
Maybe. You could either don't give a fuck to woman due to wageslaving or enter in deep angst because you can't have a kawaii (loveable) japanese girlfriend. And they are cute and have beautiful faces and legs, keep that in mind. But you will have access to some prostitutes, soapland parlors and maid cafés, so this can ease the things a little for these two possibilities. It seems they have a pretty wild night life in the metropolitan areas depending on the neigborhood/city, such as Kabukicho and Shinjuku. Shibuya too I guess if you want to be a cool 202X young punk. I know more about Tokyo only but you could find something similar on Osaka and maybe Yokohama. The rest of the top 6 most populated cities can fit the bill too
 
Do you really think geomaxxers know that, though?
I knew white guy who went to japan to geomaxx and he admitted he mostly just fucks indian and filipinos on tinder. Imagine going to japan to get a waifu and you can only get poojetas :feelskek:
 
I think it would be even worse, now people hate you for being ugly + foreign instead of just ugly.
Round eyed devil-monster!
 
how is that any different from living a wagie life literally everywhere else in the developed world
 
it is a lot less brutal because like you said they are polite and leave you alone and things function. Even workers your order food from do so respectfully.
 

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