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It's Over Worst thing you can do is tolerate peer disrespect

Pikacel

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It doesn’t matter if he’s a six foot chad or connected with violent gangs

As soon as you let that occur on a regular basis you are fucked. You won’t have self respect or real boundaries anymore, and will tolerate mistreatment without even realising it.

This can destroy your social life, career prospects, personal goals etc etc. Because you’re letting people on your level do whatever they want to you. Good luck trying to protect anything that matters to you

And once you let peers disrespect you sooner or later everyone will start shitting on you and you won’t give af.
 
It doesn’t matter if he’s a six foot chad or connected with violent gangs

As soon as you let that occur on a regular basis you are fucked. You won’t have self respect or real boundaries anymore, and will tolerate mistreatment without even realising it.

This can destroy your social life, career prospects, personal goals etc etc. Because you’re letting people on your level do whatever they want to you. Good luck trying to protect anything that matters to you

And once you let peers disrespect you sooner or later everyone will start shitting on you and you won’t give af.
The worst thing you can do is give them attention, for they will antagonize you. If you tolerate peer disrespect, they won't care, they will just move onto your lives. This presuposes that they would waste their time and energy on you.
 
Solitude is better than that.
 
The worst thing you can do is give them attention, for they will antagonize you. If you tolerate peer disrespect, they won't care, they will just move onto your lives. This presuposes that they would waste their time and energy on you.
It’s more like

You let person A disrespect you

Then you let person B disrespect you

It adds up and eventually destroys you. Whereas

You tell person A to fuck off, end up in a fight or making some long term enemy

Deal with person B in same way, only positive consequences this time

Sooner or later the benefit of dealing with bullshit outweighs the hassle
 
It’s more like

You let person A disrespect you

Then you let person B disrespect you

It adds up and eventually destroys you. Whereas

You tell person A to fuck off, end up in a fight or making some long term enemy

Deal with person B in same way, only positive consequences this time

Sooner or later the benefit of dealing with bullshit outweighs the hassle
By telling them to fuck off, you are surrendering to them. They are parasites that leech off of any emotional interaction or environment. You are acknowleding their presence. Standing up is just going to cause you more pain. If you keep quiet, they will just move on to another target, because you aren't satisfying them.
 
I hate how this disgusting species is sadistic like this. They take pleasure in causing low-status men pain.
 
By telling them to fuck off, you are surrendering to them. They are parasites that leech off of any emotional interaction or environment. You are acknowleding their presence. Standing up is just going to cause you more pain. If you keep quiet, they will just move on to another target, because you aren't satisfying them.
That’s how I usually approach these situations and it’s a cope

If you back down you lose.
 
Looking back I should've reacted, but what is done is done might as well forget it :feelscry:
 

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